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Class Bully?

vixenbabe

Classy Skank
Do you recall the bully in your school? Were you the that bully?

Why did you torment the other kids? Or.... Did you get picked on?

I recall my school bully VERY well. Brian Rotunda....I often wonder what he turned into as an adult.

I met Bri's class bully yesterday, Ian! I offered to help for a few hours in her class. Ian,the bully, is VERY TALL, has red hair, mega freckles! Ian likes to write on my daugther's white shirts and push her and the other children. I'd love to tell her to drop kick him to be honest!

Once Ian gets comfy with having me around he says , " Are you Bri's mom?". I respond, "Yes". He smiles and says, " I like that blonde haired, blue eyed philly".(HE'S SIX FOR GOD'S SAKE!)

Always thinking, I say to him , " You know what, Ian? If you want to win her heart you need to stop writing on or pushing her and the other kids". He says, " I don't like her THAT much....".

Damn kid stopped me dead in my tracks!
 
Remember, children are products of parents' upbringing. Whether we like it or not, we take certain traits after our parents. Have you met that kid's parents? LOL.

I was a major jock back in school but I never was a bully. Didn't feel like tormenting other kids was a fun thing to do.
 
LOL!!!! Start bribing him.

He is probably getting beat on at home.
 
i remember the dudes that used to ask me for ,then take most of my lunch back in the day, now im bigger that them!
(i would have been bigger if i had gotten the chance to eat my own lunch!!)

i remember the dudes that took sum of my ceedees from school (i was too weak and short and shy to do anything about it)
Nowadays i do alot better than them and have alot more ceedees then i did back then.
 
Most bullies suffer from some sort of interanl pain... i reccomend external pain to help them.
 
Wodin, that thought crossed my mind! I hope it's not true.

Khmer Rogue - I have not met his mom or dad- YET! I did mention Ian to her teacher during conferences. She did admit that Ian is a "problem" in class. Bri is not his only target. I should arrange a play date and let Bri kick the shit outta him...lol I'd not allow that to happen at school....but... I could set up a boxing ring here at the house..hehehe
 
I got bullied in primary school.
was fat, smart and had silly glasses and never really did anything back. perfect target.

other than that i was easily the tallest and largest kid in the school and when somebody had kicked my ass, theyd be cool enough "to be in the group". so people were always agressive to me there. some later towards age 12 it kinda stopped but was still a loner.

in HS it took me 2 years or so to get some good friends and finally have somewhat of a social life. im now in 5th year and doing fine.

I also got contacts and got lean and big (well, for HS standards)

:mix:
 
i also recall a time, i think about 2 years when I would be ambushed by a group of kids from the local christian primary school and they would damage my bike and kick me.

I`m agnost from an atheist family and i live in a small rural community town where the majority of the population is fundamental reformed protestant.

I was in the only not religion founded primary school in town and the only kid there that would admit to them i dont go to church so i was their target then.

I think for about a year i took a detour home.
the year after i saw the kid who acted like the leader of these kids lol alone on the ice skating track lol and i dropped him on the ice and kicked his shins and then his eye socket with my skate im still not sure if he broke anything but he was kinda messed up.

i think that taught him.

lol.... memories.

I`m 16 now btw. this is all long ago
 
HUlkROW...What are ceedee's? New term I'm not familiar with? I'm old..bare with me on this new lingo...

Robert Ian..Funny how people change huh? I got picked on for my name....Gabrielle..which was shortened for Gabby...Hence the boys calling me Scabby Gabby...AGGGHHHH!

Saint....I'm thinking Ian, Bri's bully , is an un-known" love child "of Citruscide's...lol kidding!
 
vixenbabe said:

Once Ian gets comfy with having me around he says , " Are you Bri's mom?". I respond, "Yes". He smiles and says, " I like that blonde haired, blue eyed philly".(HE'S SIX FOR GOD'S SAKE!)

Always thinking, I say to him , " You know what, Ian? If you want to win her heart you need to stop writing on or pushing her and the other kids". He says, " I don't like her THAT much....".

Damn kid stopped me dead in my tracks!


