Dating attitude

[anthrax]

Let's say you start nice and friendly with a woman
Then you realize that you'd rather see her as your GF than "just a friend"
So you ask her out
But she politely declines

What do you do?

You leave?
You don't give up and expect her to change her mind?
Keep seeing her as a friend?
....?

 

[theoak01]

keep her as a friend

 

[NJjuice22]

i would be out.

 

[javaguru]

Whatever you do, don't be that hanger on waiting in the shadows for her to have a weak moment while you bad mouth her boyfriends and act as her "cuddle whore." IMO, whatever allows you to maintain your self-respect!

 

[vansmack2000]

f(x)=Abs[A/(wa-x-I Ga)+k E^(I t)]^2

 

[bran987]

Michael Scott says you should never give up.

500 karma hits to anyone that gets that reference

 

[vansmack2000]

Michael Scott says you should never give up.

500 karma hits to anyone that gets that reference

whos the boss

 

[bran987]

whos the boss

That would be Tony Macelli, lol, try again

 

[anthrax]

keep her as a friend

Seems the best thing to do but a lot of guys are too proud for that

 

[Daisy_]

How good of friends are you before you asked her out? I would stay being her friend, she would probably be sad if you didn't want to be friends anymore just because she doesnt want anything more.

 

[jackangel]

yeah wouldn't want her to be sad

i say you should do the thing which totally makes her the least sad

because sad is bad

 

[theoak01]

Seems the best thing to do but a lot of guys are too proud for that

agreed,most of my friends have the " i have enough friends attitude" but i dont think you can ever have to many friends,good friends are hard to find and if you wanted to date her shes definite friend material.

 

[covergrl80]

Keep her as a friend.

 

[thelion2005]

Let's say you start nice and friendly with a woman
Then you realize that you'd rather see her as your GF than "just a friend"
So you ask her out
But she politely declines

What do you do?

You leave?
You don't give up and expect her to change her mind?
Keep seeing her as a friend?
....?

Smile ... nod ... and say OK. Walk away and go on with your life.
Whiskey and dogs are your friends.

 

[swole]

This is so fucking easy.

Drop the nice guy act and start being a dickjerk. She will at first be surprised, then intruiged. Act like a God and do something that makes her know you no longer give a shit about her, throw her a bone every now and then. At this point she will be drawn to you. Once that happens, reject her since she was shallow enough to not give you a chance, then gloat in a pile of your own inflated sef-esteem once you reject her like she did to you. Finally, find another girl who likes you for your true self, and enjoy a great relationship with this newfound fun girl while forcing the original girl who rejected you slit her own wrists in a warm bath, easing her way to a calm death...just like the Romans did back in the day.

 

[Daisy_]

This is so fucking easy.

Drop the nice guy act and start being a dickjerk. She will at first be surprised, then intruiged. Act like a God and do something that makes her know you no longer give a shit about her, throw her a bone every now and then. At this point she will be drawn to you. Once that happens, reject her since she was shallow enough to not give you a chance, then gloat in a pile of your own inflated sef-esteem once you reject her like she did to you. Finally, find another girl who likes you for your true self, and enjoy a great relationship with this newfound fun girl while forcing the original girl who rejected you slit her own wrists in a warm bath, easing her way to a calm death...just like the Romans did back in the day.

That sooo wouldn't work on me.

 

[swole]

That sooo wouldn't work on me.

I know. That's why I love you. You remind me of my last serious girlfriend, no joke. You're above the rest.

 

[jackangel]

That sooo wouldn't work on me.

what have you got against the romans?

racist.

 

[Daisy_]

I know. That's why I love you. You remind me of my last serious girlfriend, no joke. You're above the rest.

Awww, tee hee. Love ya too

 

[*MissFit*]

once i see a guy as a friend i often dont view him as more.. usually he is a friend because im not sexually attracted to him

 

[EnderJE]

I know. That's why I love you. You remind me of my last serious girlfriend, no joke. You're above the rest.

So, she's having YOUR kid?

 

[PBR]

keep her as a friend...as time goes on, most likely you will slowly drift apart and go on to other things...there are times when being friends, leads to a more serious relationship. but as MissFit pointed out, if the attraction is one-sided- you will eventually go seperate ways...

if attraction is mutual- then realizing that being friends is a great foundation to encourage something more. but this will take some time to develop. sometimes we dont see the best things happening right in front of our faces.

 

[*MissFit*]

dating is hard and so is male/female friendships.

but i think women hold the cards when u wanna turn from a friend to more

 

[PBR]

dating is hard and so is male/female friendships.

but i think women hold the cards when u wanna turn from a friend to more

yes they do...i agree. you guys hold the cards in just about everything when it comes to relationships.

 

[anthrax]

dating is hard and so is male/female friendships.

but i think women hold the cards when u wanna turn from a friend to more

True, very unfortunately
If ever there is a God, he seriously screwed up on this stuff