I read her...email? as a chick with clear commitment issues and a hint of "poor me"
dude look...in what I'm about to say...clearly "he's cheating on [me]" but
once I saw an email to and from (no one deletes shit) between my husband and a co-ed
so...before he could deny it, I printed it
I'm a shit head so I called and asked him if he gave out his personal email as opposed to his school email out to anyone at school
"uhm, no?"
"really, no classmates? school project, nothing?"
"uhm .....no"
"nothing to victoria???"
long explanation about how he never talks to her etc
what got my panties ina bunch was that he ended the email with a cutesy little phrase he says to me in emails all the time
fessing up...I would've still been twisted, but was infuriated at the lie that he didnt email her
soyeah, I flipped...took a pic of the printed email and texted it to him...while I was on the phone with him
and proceeded to just in general be a crazy bitch
he saved it by telling the truth
shes a good lookin girl...he didnt want me to be jealous that he WAS talking to her about a school email...he was flirting in the email because no one talks to him at school
and uhm, he didnt think I'd find out and thought Id be furious if he was talking to a hot chick/assigned partner for a project
on honest reflection...he was right
hetried goin the no harm-no foul route and got bagged...and told me that lying to me wasn't the way to go cuz it made it look worse then it was
total bullshit?? IDK
but I bought it and chilled out
moral...DONT LIE YOU"LL GET CAUGHT AND LOOK GUILTY FOR LYING
ps...your girl isnt mature enuff to admit whats really bothering her...her own insecurity...provided your intention wasnt to cheat