Are you sure he's not a member of this board?:confused: ;)
 
vixenbabe said:
HUlkROW...What are ceedee's? New term I'm not familiar with? I'm old..bare with me on this new lingo...
CeeDees = CD'S! .

if people can call M.C's "emcees" ,then i can call CD'S "Ceedees".
 
We had one bully in particular who did not change until after high school. He was your typical jock. His favorite target of abuse was one of the special ed students named Rusty Rose... this kid wil be engrained in my memory banks forever. Rusty was in a different world and he also liked professional wrestling... he liked it so much that he made his own belt in shop class. He wore or carried that belt everywhere and everyone knew he wasn't all there in the head so we just let it go. One day during a lunch period we were all sitting in the commons eating our crap food as the school bully decided it was pick on Rusty time. B.C. (the bully) told Rusty he was gonna take his belt and break his undefeated streak.. this got Rusty all riled up and everyone was laughing as the 2 exchanged verbal insults with Rusty not being that much worse than BC. BC snatched the homeade belt and starts telling the whole commons area how cool he is for picking on this retarded kid. This goes on for about 10 mins. So BC turns to Rusty and tosses him the belt after the kid starts crying. As BC turns around to brag to his felllow jocks everyone could see Rusty's tears turn off like a faucet and he got this look in his eye. Next thing you know he clocks BC from behind with his belt and knocks him down... it was the funniest thing I have ever seen... the whole lunch room was cracking up including BC's other jock friends. Then Rusty trash talks him and proceeds to walk outside thinking he had successfully retained the title. BC gets up and is pissed off as hell and as he walks outside so does everyone else... we all had to see what was gonna happen. Some of his jock friends were trying to talk him out of doing anything in retaliation but i guess his pride had been damaged too bad. He gets outside and starts giving Rusty the riot act and everyone figured the typical "high school" fight would ensue. Rusty says, "here you want this belt, well then just take it." Rusty throws the belt to him and as BC is catching it he gets kicked in the nuts. BC bends over from the pain and Rusty grabs him by the head in a head lock and proceeds to DDT him straight onto the concrete. The teachers are arriving at this point and grab Rusty. BC is out cold on the concrete laying in a puddle of his own blood. Funniest thing I had ever seen. Looking in retrospect it's honestly lucky he did not kill him. However before they took Rusty away he was allowed to grab his belt and had successfully defended his title twice that day.
 
probably keith sailor or joe buchanon. I'm not sure though, but they were the main high school bullies, among others. Jason Horner used to bully me and me alone. I wasn't popular in school (i was really shy & didn't defend myself. wasn't unpopular though), and towards the end of high school i started fucking up royally.

Sad part is i never fought back back then. Now that i'm a shitload more mature and would fight back i don't get any opportunities. A couple of months ago i saw zach whiteneck where i worked, and he fucked with me. But it was a new job & i didn't want to get fired. I went home & tried to find his address on the internet & couldn't :(.

Lets see. Kyle Abernathy was in Meijer. He started harassing me (i'm not sure, maybe he just wanted conversation), so i confronted him. he started making small talk, and i left. I don't know if he backed down when he realized i was going to fight back or if his intents were never malicious.

P.S., i know this is pathetic, having to deal with bullies when you graduated 5 years ago but that is life. I'm prepared to grow up if others are too, and i'm prepared to get violent if need be.
 
Vix...is Bri in public school?

My daughter's in a Montessouri school (5th grade now, been there since pre-school) where none of this shit is tollerated. Her class got a new kid this year who wasn't being respectful...nothing physical or really mean, just now showing respect to the others and being rude. The kids explained to the new girl how things work at this school...there is no "cool" group, no "nerds" and everyone treats eachother fairly. They're teaching her by example. The new girl is turning around slowly. It's amazing how far patience and kindness can go.

