chics. u pay your half on a date? how do u peeps do it

[tiger88]

i always offer to pay for the dinner


but the chic insist


i let her pay for her salad and water


u can do the grab-a-check-sike


etx


waiter puts check in the middle of the table.....


tiger reaches for the check

tigerette reaches slowly for the check then u pull back and tigerette grabs the check

can work sometime


can work sometimes


took a chic out and she paid for me !

when she pays for you = she wants dessert and i taste like candy but it was my friends EX so i didnt fuck her brains out bros before hoes....

 

[jerkbox]

lmao

 

[Smurfy]

it depends. currently i pay for alot of the meals and stuff b/c my boyfriend just started his new job as a PT and I know he doesnt have much money. In the past however, I would let him pay most of the time and Id offer to pay every now and then. Or, he'd pay for the movie tickets and Id pick up the concessions. It's not a big deal to me to pay for whatever.

 

[The_Ghost]

When I take a woman out for the first time I like to pay, but it is a good indication of what she is like if she offers to pay some. I don't let them but it tells me a whole lot as to who they are.

 

[lucidblue]

I'm with Smurfy. I don't think the guy needs to pay all the time.

 

[velvett]

Or, he'd pay for the movie tickets and Id pick up the concessions. It's not a big deal to me to pay for whatever.

We do that a lot too.

If I really want to beat him to it - I'll suggest one of the restaurant I really frequent and they'll have my info on account so I can let them know a head of time and the check will be dealt with before he has the chance to pay.

Sneaky, yet rewarding.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

If I am seeing a lot of someone I don't expect them neither will I let them pay for me all the time. I like treating someone it is nice but they damm better put out if I am paying!

 

[Dial_tone]

I think the person who does the asking out should be prepared to pay.

 

[velvett]

I like treating someone it is nice but they damm better put out if I am paying!

Amen!

 

[The_Ghost]

We do that a lot too.

If I really want to beat him to it - I'll suggest one of the restaurant I really frequent and they'll have my info on account so I can let them know a head of time and the check will be dealt with before he has the chance to pay.

Sneaky, yet rewarding.

You have no idea how nice it is to hear abuot you ladies like this.

I just hate it when a woman expects a man to pay for everything. I have dumped a few woman because of this. I had one say, "well I am sorry to hear that you don't believe in taking care of your woman". I had to laugh right at her there.

When a woman pays or offers to pay, it makes me want to do more for them as I know they appreciate this.

 

[tiger88]

You have no idea how nice it is to hear abuot you ladies like this.

I just hate it when a woman expects a man to pay for everything.



wlecome to my world



they think everry guy is to pay for all

 

[Moderate_THIS]

Dates are only for those in love

 

[SoreArms]

When a woman pays or offers to pay, it makes me want to do more for them as I know they appreciate this.

right on the money

plus, if I'm the only one paying, then we wouldn't go out much 'cause I'm usually broke.

I also enjoy cooking and being cooked for.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

I'm with Smurfy. I don't think the guy needs to pay all the time.

I've been paying for so long I think I'd faint if a woman offered to pay the tab.

 

[Taps]

Whoever asks, pays.

99% of the time is the guy doing the asking...but such is life.

If you're speneind a lot of money on someone right off the bat, it's a bad idea anyway. There's plenty of time for $60 dinners in the future. The first few dates should just be small stuff anyway -- at the very most buy her ice cream or something.

 

[The_Ghost]

Whoever asks, pays.

99% of the time is the guy doing the asking...but such is life.

If you're speneind a lot of money on someone right off the bat, it's a bad idea anyway. There's plenty of time for $60 dinners in the future. The first few dates should just be small stuff anyway -- at the very most buy her ice cream or something.

60 bucks? where you eating Denny's?

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Whoever asks, pays.

99% of the time is the guy doing the asking...but such is life.

