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Cousin killed himself yesterday

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This is fucked.

(names all changed)


This dude Jack married my cousin Kate years ago, about 25 years ago to be exact. They had two children, but it was a rocky relationship, Kate was not faithful, both were drug addicts (meth mostly), Kate even got busted working as a prostitute.

Jack, while having his shortcomings, distanced himself from the situation but did his best to take care of the two children. He had a tough time, but made things work most of the time. Worked as an auto mechanic. Got busted embezzeling money with another co worker and did some recent time in prison for that.

While in prison my cousin Kate was writing him letters daily, said she wanted to get married again, be a family, etc. THis really got him through his prison stint.

He gets out, and they go and get a marriage license. The thing is, Kate was seeing some other dude, her drug dealer of course, and Jack said hell no, if we are getting married we're gonna be clean and you can't see this guy. Kate said no way, so marriage is off. Strike 1.

Strike 2 is the Child Protective Services says he is not allowed to see his 15 year old daughter, Eileen. This crushed him, but with his history, you can't blame him.

Strike 3 was that Jack was living with my Aunt Beth. Aunt Beth was good to him, loves him like a son. The catch here is that Jack's Daughter Eileen lives with Aunt Beth, who else can she live with? Her mother is a drug addicted whore and her father was in prison.

Before prison, Jack was living with Aunt Beth, but because of the CPS order, he can't be near his daugher, so he couldn't live with Aunt Beth anymore. a HUGE strike 3 for him.

He was depressed and hopeless this entire month.

On Sunday Aunt Beth comes home and tried to open her garage and it won't open all the way, so goes inside the house and goes into the garage. Jack's truck is in there and running. There is a hose running from the tailpipe to the front cabin. Jack is laying back in the seat reclined, and dead.
 
i'm sorry.
 
this is a side of my family I've distanced myself from. They have all struggled with a variety of issues, usually drug. Aunt Beth's husband (my uncle) killed himself a few years ago because he was bankrupt and his house was foreclosed. He couldn't tell my Aunt the news and instead chose to take his life.

Makes me appreciate of what I have, how easy my life seems, but at the same time its family and I wish there was something I could do, especially for a kids, they really don't even stand a chance, doomed from the start considering their parents.
 
Im sorry you and your family are going through this. This kind of thing is so tragic and devastating to the loved ones left behind. I feel for you. I've been through this but it was my uncle and he and I were very very close.
 
Lestat said:
This is fucked.

(names all changed)


This dude Jack married my cousin Kate years ago, about 25 years ago to be exact. They had two children, but it was a rocky relationship, Kate was not faithful, both were drug addicts (meth mostly), Kate even got busted working as a prostitute.

Jack, while having his shortcomings, distanced himself from the situation but did his best to take care of the two children. He had a tough time, but made things work most of the time. Worked as an auto mechanic. Got busted embezzeling money with another co worker and did some recent time in prison for that.

While in prison my cousin Kate was writing him letters daily, said she wanted to get married again, be a family, etc. THis really got him through his prison stint.

He gets out, and they go and get a marriage license. The thing is, Kate was seeing some other dude, her drug dealer of course, and Jack said hell no, if we are getting married we're gonna be clean and you can't see this guy. Kate said no way, so marriage is off. Strike 1.

Strike 2 is the Child Protective Services says he is not allowed to see his 15 year old daughter, Eileen. This crushed him, but with his history, you can't blame him.

Strike 3 was that Jack was living with my Aunt Beth. Aunt Beth was good to him, loves him like a son. The catch here is that Jack's Daughter Eileen lives with Aunt Beth, who else can she live with? Her mother is a drug addicted whore and her father was in prison.

Before prison, Jack was living with Aunt Beth, but because of the CPS order, he can't be near his daugher, so he couldn't live with Aunt Beth anymore. a HUGE strike 3 for him.

He was depressed and hopeless this entire month.

On Sunday Aunt Beth comes home and tried to open her garage and it won't open all the way, so goes inside the house and goes into the garage. Jack's truck is in there and running. There is a hose running from the tailpipe to the front cabin. Jack is laying back in the seat reclined, and dead.

My condolences bro.

So Jack was your cousin too?
 
Lestat said:
this is a side of my family I've distanced myself from. They have all struggled with a variety of issues, usually drug. Aunt Beth's husband (my uncle) killed himself a few years ago because he was bankrupt and his house was foreclosed. He couldn't tell my Aunt the news and instead chose to take his life.

Makes me appreciate of what I have, how easy my life seems, but at the same time its family and I wish there was something I could do, especially for a kids, they really don't even stand a chance, doomed from the start considering their parents.

I feel for your aunt, who has had to deal with suicide twice now.
 
wow. My prayers to you bro, that is a horrible tragedy. Havent dealt much with suicide so i feel for you, but dont know exactly how you feel. Best wishes getting through this. -DOC
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
My condolences bro.

So Jack was your cousin too?
Here is how it worked, keep in mind all this took place before I was born so they were raised alongside of us as family.

My Aunt Beth Married a guy named James. He ALREADY had two children. One of those children was Kate.

So James is my Uncle, by marriage. his kids Kate and Shirly, we raised alongside my Aunt Beth's daughter Jane as cousins of mine.

Kate marries Jack, so he is my cousin by law and marriage? No blood relation, but still, you can see how we were all raised up to know each other as cousins.

Their kids are not my blood relatives either, but look up to me in a big way.
 
Sorry to hear that man. He took the easy way out. I can't judge what goes on inside another person's head though.
 
that sucks bro
but, at least they aren't blood relatives.
that does make a difference i think.
 
Moltke said:
that sucks bro
but, at least they aren't blood relatives.
that does make a difference i think.
i'm almost ashamed to say I agree. had that whole group been blood relatives I think it'd affect me a lot more.
 
I'd rather stick around and make everyone's life miserable around me....And, I'd not be able to do it, I'm either too weak or too stubborn, take your pick.
 
Lestat said:
i'm almost ashamed to say I agree. had that whole group been blood relatives I think it'd affect me a lot more.
no need to be ashamed bro, be proud that your blood is not tainted with this type of weakness.
i know that sounds insensitive but i think you know what i mean...had it been somebody closer, like a bro or sis, you may begin to question if that could someday be you
 
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