With young kids, most of their influence is coming from within the home. I feel bad for the bully...he probably gets no real love. It's a shame. Some people just aren't meant to be parents.
 
saint808 said:
We had one bully in particular who did not change until after high school. He was your typical jock. His favorite target of abuse was one of the special ed students named Rusty Rose... this kid wil be engrained in my memory banks forever. Rusty was in a different world and he also liked professional wrestling... he liked it so much that he made his own belt in shop class. He wore or carried that belt everywhere and everyone knew he wasn't all there in the head so we just let it go. One day during a lunch period we were all sitting in the commons eating our crap food as the school bully decided it was pick on Rusty time. B.C. (the bully) told Rusty he was gonna take his belt and break his undefeated streak.. this got Rusty all riled up and everyone was laughing as the 2 exchanged verbal insults with Rusty not being that much worse than BC. BC snatched the homeade belt and starts telling the whole commons area how cool he is for picking on this retarded kid. This goes on for about 10 mins. So BC turns to Rusty and tosses him the belt after the kid starts crying. As BC turns around to brag to his felllow jocks everyone could see Rusty's tears turn off like a faucet and he got this look in his eye. Next thing you know he clocks BC from behind with his belt and knocks him down... it was the funniest thing I have ever seen... the whole lunch room was cracking up including BC's other jock friends. Then Rusty trash talks him and proceeds to walk outside thinking he had successfully retained the title. BC gets up and is pissed off as hell and as he walks outside so does everyone else... we all had to see what was gonna happen. Some of his jock friends were trying to talk him out of doing anything in retaliation but i guess his pride had been damaged too bad. He gets outside and starts giving Rusty the riot act and everyone figured the typical "high school" fight would ensue. Rusty says, "here you want this belt, well then just take it." Rusty throws the belt to him and as BC is catching it he gets kicked in the nuts. BC bends over from the pain and Rusty grabs him by the head in a head lock and proceeds to DDT him straight onto the concrete. The teachers are arriving at this point and grab Rusty. BC is out cold on the concrete laying in a puddle of his own blood. Funniest thing I had ever seen. Looking in retrospect it's honestly lucky he did not kill him. However before they took Rusty away he was allowed to grab his belt and had successfully defended his title twice that day.
thats a crack up.
 
Saint..Rusty had enough and SNAPPED!

Reminds me of a girl in my eight grade class. She was in special Ed as well. All the kids made fun of her. It was really bad. Her own brother's even got in on the verball abuse. I use to ride the bus with her and NO ONE wanted to sit with her. It was sad. I always felt bad for her. I never made fun of her, but I never defended her either. I have some guilt about that too.

We moved to Ca. when I was 13. I kept in touch with some of my friends. They told me that Rene, the girl above, took a gun to school with her one day ..Shot herself in the girl's bathroom.

Now... I'm depressed thinking about this....

Nordstrom..Kisses to ya doll!
 
MrsPuddlesFL said:
Vix...is Bri in public school?

My daughter's in a Montessouri school (5th grade now, been there since pre-school) where none of this shit is tollerated. Her class got a new kid this year who wasn't being respectful...nothing physical or really mean, just now showing respect to the others and being rude. The kids explained to the new girl how things work at this school...there is no "cool" group, no "nerds" and everyone treats eachother fairly. They're teaching her by example. The new girl is turning around slowly. It's amazing how far patience and kindness can go.

With young kids, most of their influence is coming from within the home. I feel bad for the bully...he probably gets no real love. It's a shame. Some people just aren't meant to be parents.

This is the way schools should be. On a different note I used to be a bit of a bully and still am. I can't figure out why I have not matured all that much.
 
MrsPuddlesFL said:
Vix...is Bri in public school?

Chatting and talking on the phone..PLus slow ' puter...Sorry!

No, she attends private Catholic school. I'm guessing they need a Sister Mary like I had when I was in private school...She'd take no shit and get her ruler out on some knuckles....:)
 
Vix you know kids parrot what they experience..
 
Wodin...l

I hear ya. I want her to defend herself without throwing any punches. I do not want her walked on! Know what I mean?

I'm also thinking Ian's dad is a perv of some sort for the philly comment. lol
 
I went to Catholic school too...the nun's were as vicious as some of the bully's! LOL

Since you're paying tuition, doesn't it piss you off that they're letting this kid act out? Having a kid like this in the class is a distraction to the other kids. He needs to be taught some self control and respect. Imagine what he'll be like in a few more years if someone doesn't get on his ass now.

Last year my daughter got into trouble for a physical confrentation with one of the boys. She pretty much kicked his butt. LOL After I got the whole story out of her and the other girls involved, it was ok though...the kids were just playing rough and she was defending herself. At first though, my daughter and a couple of other girls had to write sentences and appologize to the boys and the boys claimed complete innocence and weren't punnished. After I got with the teacher and she questioned the boys again, they had to write sentences and appologize to the girls. Sometimes we parents have to step in and confront the teachers...I hate doing that, but I'm paying them a fair chunck of cash for a good education and a quality learning environment!

