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Dating chics with kids

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Chicas with kids

  • YAY

    Votes: 7 38.9%

  • NAY

    Votes: 11 61.1%
  • Total voters
    18
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personally i don't do it...though i wouldn't mind being a step-dad some-day.
 
I've never dated anyone with kids but I probably wouldn't mind. I have said I would in the past but now I don't think it's that big a deal. When my dad married my mom she was a widow with 2 little ones. I'm so grateful that he stepped up and opted to parent my sister and I (adopted us in 88). Just because someone has kids though doesn't mean they expect you to be a parent.
 
depends on the girl if I will date her or not,she has to have her shit together,not just some little girl who got knocked up and wants a daddy for the baby
 
i wouldn't mind being a step dad...as long as when i come in the picture the kid is 15 so i don't have to raise the little bastard-child
 
I take it you dont want kids of your own either?

for me there wont be any greater thing then raising a kid who looks up to me,be it my kid or not
 
Nay. If you're around long enough to meet her kid's father, you'll understand why. They're pretty much always passive aggressive and someone you'd like to choke the $h!t out of until their eyes pop out of their head.
 
NJjuice22 said:
call me a hipocrite (i have a kid myself) but i dont want to be taking care of noone elses kids.
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I have a kid too but he doesnt live with me, so its not as much of an issue as dating a girl with kids that are always around. My last girl had 2 kids, so I went from taking my son to McDonalds to taking my son ,her, and her two kids. One big happy family.
 
when HH and I go out we just wait till her kids asleep till we get...uhh, down.
 
Ive never known why these such a stigma about men dating women who have some little munchkins around. Idunno, maybe its because I love kids.

Unless theyre brats...then I would convince her to put them up for adoption.
 
75th said:
Ive never known why these such a stigma about men dating women who have some little munchkins around. Idunno, maybe its because I love kids.

Unless theyre brats...then I would convince her to put them up for adoption.
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lmao,agreed minus the adoption part
 
75th said:
Ive never known why these such a stigma about men dating women who have some little munchkins around. Idunno, maybe its because I love kids.

Unless theyre brats...then I would convince her to put them up for adoption.
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i think for some guys its part of the animal in us (here come the pussies) ...in the wild animals will kill the offspring of another male if they mate with that female. its just a genetic thing i think sometimes..some men dont want to be around and take care of another mans kids. if i was really into the girl and the ex was totally out of the picture i think it wouldnt be a big deal.
 
NJjuice22 said:
i think for some guys its part of the animal in us (here come the pussies) ...in the wild animals will kill the offspring of another male if they mate with that female. its just a genetic thing i think sometimes..some men dont want to be around and take care of another mans kids. if i was really into the girl and the ex was totally out of the picture i think it wouldnt be a big deal.
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Yeah I can see that.

I just figure keep the kids around, but train them to do nothing but chores. Its a win-win situation.
 
Just wait until the kid gets to be about 12 years old and you get to hear "I don't have to listen to you, your not my dad." Then you get the pleasure of having to deal with that asshole to. Better to just avoid that situation completely unless their ex is outta the picure completely. JUST SAY NO!
 
bowtech said:
Just wait until the kid gets to be about 12 years old and you get to hear "I don't have to listen to you, your not my dad." Then you get the pleasure of having to deal with that asshole to. Better to just avoid that situation completely unless their ex is outta the picure completely. JUST SAY NO!
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Thats when the adoption comes into play.
 
I try not to get too involved wit hchicks with kids. You'll always be #2 and have to work dates and get aways around her kid's schedule. I currently bone a chick with a kid once in a while, it's a pain in the ass trying to get some when she has the kid.
 
75th said:
Ive never known why these such a stigma about men dating women who have some little munchkins around. Idunno, maybe its because I love kids.

Unless theyre brats...then I would convince her to put them up for adoption.
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The stigma is because there's always going to be someone in her life who is more important than you.
 
Mr. dB said:
The stigma is because there's always going to be someone in her life who is more important than you.
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Kill them, stuff them, then lie them in bed. Just convince her they need their sleep as the grow older.

If she gets suspicious, slip her some Kettamine.
 
It isnt easy. My wife and I have 6 kids, 4 hers and 2 mine.

Fortunately, their father isnt in the picture but its still difficult raising someone who's personality traits are so different, your kids generally learn how you are and for the most part will respond to you in the manner most suitable.. other peoples children do not.. it can get frustrating and Ive lost my temper more than a few times with her kids.

Fot the most part the YOUNGER the kids the better, especialy if their ex isnt in the picture.. its quite a bit harder if their older, especially if the kid is a girl. They can be extremely vindictive and nasty.
 
Mr. dB said:
The stigma is because there's always going to be someone in her life who is more important than you.
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Agreed. W/ regard to men that have children, the woman he is seeing is ranked third or fourth.

I will never date anyone with children (yes, I don't want children). I don't have any obligations. I don't even have a plant. Everyone has busy schedules. But, when you add children to the mix . . . isn't going to work for me.
 
bowtech said:
Just wait until the kid gets to be about 12 years old and you get to hear "I don't have to listen to you, your not my dad." Then you get the pleasure of having to deal with that asshole to. Better to just avoid that situation completely unless their ex is outta the picure completely. JUST SAY NO!
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If the kids are raised right in the first place, this shouldnt happen.
 
milo hobgoblin said:
It isnt easy. My wife and I have 6 kids, 4 hers and 2 mine.

Fortunately, their father isnt in the picture but its still difficult raising someone who's personality traits are so different, your kids generally learn how you are and for the most part will respond to you in the manner most suitable.. other peoples children do not.. it can get frustrating and Ive lost my temper more than a few times with her kids.

Fot the most part the YOUNGER the kids the better, especialy if their ex isnt in the picture.. its quite a bit harder if their older, especially if the kid is a girl. They can be extremely vindictive and nasty.
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I agree the younger the better but I've found it harder to deal with the boys. Around eight or nine years old they seem to become openly hostile to any male, part oedipus complex and they often see themselves as "the man" of the house. If their mother hasn't been a good disciplinarian it can get really ugly too. In the end, if they have a good mother it will work out and there are benefits to dating a single mother. I've said it before but if you appreciate maturity and responsibility in a partner a good single mother brings a lot to the table.
 
i would and i believe id be a hipocrite of i didnt. i have a 7 year old son so if i said no to a woman because she has kids id look like a moron. now if she had like 5 or 6 kids thats different. not sayiong i wouldnt its just i would have to really love the woman in order to justify the brady bunch insta family...
 
milo hobgoblin said:
It isnt easy. My wife and I have 6 kids, 4 hers and 2 mine.

Fortunately, their father isnt in the picture but its still difficult raising someone who's personality traits are so different, your kids generally learn how you are and for the most part will respond to you in the manner most suitable.. other peoples children do not.. it can get frustrating and Ive lost my temper more than a few times with her kids.

Fot the most part the YOUNGER the kids the better, especialy if their ex isnt in the picture.. its quite a bit harder if their older, especially if the kid is a girl. They can be extremely vindictive and nasty.
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damn 4 kids i can see why your so pissy all the time lol
 
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