Chicks are fucked!!

[Mr.Bo Janlges]

Ok, here's a little story for everyone.
Last night after rugby practise i was chilling around the club house and having a few drinks with some of my boys...well one thing leads to another so we decide to go out and tie one on.
Then my girlfriend shows up, i have a little conversation with her, tell her that some of the guys are going out etc...so she says she wants to come out to...except i can't drink if she's going to come, well i was already a little drunk, so i tell her i'm going to have a few beers. Well in the end she decides that she does'nt want to come out since i'm going to be drinking, so she leaves the club and goes home.
Ten minutes later i get a phone call and its her, she's breaking up with me on the phone...I mean on the fucking phone, how lame is that. We had been dating for four months now, things were getting rather serious, and she breaks up with me on the phone, and all that cause i was going to have a few drinks with the boys after practise. And its not like i drink regularly either, i've gotten drunk 3 times since we've been together.
I really was stunned by her actions, she had said she loved me just before i went to practise and then three hours later she's breaking up with me on the phone.
I guess i just needed to get some shit off my chest,
later

 

[TxCollegeguy]

Dude fuck that shit...Sounds like your probably better off if she can't handle you going out and having a few drinks with the boys

She sounds exactly like my Buddies Ex, only he lived with her for like 2 years and she was like that

 

[Big Brother Val]

Bo Jangles... that sucks, man. That's always hard.

On her side though... if my gal was to have A DRINK... like one swallow, of alcohol... I would leave her. But then again, she used to be an alcoholic. So the situation is different. I won't go through it again... with any woman. I'd rather have cancer than drink alcohol.

In any case, that's not an attack on you at all. I'm sorry that you are in that situation. You do seem to care for her. I'm sure you'll be able to work it out, if you want.

But do try to see her side of things, and talk about it. Don't be stubborn. It'll kill any chance your relationship has.

Good luck to you.

 

[Lao Tzu]

i doubt it is a permanent break up

this is why we need elite romantic. or someone at least point me to a board (other than alt.love) that has that kind of info.

 

[frorider6]

Call her on her bullshit. When she does that, agree with her and hang up. She'll come crawling back. And if she doesn't then you've saved yourself a ton of time and trouble going through a messy break up.

Then again, if any girl pulled that shit on me, I wouldn't want her back.

 

[mdd]

dude, dont put yourself thru that, you dont need that

 

[daised]

she was ignorant if she said she knew what love is and told you she loved you. it doesn't change within a few hours. not all of us girls are mean

 

[Mr.Bo Janlges]

another chapter to the soap...

Wel i phoned her today to see what was up...and after a few minutes of small talk she said she had to go and when i asked her to talk with me for about what was going on she hung up on me. I'm really feeling pissed off about this whole situation.
I still have feelings for her, but the part of me that plays rugby is telling me call it quits now and save myself some grief, its also saying to do something hurtful to her, but i'll resist that urge.
thats the latest installment in this story, stay tuned for updates.
later

 

[Revenant]

Perhaps to defend your ex...

She did not want you to drink while with her. You said that you were going to have a few, despite her request. If you had been dating 4 months, and things had been getting serious... she has a right to feel like she should come before an alcohol buzz.

On the flipside, if she cannot deal with your lifestyle, you two should not be together.

Just my opinion.

 

[TxCollegeguy]

Dont beat yourself up over this...She has issues and it doesn't sound like she's willing to work on them