My daughter knows it's ok to defend herself if she HAS to, but she also learned that it would have been better in this situation to use some self control and not have to pay the consequences of irrational behaviour.
 
HulkRow said:
and have alot more ceedees then i did back then.

Wow. Ain't that sumthin. Impressive to say the least.
You know what they say... "the best revenge is to live well", or some shit like that.
 
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Saint - paragraphs are a beautiful thing, try em' out some time.
 
saint808 said:
We had one bully in particular who did not change until after high school. He was your typical jock. His favorite target of abuse was one of the special ed students named Rusty Rose... this kid wil be engrained in my memory banks forever. Rusty was in a different world and he also liked professional wrestling... he liked it so much that he made his own belt in shop class. He wore or carried that belt everywhere and everyone knew he wasn't all there in the head so we just let it go. One day during a lunch period we were all sitting in the commons eating our crap food as the school bully decided it was pick on Rusty time. B.C. (the bully) told Rusty he was gonna take his belt and break his undefeated streak.. this got Rusty all riled up and everyone was laughing as the 2 exchanged verbal insults with Rusty not being that much worse than BC. BC snatched the homeade belt and starts telling the whole commons area how cool he is for picking on this retarded kid. This goes on for about 10 mins. So BC turns to Rusty and tosses him the belt after the kid starts crying. As BC turns around to brag to his felllow jocks everyone could see Rusty's tears turn off like a faucet and he got this look in his eye. Next thing you know he clocks BC from behind with his belt and knocks him down... it was the funniest thing I have ever seen... the whole lunch room was cracking up including BC's other jock friends. Then Rusty trash talks him and proceeds to walk outside thinking he had successfully retained the title. BC gets up and is pissed off as hell and as he walks outside so does everyone else... we all had to see what was gonna happen. Some of his jock friends were trying to talk him out of doing anything in retaliation but i guess his pride had been damaged too bad. He gets outside and starts giving Rusty the riot act and everyone figured the typical "high school" fight would ensue. Rusty says, "here you want this belt, well then just take it." Rusty throws the belt to him and as BC is catching it he gets kicked in the nuts. BC bends over from the pain and Rusty grabs him by the head in a head lock and proceeds to DDT him straight onto the concrete. The teachers are arriving at this point and grab Rusty. BC is out cold on the concrete laying in a puddle of his own blood. Funniest thing I had ever seen. Looking in retrospect it's honestly lucky he did not kill him. However before they took Rusty away he was allowed to grab his belt and had successfully defended his title twice that day.


:bawling: :bawling: That's damn near the most heart warming story I could ever hope to hear. :bawling: :bawling:


My feeling has always been that bullies are basically chickensh-ts. They strut around like they are badasses, but if they "like" to fight - how come they never go up to the biggest strongest motherf-cker around and pick on him? He'd put up a great fight. Nope. They always seek out the little guy, the scared kid, the gentle kid. They always seek out somebody to bully that they feel safe with.

My "daughter" is 16. She came home from school yesterday and told me about how she found a girl her age sitting on the floor fo the locker room crying. She asked the girl what was wrong and the girl told her that another girl had been picking on her, knocking her down in the school yard. My daughter told her, "She picks on you because you are afraid to fight."

My daughter had it right. The other girl didn't want to fight. She wanted to pick on somebody who wouldn't fight back.

I think this is why it is so important to teach a kid from a very early age that they have to grow up with the courage to defend themselves.
 
I think this is why it is so important to teach a kid from a very early age that they have to grow up with the courage to defend themselves. [/B][/QUOTE]

Sofa,

Hell yes it is. That is great parenting!
 
Mrs Puddles..SofaG and Polish1977...I hear you loud and clear.

We pay a hefty tution! In my "world" I thought I would NOT have to worry about the Ian's of this world...SILLY ME!

Bri's teacher is a great lady with a lot of compassion. She IS working with Ian's mom and dad on his behavior. I just do not want my kid, or any other child, to be the testing grounds for his behavior "therapy"!

