code of ethics???

[gttnbig82]

just found out a friend of my starting seeing my ex. fiance.
the two of them have been shady about the whole situation,
Im totally pissed about the whole situation. I would never do this to a friend let alone my friends ex fiance!!
Anyone agrre with being pissed or do I not have a right to be pissed.
Should he have atleast asked if it was cool to see her first??

 

[Prizz]

just found out a friend of my starting seeing my ex. fiance.
the two of them have been shady about the whole situation,
Im totally pissed about the whole situation. I would never do this to a friend let alone my friends ex fiance!!
Anyone agrre with being pissed or do I not have a right to be pissed.
Should he have atleast asked if it was cool to see her first??

I don't think I'd do it to any of my friends either..... He at least should have asked you out for a beer, and spilled it on you..... I dont know man, guys get weird when it comes to chicks.... If he is a good friend, I think you have a right being pissed.... If he's just a casual friend, then I'm not as sure.... Truth is, you feel played, and youre pissed..... It sucks, and I feel for ya bro.... Just don't let the anger get to ya, and get violent.... You will end up in jail over a fucking hussy, and it's not worth it..... Just be cool, and let it blow over..... That's my take anyway...

rizz

 

[gttnbig82]

thanks man!!! Im trying to let it blow over but I just found out like 15 min ago Im FUCKING FUMMING. I called him to invite him to my house warming he didnt pick his phone up, innocently I called the ex she picked up and heard him in the back ground asking if it was me calling. she admitted it was him there.

 

[Big_Joe]

What you think you own her??? She is your X right? Your buds have to come to you and clear who they go out with??? Grow up!!! Maybe there's a reason she's your X.

 

[sparetire]

Well, personally, out of respect, YES, I would ask a buddy, but honestly, if I were that much into her, I'd probably date her anyhow. But, on serious note, if my best friend was banging the snot out of her and then I got her next in line, that would be kinda weird, creepy and gross. Think about it, your going where your friend came and went. YUCK. You're sleeping with your best friend..might as well pull out the rainbow sticker and slap it on your bumper! Besides, its one thing to know that your girl had others, but its another to know who they were! Just say to him the next time you see him, "So, you like sloppy seconds huh? How do I taste?" LOL

 

[Raptorex]

any pics? we could vote on whether you should be mad.

 

[boops]

Well, personally, out of respect, YES, I would ask a buddy, but honestly, if I were that much into her, I'd probably date her anyhow. But, on serious note, if my best friend was banging the snot out of her and then I got her next in line, that would be kinda weird, creepy and gross. Think about it, your going where your friend came and went. YUCK. You're sleeping with your best friend..might as well pull out the rainbow sticker and slap it on your bumper! Besides, its one thing to know that your girl had others, but its another to know who they were! Just say to him the next time you see him, "So, you like sloppy seconds huh? How do I taste?" LOL

that says it all right there but i would change that word ask to something like "let him know" because i dont think you need approval just let him know so hes aware and dont find out through word of mouth....and the other bro is correct as well that said about you thinking you own her, just cuz it was your X-fiance dont mean anything she is an X and its that way for whatever reason but as soon as you guys ended it that ended whatever ties you may have had to her.....

 

[biteme]

All's fair in love and war. No, you don't have a right to be pissed, but that doesn't mean that you won't be.

 

[BOWTECH]

All's fair in love and war. No, you don't have a right to be pissed, but that doesn't mean that you won't be.

Agree

 

[HiDnGoD]

All's fair in love and war. No, you don't have a right to be pissed, but that doesn't mean that you won't be.

Exactly.
A little heads up woulfd have been nice, but, give them a break. They were probably worried about how you'd react and were either putting off the inevitable confrontation, or were trying to figure out where it was going before deciding if it was worth springing on you. Either way shows they were, at least a little, thinking of your feelings.