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Is playing games a must? Do we do it when we don't even mean to? Does a little game playing help to keep things fresh?
Dating question....
- Thread starter superqt4u2nv
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Hate to say your worng, but the truth is its probale accurate. No one ever seems to appreciate whats given freely and easily.
There's a famous story of a speaker who couldnt get anyone to show up to his seminars when the cost was free or cheap. But when he started charging hundreds for the exact same thing, he would fill to capacity
People instinctively think it has to cost to be worthwhile. Perosnally though Id rather the girl whoi s just sincere and open. I have little patience for games and distance, and it usually sends me looking elsewhere
There's a famous story of a speaker who couldnt get anyone to show up to his seminars when the cost was free or cheap. But when he started charging hundreds for the exact same thing, he would fill to capacity
People instinctively think it has to cost to be worthwhile. Perosnally though Id rather the girl whoi s just sincere and open. I have little patience for games and distance, and it usually sends me looking elsewhere
Dude, no way...Connect Four, all the way...OH! No...one better...UNO!!! LOL
SuperQT...Well, I wasn't in the dating game (no pun intended) very long (Married at 20 yrs to my husband of 9 years) but I did not like games because if the relationship developed, and I became attatched, and then I didn't know if they were playing games with me or being serious from that point on. Just not a fan of bullshit, ya know?
SuperQT...Well, I wasn't in the dating game (no pun intended) very long (Married at 20 yrs to my husband of 9 years) but I did not like games because if the relationship developed, and I became attatched, and then I didn't know if they were playing games with me or being serious from that point on. Just not a fan of bullshit, ya know?
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DieselGunz
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I do not think playin games is a must, but they are always being played.
A person does know when they are playing games, it comes from practice or "game".
I think games are OK as long as nobody gets hurt on purpose.
I think games are played to show who has the "power" in a relationship. No matter how you look at it the man and woman are struggling for power ie: who likes who more? Who tells who what to do? It is a constant struggle but only in the beginning after a while you realize they are either a good person or a ass hole.
Basically games weed out the losers at least in my instances.
A person does know when they are playing games, it comes from practice or "game".
I think games are OK as long as nobody gets hurt on purpose.
I think games are played to show who has the "power" in a relationship. No matter how you look at it the man and woman are struggling for power ie: who likes who more? Who tells who what to do? It is a constant struggle but only in the beginning after a while you realize they are either a good person or a ass hole.
Basically games weed out the losers at least in my instances.
Being bombed for no good fucking reason is a gay game way off topic but some people around here need to grow the fuck up.
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evansteve
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JerseyArt said:
lol, exactly. people are fucked up. I dont know if there is any way around it, I think we are all susceptible to this.
Another example: Energizer batteries received more overall sales when they had their prices marked higher on their batteries than when it was lower.
I'm not sure whether I do this or not (only go after women who are playing hard to get) but I am going to try to make sure I dont do this.
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Spartacus
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blah,another boring female "attention seeking" post
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Spartacus
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"do I look fat in this post?"
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evansteve
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4everhung said:
what? how do you figure?
I think she asked a very valid question.
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Spartacus
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well then answer her fuckin' questionevansteve said:
I have
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evansteve
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4everhung said:
I did too, read my fuckin' post. (the first one I made)
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*MissFit*
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I think guys think i play games, but really i'm just not interested 
Meantime1
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IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO THE RULES
It is that simple and some of you said it best, it is about who has the upper hand, i for one play games only to a certain extent, if i like a person i would let them know i like them, BUT if i feel u are playing me for a fool, i move on very quickly and PUNISH u by NEVER EVER given u a moment of my time, i will NEVER even look your way or acknowledge u exist, it is funny, when i often do that, that is when they sooo want my attention and to spend time with me, BUT the problem is by then i have already moved on
I do think the only way to go around this game thing is to be honest and have a great deal of self respect, if u feel someone is taken u for a ride or playing games, Loose their number soo fast, they would not know what hit them.
It is that simple and some of you said it best, it is about who has the upper hand, i for one play games only to a certain extent, if i like a person i would let them know i like them, BUT if i feel u are playing me for a fool, i move on very quickly and PUNISH u by NEVER EVER given u a moment of my time, i will NEVER even look your way or acknowledge u exist, it is funny, when i often do that, that is when they sooo want my attention and to spend time with me, BUT the problem is by then i have already moved on
I do think the only way to go around this game thing is to be honest and have a great deal of self respect, if u feel someone is taken u for a ride or playing games, Loose their number soo fast, they would not know what hit them.
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*MissFit*
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I show im disinterested. i'm not rude about it though..
I find alot of guys to not get the hint
I find alot of guys to not get the hint
Forge
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CanadianCutie said:
My ex wife had the same kind of behavior, she would drop hints about things but never directly say what she really felt or wanted. I used to always tell her that men can't read minds and we don't think like women do, directness is something we both appreciate and respect. Well, at least I do.
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*MissFit*
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I'm a bit picky though.. sometimes.. i wish that would change..
I have gone out a few times with ppl i don't think im interested in order to give them a chance..
I have gone out a few times with ppl i don't think im interested in order to give them a chance..
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Forge
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CanadianCutie said:
Oh I'm picky too, and I've gone out with people I really wasn't interested in just to give them another chance, but when I made up my mind I've always told them exactly why I was breaking it off. I wouldn't want some girl to just start avoiding me without an explanation so I won't do it to someone else either.
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Spartacus
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beanie babiesevansteve said:
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evansteve
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?4everhung said:
lol
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Spartacus
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well looks like we're gonna have to hijack QT's thread now doesn't it?evansteve said:
steveoramovich
Dirk Howat
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superqt4u2nv said:
Playing games?
Dating is a game.
My take:
I have an ego.
I have a life.
I like girls who:
has an ego
has a life
Interact two people with distinct ego's, personalities and different lifes, you have "games."
If you have two people with no unique lifes, little self esteem. There are no games and it is no fun, because together there is nothing of interest between two nobody, boring people.
superqt4u2nv said:
Yes, until you're settled down......completely......"really old".........you get the picture.
Or else if the two are insanely in love with each other (only in the movies), or perhaps possibly in the case of a traumatic event that brought them very close together.
jdevlin1985
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CanadianCutie said:I think guys think i play games, but really i'm just not interested
I would enjoy seducing you CC. It would merely be an illusion for yourself.
jerseyart said:
Disagree
If a chick plays game while dating I presume she is more prone to do it again if we ever get together than another one who's sincere
As for charging a lot as being a sign of competence.... just look at some consultants from famous consulting companies that charge you hundreds an hour but just sell wind
bigmann245
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games arent fair. if im putting time into a relationship and the woman is playing games then she is wasting my time. i dont have time for games. when i bounced at night clubs i saw a lot of games being played. it got old real fast.