I will inform Bri that if Ian writes on her again..I'll be sending a bill to Ian's mom and dad for NEW shirts. Maybe they'll get the hint if it hits them in the pocket!?

If he touches her again...We will make it VERY clear that they better suspend Ian. If school ignores my point... I'll allow her to kick the snot outta him. I hate the thought of having to teach my daughter to fight at age 6! WELCOME TO PARENTHOOD, RIGHT? Arrrghhh!
 
I was picked on and bullied in 8th grade. Never did shit because I didn't want to be suspended.

One day Mr. Bully tried the same shit as I was on my way to my mom's car and had left school grounds. I snapped, beat the living shit out of him until he begged me to stop. He missed the following day of school and came back limping. He never said a word to me again.

Looking back, I kind of regret it.... not beating the shit out of him in class earlier, that is. Would have saved me months of hassle.

-Warik
 
Actually, I think I was using a Hulkamania lunch box at that time. WHATCHA GONNA DO WHEN THE BULLIED KID'S PYTHONS RUN WILD ON YOU BROTHER?!?!?!!
 
I never had a bully, I was a very small kid pretty much all the way through high school, (I graduated at 5'4" 128"), but I was pretty much friends with all the cliques... There this one guy though, (Steve) that used to always pick on this other kid (Rob). Similar dickhead bully situation: Rob could possibly have been the goofiest looking kid you ever saw, HUGE coke-bottle glasses, a forehead so big you could've called it a five-head, buck teeth, the works, but he was the nicest kid around... Asshole (Steve) used to fuck with him CONSTANTLY, especially in gym class, when he was most vulnerable.

One day, in the middle of one of asshole's laugh-fests at Rob's expense, there's Rob, pants around his ankles, top of his BVD's missing from the power-wedgie of the day, looking like he's about to cry his eyes out, so I say something:

"Steve, don't you think he's had enough?"

Mind you, I was VERY small at the time, and Steve was a pretty big kid for being in HS. Football team capt., baseball player, yadda yadda yadda... Steve focuses his attention on me and says, "What the fuck are you gonna do?" and pushes me over a locker room bench into a set of lockers. Naturally, I fly into them and then onto the floor, but what Asshole doesn't know is, I'm not about to let someone pick on me. I'd rather get my ass kicked than let him fuck with me.

I reach into my bookbag, (which I fell on after hitting the lockers), grab a pencil, jump the bench, put a shoulder into his stomach as hard as I can, forcing him into the lockers on the other side of him, and press the sharpened pencil against hi throat, just hard enough to draw a little blood, and say to him, "If you ever touch me again, I'll fucking kill you." while looking him dead in the face....

As I backed away from him, I felt something wet on the floor under my feet... Well, as gross as this is, I was standing in a puddle of his piss...lol This big, tough guy pissed himself...lmao
Well everyone, not only did he never mess with me again, he never messed with poor Rob again either... That, and he spent the whole rest of our senior being called "pissypants" by his entire football team...lol
 
Warik,
Pissypants. Good for you.

Reading your story brought back one of mine. I was a freshman in high school and I was 5-8 130 maybe. Tall, skinny, and popular with the ladies. There's your background.
This one girl liked me and I knew she dated a senior. The "cool" seniors date high school freshman you know. lol. I told her that I do not play games and if she wanted to have something with me that she would have to stop seeing the older guy. I went to go catch the 3 o' clock bus after school and the kid came up to me. Asking me why I was trying to get with his girl? I told him that I had no intentions of seeing her unless she was done with him. He pushed me down. I got up. He pushed me down again. I got back up. He was talking shi* to me the whole time. "Get back up"! After the third time he pushed me down, I had enough. I got in his face and said, "dude, I already told you, unless your done I am not getting involved". He said nothing and I walked away, forgetting that I had to take the bus. I was walking to the gym so I could play some ball and release some aggression. I took about 10 steps and I got hammered with a barrage of shots to the head. The kid, the senior, ran up from behind me and beat the shi* out of me. It lasted about 1 minute. Friends of mine who were older, juniors, saw it and jumped on the kid. They layed into him and did what I wished I was strong enough to do at the time. Beat him up! That was it. I had golf balls all over my head and I was hurting. He would always stare me down everyday after but would never say anything bc people had my back.
2 weeks ago, I am working at the front door of the bar I bounce at. I see him walking down Park Ave with a group. I remembered what he did to me and how much fear and pain I felt. He comes to the door and looks me in the eyes and knows that he knows me. He couldn't figure out why? Then one of my buddies comes out of the bar and says what's up. People that know me address me by my last name. The look on his face was hilarious. He said, "jesus ********K, you got big"! Pats me very timidly on the shoulder while saying it. I look at his hand on me and ask him why he feels the need to touch me. He said, "Because I was such an asshole when I was younger. I'm sorry". I took a long look at him and thought about it. I thought about how good it would make me feel to crush him. It wasn't right and I knew that I would be wrong to do the same to him. I let him in the bar, making him pay of course, and forgot about it untill 10 minutes ago.
 
