Dating dilemma

[anthrax]

There is a theory that guys should never tell their GF that they love them, not even that they are attracted to them.
Otherwise, the broad lose interest in the guy at that exact moment.

On the other side, the broad may run out of patience and look somewhere else.

Discuss

 

[alien amp pharm]

The moment you show you care, they lose interest.

 

[*MissFit*]

I wont ever say it first...

 

[Raina]

Fuck that nonsense. That's game playing and overthinking. Speak your mind whether it's good or bad.

 

[stilleto]

if you feel it, say it. don't play games.

 

[BrothaBill]

I agree with Raina and Stilleto, say it with a smirk so they dont know if you are sincere

 

[hamstershaver]

chicks love to hear the L word

 

[EnderJE]

If she loves you, she'll say it back. If she doesn't, then wait and see. If she doesn't love you, then dump the bitch and find the one who will.

 

[Razorguns]

it can be a cluster-fuck. u love her, and she doesn't. what a great way to ruin a relationship.

 

[javaguru]

If you say it and she doesn't immediatly respond in kind without hesitation....you have to break up...that's the rule.

 

[Frisky]

If you say it and she doesn't immediatly respond in kind without hesitation....you have to break up...that's the rule.

damn

LOL


Speak your mind, not all people advance in a relationship at the same pace.. would be nice but its just not the case. She may be thinking it and is too scare to say it or vise versa. If she runs for the hill by you just saying how you feel, she'd prolly leave your ass at the alter too

 

[NjSwunkBee]

I said I love you to a girl once. I was cumming inside her ass at the moment.

 

[Frisky]

I said I love you to a girl once. I was cumming inside her ass at the moment.

Never belive anything a man say's when hes pounding your ass.

 

[theoak01]

i dont play games and express how i feel t he best i can

 

[Tytan]

Don`t say it , unless you mean it. If the girl looses interest in you after that, just move on . You`ll live to love another day....

 

[anthrax]

A lot of mature and responsible answers here....

 

[PBR]

why is it, the women on here dont represent the majority out there in real life??

 

[javaguru]

The same reason every guy on EF makes 200k a year, has a 12" penis, 22" arms and benches 500 pounds....

 

[nycgirl]

why is it, the women on here dont represent the majority out there in real life??

And the men do?

Would you like references?

 

[vinylgroover]

say what you feel, but in my experience, people use the word very loosely.

 

[seizer]

If you love her and you know it, like you're absolutely sure of yourself, than I wouldnt hesitate to tell. But if what you believe or say seem's the least bit pre-mature, keep it sealed.

 

[traddum]

I said I love you to a girl once. I was cumming inside her ass at the moment.

BWWWAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[Quadsweeps Sister]

If you love her and you know it, like you're absolutely sure of yourself, than I wouldnt hesitate to tell. But if what you believe or say seem's the least bit pre-mature, keep it sealed.

I read that part and thought you were gonna break into a song...or clap your hands.

But seriously, I wonder if saying I love you to a girl (or guy) is easier when two people communicate to each other. If two people in a relationship are very close and feel an easy flow of communication between them, then they would most likely sense what the other is feeling and it would be mutual. If you have that type of closeness - unspoken words speak volumes.

Who says I love you first is no matter if two people feel love, or all the other emotions one might feel which brings them joy and happiness. Just holding someone or being with them walking through the woods might make you feel love... I don't know, sometimes it doesn't even have to be said...its a feeling inside.

Games aren't so fun anymore when you start to get older, or are lonely and looking for the feeling truly loving someone brings.

 

[crew9]

And the men do?

Would you like references?

Yes, now!

 

[nycgirl]

Games aren't so fun anymore when you start to get older, or are lonely and looking for the feeling truly loving someone brings.

This is sigworthy.