If you're speneind a lot of money on someone right off the bat, it's a bad idea anyway. There's plenty of time for $60 dinners in the future. The first few dates should just be small stuff anyway -- at the very most buy her ice cream or something.

Um, errrr, that may have been true when I was much younger, but now a dinner for 2 generally costs around $100 or so.

Appetizer drinks
Steak dinners
dessert
Meal wine
tip

leave restaurant

more dessert.

 

[Taps]

lol

shows how often I actually date.

Anyway, I meant $60/each -- which, imo, is excesssive if you've not a steady couple. Theres plenty of cheaper things to do and an upscale dinner is kind of weird if you've just met.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I am extremely limited with my funds so I can't pay for much, hence the "predate" - just a meeting for coffee or soda. Small time and financial investment for us both to see if there is any point in continuing further. I hate feeling obligated to be in a man's presence just because he is paying - GOD I HATE THAT FEELING.

If the guy is a good guy and we click then I still can't pay for much. What I try to do instead is make things for him: cookies or some other homebaked or homecooked dish - whatever he likes. Or I try and give him little presents, that don't cost a lot but are a token to let him know that if I could pay, I would.

I haven't met a guy that I wanted to do these things for in a long time. If I don't have the desire to do these little things for him, his wallet is "safe" as I will have no interest in dating him anyway.

I prefer to stay at home and work or be with family/friends. I dont NEED a guy to buy me anything.

 

[Shak]

i will usually let a guy pay for the first date if he offers...but after that, i like to do everything 50/50.

 

[sconoscuito]

when i went out on a date last weekend I paid only for myself, other dude paid for his girl and the girl I was with paid for herself

but for some reason she took control and I was too drunk to realise what was going on so she asked for 3 seperate bills

anyway, she still loves me

 

[sconoscuito]

sad thing is that it was only coffee for her so an extra buck for a pimp like me is nothing

now if she got salad or something, thats a whole different story

 

[ZKaudio]

i'm dating a chick right now who never lets me pay... she's a real giver in a lot of aspects... it's a definite change.

 

[Razorguns]

la women are superficial. You BETTER pay for everything. They just expect you to be happy a hot women like her is just hanging out with you.

 

[damnit458]

Im sure you guys have had a lot more experience in this area than I have, being 17, but i like to pay for everything. I realize that going out as an adult can be a lot more expensive, and i understand why you wouldnt want to shoulder the whole cost, but it just seems like the polite thing to do to me. I dunno call me old fashioned hahaha. My g/f offers to pay sometimes and when she is persistent enough i let her, but usually I end up paying. Doesnt seem that important to me...just money, and I dont really have anything else i need the money for right now, other than college, so why not? Gotta spend the money im making from my crappy job somehow

 

[Deleted member 33117]

i'm dating a chick right now who never lets me pay... she's a real giver in a lot of aspects... it's a definite change.

Dude! I get lines like "YOu are a really sweet guy, but I don't want to date you, we call still fuck though."... and you have women paying to take you out.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

.... I must being known in College Station as "that guy you booty call, but never EVER go out with, for god's sake". Yeah, I know I sound bitter, and alot of the guys are going "ummm... I fail to see the problem here..." but being lonely and catching clymidia every now and then are not exactally all they are cracked up to be.

 

[lil'tangerine]

I think the person who does the asking out should be prepared to pay.

I agree totally. Neither should have to pay ALL the time. It's nice to have someone buy you dinner, but it's also nice to buy dinner sometimes.

 

[ZKaudio]

Dude! I get lines like "YOu are a really sweet guy, but I don't want to date you, we call still fuck though."... and you have women paying to take you out.

I'm prude... and i NEVER make the first move. I will express interest but NEVER make the first move...plus i'm an uber flirt. You on the other hand... let your penis speak for itself. I keep him locked up for a good while b4 i let him speak his mind.

 

[chewyxrage]

being lonely and catching clymidia every now and then are not exactally all they are cracked up to be.

you better Wrap it up!