My little daughter is one tough little girl. The bullies will not even attempt to pick on her because she has made boys cry and embarrassed them. She can do 30 pushups and walk on her hands forwards and backwards across the gym.
 
lol@Flashman and the pissy pants story....

Polish..Ladies man huh?

Bite me...Maybe I need to have Bri flex her biceps at Ian. She's SOLID! Either that, or have her walk on her toes. Freaks me out!
 
My guy was noah mann. i WAS the small nerd kid throught out hs and grammer school. i was 5'7 119 pounds glases etc. noah was 5'8 150 pounds not really a big guy but he knew how to scare . he had his boy gang of ranging from 120-150 poudn guys not big at all. it was like living under nazi rule he told me all the places where if i'd go i'd get beaten and my curfew etc. son of a bitch he said im gonna beat you till your bloody then beat you again. well he neevr beat me cause my best friend was a black belt and defended me. but that son of a bitch scarred me for life. well now im 5'7 215 and tryign to make the transition from geek to sheek.
 
Notpuff..Nice to have good pals lookin out for you.

Why is NO one admitting to BEING a bully? I KNOW there has to be some bullies on here!
 
vixenbabe said:
Notpuff..Nice to have good pals lookin out for you.

Why is NO one admitting to BEING a bully? I KNOW there has to be some bullies on here!


I have a little brother who's in 6th grade. I bully him...I only do it because he is much smaller than me. I think its something psychological in my head that wants to make up for the countless times I was picked on from 5th-11th grade. Of course as any big brother (especially the ones who were always the ones picked on and now increased in size) would do- If anybody fucks with him besides me...I dont care how big or small, I will beat the living shit out of them. My brother will not go through what I did. And I will make sure he will be the coolest kid in class. Peace.
 
I LOATH bullies. I got kicked around when I was a kid by my step-dad and various douchbags in high school.

This happened a few years ago: I was 21 or so...out drinking with my girlfriend and some buddies...just having a good time. And this Richard guy stops by the table with some friends. He was like "I know you...I used to whip on you back in high school." <big laugh from his cronies> It was probalby the booze, but I just flipped out...hit him in the face as hard as I could and when he dropped kicked him him ribs twice. I mean, I hit him hard. He was vomiting all over himself, and blood was squirting out of his mouth and nose. Apparently, I got down really close to him and spit in his face...although I don't remember any of it. My friends told me about it later. His budies didn't do anything...just stood there. I guess my grilfreind threw a couple $20's on the table and then dragged my out of there.

That was the only time in my life I've ever really lost it. Did he deserve the beating? No, he didn't. I really felt ashamed about it after I calmed down....I still do. Hell, I probably had 20 lbs on him. :( However, that experience made me realize that the human ego is fragile. I totally understand the kids who shoot up thier shcools. Having that much pain inside you and not being able to do anything about it...sad, really sad.

Anyway, like I said I hate bullies, and I won't tolerate them in any form (physcial, verbal, etc) towards me or anyone I know.
 
V,

I bullied around my 80lb everlast bag since an early age. Still hanging in my parents basement. I hit that thing all the time and it pissed my parents off. Boom, boom boom. You can really hear the hits. That's who I bullied growing up. My heavy bag!
 
Taps...You bully....Kidding!

Polish1977... Did'nt momma tell you that you may not be able to have kids if you hurt the bag? :)
 
vixenbabe said:
Polish1977... Did'nt momma tell you that you may not be able to have kids if you hurt the bag? :)

V,

Good one, good one. That was the laugh I needed today and it came at a great time. Thank you!

I couldn't imagine little Polish Hammers running around. We would have a bunch of broad shouldered monster running round' here! lol.

I loved that bag though (everlast). I wish it could talk!
 
I was bullied quite alot at school. I was a goofy looking Greek kid with a strange ass name in a school which was full of anglo saxon Australian kids. I wore the thickest rim glasses you've ever seen and chunky lenses that made my eyes look the size of peas......it was always going to be tough for me LOL.

As time wore on, the kids started noticing something different about me. Every playlunch and lunchtime, i would open my lunchbox (which was the size of a small suitcase) and spread the beautiful lunches my mom made out. We're talking greek style meatballs, cheese and spinach savoury turnovers, lamb, taramousalata, dolmades which looks pretty impressive at the age of 5. All the while, the anglo kids were opening up their luchboxes to nutella and cheese sandwiches.

Their attitude soon changed after i gave them turns in sampling the fine Greek cuisine and the bullying stopped funnily enough lol.......i was always an outsider though.

So maybe that's the key. Can you make Greek style meatballs for Bri vix:)
 
I was bullied verbally by a few of the jerk types because I was shy in school, especially around girls. By my junior year in high school I had developed a reputation as a standout athlete and everyone knew how strong I was so noone ever tried to bully me physically but there were still those smartasses that I loathe to this day, because they knew that I wasn't the type to hurt anyone unless they tried to hurt me first.
 
Awwww....My sweet VG....You at least turned out to be a handsome devil!

Hey, I wore cat eye glasses in 1st and 2nd grades. IF i had the nerve, I'd send you a picture so you could laugh...

My hubby threatens to put that picture in the paper for my birthday each year...He'd be bullied if he did it too! WORD!

:)
 
Great story Saint!

You know the rumor that a bully has internal conflict? Not exactly true from what some sociology research shows. Seems they tend to have rather good self esteems. Hopefully the research is wrong though.

I never really got picked on much, except maybe a time or two in grade school. Cant really remember much of that though. Wasnt long after that I had to go live in a boys home for getting into so much trouble. so in early high school it was like having a rep for being an ex con in a strange way. When things cooled off a bit and I got into sports more and more it was really no big benefit. Even though I didn't get bullied I also didnt have a shot at many of the girls cause they were mostly stuck up and didnt want to fool around with someone like me. so it cost me as much as it protected me.

There were more of the preppy idiots and clicks than bullies toward the end of high school. To me they were just as bad.


Got to college and no one cared who did what so college made up for it.
 
I got bullied throughout my school years... not all the time or anything, but enough times to make a definate impact on my psyche...

I weigh like 60lbs more than I did in HS, and practicaly NOBODY from back then recognizes me... but it's funny, every now and again, I'll see someone who thought they were hot shit back then, and they're not so big anymore (I'm 6'4") and they usually have shitty jobs, etc.

plus, I go back and meditate on specific incedents when I got bullied right before a set... get all fired up and pissed off and bust out a set... gets the adrenaline going, and it turns negative emotions into strength and positive feelings.

bullies get what's coming to them eventually...

some GREAT stories on this thread!!! :D
 
vixenbabe said:
Hey, I wore cat eye glasses in 1st and 2nd grades. IF i had the nerve, I'd send you a picture so you could laugh...

You MUST scan that for your next avatar...even if it's only for a day or two! :)
 
vinylgroover said:
We're talking greek style meatballs, cheese and spinach savoury turnovers, lamb, taramousalata, dolmades which looks pretty impressive at the age of 5. All the while, the anglo kids were opening up their luchboxes to nutella and cheese sandwiches.

Their attitude soon changed after i gave them turns in sampling the fine Greek cuisine and the bullying stopped

See what a little kindness can do? :rainbow:

I love traditional ethnic foods, Italian and Greek are my favorites! VG, did your momma teach you how to cook and if so, what time are you serving dinner?



The only kind of teasing I got was from my mother's weird ass lunches in 6th grade...some kind of purple eggs...hard boiled ones marinated in beets. If I had the money with me, I would throw it out and buy a pb n j at the caffeteria...all I wanted was something normal! LOL
 
I was definitely bullied alot. And I remember all their names....would love to run into them one of these days. Just to see the look on their faces. That would be revenge enough.

:lmao:
 
MrsPuddlesFL said:


See what a little kindness can do? :rainbow:

I love traditional ethnic foods, Italian and Greek are my favorites! VG, did your momma teach you how to cook and if so, what time are you serving dinner?



The only kind of teasing I got was from my mother's weird ass lunches in 6th grade...some kind of purple eggs...hard boiled ones marinated in beets. If I had the money with me, I would throw it out and buy a pb n j at the caffeteria...all I wanted was something normal! LOL

LOL, Whoever said 'beware of a Greek baring gifts' couldn't have been more wrong.

I caught a few of my mother's cooking tips. I'll make a pretty dishy husband one day......in more ways than one:D

Hope you and stromba are well sweets.
 
vixenbabe said:
Do you recall the bully in your school? Were you the that bully?

Why did you torment the other kids? Or.... Did you get picked on?

I recall my school bully VERY well. Brian Rotunda....I often wonder what he turned into as an adult.

I met Bri's class bully yesterday, Ian! I offered to help for a few hours in her class. Ian,the bully, is VERY TALL, has red hair, mega freckles! Ian likes to write on my daugther's white shirts and push her and the other children. I'd love to tell her to drop kick him to be honest!

Once Ian gets comfy with having me around he says , " Are you Bri's mom?". I respond, "Yes". He smiles and says, " I like that blonde haired, blue eyed philly".(HE'S SIX FOR GOD'S SAKE!)

Always thinking, I say to him , " You know what, Ian? If you want to win her heart you need to stop writing on or pushing her and the other kids". He says, " I don't like her THAT much....".

Damn kid stopped me dead in my tracks!

:devil: Flash him your pussy, bullies love that shit and he'll leave your kid alone.
 
saint808 said:
We had one bully in particular who did not change until after high school. He was your typical jock. His favorite target of abuse was one of the special ed students named Rusty Rose... this kid wil be engrained in my memory banks forever. Rusty was in a different world and he also liked professional wrestling... he liked it so much that he made his own belt in shop class. He wore or carried that belt everywhere and everyone knew he wasn't all there in the head so we just let it go. One day during a lunch period we were all sitting in the commons eating our crap food as the school bully decided it was pick on Rusty time. B.C. (the bully) told Rusty he was gonna take his belt and break his undefeated streak.. this got Rusty all riled up and everyone was laughing as the 2 exchanged verbal insults with Rusty not being that much worse than BC. BC snatched the homeade belt and starts telling the whole commons area how cool he is for picking on this retarded kid. This goes on for about 10 mins. So BC turns to Rusty and tosses him the belt after the kid starts crying. As BC turns around to brag to his felllow jocks everyone could see Rusty's tears turn off like a faucet and he got this look in his eye. Next thing you know he clocks BC from behind with his belt and knocks him down... it was the funniest thing I have ever seen... the whole lunch room was cracking up including BC's other jock friends. Then Rusty trash talks him and proceeds to walk outside thinking he had successfully retained the title. BC gets up and is pissed off as hell and as he walks outside so does everyone else... we all had to see what was gonna happen. Some of his jock friends were trying to talk him out of doing anything in retaliation but i guess his pride had been damaged too bad. He gets outside and starts giving Rusty the riot act and everyone figured the typical "high school" fight would ensue. Rusty says, "here you want this belt, well then just take it." Rusty throws the belt to him and as BC is catching it he gets kicked in the nuts. BC bends over from the pain and Rusty grabs him by the head in a head lock and proceeds to DDT him straight onto the concrete. The teachers are arriving at this point and grab Rusty. BC is out cold on the concrete laying in a puddle of his own blood. Funniest thing I had ever seen. Looking in retrospect it's honestly lucky he did not kill him. However before they took Rusty away he was allowed to grab his belt and had successfully defended his title twice that day.

:devil:
Good story Rusty, I mean Saint.:D
 
Bullit said:


Wow. Ain't that sumthin. Impressive to say the least.
You know what they say... "the best revenge is to live well", or some shit like that.
LOL.

I believe "the best revenge is success"
 
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