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chesty is a glutten for punishment

chesty

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Okay the deal:

first wife, red hair, born 12.24.64
second wife, red hair, born 12.29.68
current gf with potential, red hair, born 12.26.68

does anyone see a pattern here?
 
chesty said:
Okay the deal:

first wife, red hair, born 12.24.64
second wife, red hair, born 12.29.68
current gf with potential, red hair, born 12.26.68

does anyone see a pattern here?

You were born to be screwed and robbed by the redhead mafia !
 
i find it funny that they all have red hair and were born with in 3 days of each other.

I must have been the one to nail Christ to the Cross in my previous life.
 
no, but shit, how many people can claim what I can!
 
well, i would have thought given my history, you all would have pounced on this...I must be losing my touch
 
chesty said:
Okay the deal:

first wife, red hair, born 12.24.64
second wife, red hair, born 12.29.68
current gf with potential, red hair, born 12.26.68

does anyone see a pattern here?

Yeah....good thing a 40 year old clown does not ring your door bell.

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chesty said:
no, but shit, how many people can claim what I can!

That's definitely some weird shit. I've had things happen similarly. Makes you wonder.
 
Strange coincidence but nothing that would make you go Hhhhhhhhmmmmm.

You are physically attracted to redheads... no biggie. The birthdate thing might want to make you scratch your head a bit though, if you believe in astrology that is.

I dont know if I believe to much in it myself.

Have fun, dont "fall" too fast and see what comes next.

I was seeing two guys, one of which I thought would end up being something long term. He was THE FIRST pussy to bail (which I predicted to him in an email not 1 1/2 weeks prior). The "big man" didn't even have the decency to exchange an email or give a proper phone call.... whatever.

I still dont have to commit to the other guy (even though I am beginning to want to a bit more each day) so I have had some interesting offers from some other gents.

I REALLY like the sailor guy but he travels far too much so we can never have a true commitment. C'est la vie.
 
chesty said:
well, i would have thought given my history, you all would have pounced on this...I must be losing my touch

I'm jaded. I've met women who always manage to find the physically abusive guy and I've met men who always manage to find the woman already in a relationship. Who knows how it all works, human interaction probably exists on levels we don't even understand yet.
 
true, we shall see on this one. I could fall for her damned easily, kinda started too, but I am putting myself in check. She is gonna have to prove herself (can be trusted) I've been burnt too many times by chicks who don't know shit about honesty and hanging in there even when the going gets tough.
 
chesty said:
true, we shall see on this one. I could fall for her damned easily, kinda started too, but I am putting myself in check. She is gonna have to prove herself (can be trusted) I've been burnt too many times by chicks who don't know shit about honesty and hanging in there even when the going gets tough.

What would make you think she can't be trusted already?
 
just my past experiences of what happened to me. I still find it hard to trust a woman and people in general.
 
chesty said:
just my past experiences of what happened to me. I still find it hard to trust a woman and people in general.

I understand, believe me.

However, there comes a point in time when you need to learn to let that go. Otherwise you will set up a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Just a word to the wise.

I had an extremely controlling, abusive and jealous exhusband. I have NEVER even gone on a date with a man that is even remotely like this. The problems I have all stem from the havoc that the legal system is STILL allowing my ex to wreak on my life because we share children. This is one of the greatest reasons why I am having such a hard time finding a life partner. And I know it will continue to be until my youngest is grown.

I've stopped thinking so much about it and now do my own thing. It's a little lonely not having a true commitment, but it works for now.
 
as for age yes, true, I am not wanting some adolecsent.

Yes, bmom, one has to let go, and i am almost there.
 
chesty said:
as for age yes, true, I am not wanting some adolecsent.

Yes, bmom, one has to let go, and i am almost there.

GOOD FOR YOU!!!!

Not all women are capable of doing the things that your ex's did. And hopefully you have grown as a person so that you dont choose the same type of partner again.

I KNOW FOR A FACT that there are many kind and decent men out there that will be happy when I succeed and support me when I fall. I also know that NOT ALL MEN are cheating/lying dogs (dated one of those too and found out after the fact that my ex - though no use trying to prove it - him beating me was enough and no need to even think about the cheating part - did too). My trouble is finding a man that will accept all the difficulties that come along with being with me for all of my positive attributes, there are MANY negatives that will be hard for any one man to accept.

I am in financial ruin due to legal fees and a judge has now stripped me of the ability to properly support myself and my kids and go to school.

I have health issues.

My ex is a litigationg motherfucker that will never die.

He LOVES to fuck the kids up so he can hurt me more.

So I have open relationships were everyone is free to do as they want. I try not to get too attached and I just lead two separate lives.

I truly hope that you can find happiness!
 
I will find happiness and it is just a matter of time and patience
 
but can you answer me this. why do people always try to sabatoge something. Not happening here, but I have noticed this happens alot. Just when they find what they are looking for they start doing shit to ruin it and they don't even know it.
 
I sure hope this one is semi-normal. At least she is actually divorced and not living with her ex.
 
chesty said:
but can you answer me this. why do people always try to sabatoge something. Not happening here, but I have noticed this happens alot. Just when they find what they are looking for they start doing shit to ruin it and they don't even know it.

Who knows? Maybe they are just comfortable being alone and though they want to be with someone they are more afraid of risking getting hurt.

Just happened to me. Funny thing? This guy was TOTALLY insensitive to me (not just my opinion, but the opinion of 3 other females and one male friend), hurt my feelings pretty badly - never said he was sorry once and then had the nerve to leave me a message saying that "i am pushing him away because I dont want to get hurt."

Whatever.....

I am glad that I found out NOW how insensitive he is before I invested some real emotion. I honestly thought that we could have a committed long term thing... But hey, better I found out now.

He was SUCH a fucking asshole... just totally clueless.

C'est la vie.

Just another reason why I prefer to date more than one person at a time. This way you dont let your emotions get too far too fast. (Like I have been known to do because I am so passionate) You take your time and see how things unfold more naturally.
 
I am. I have 2 other dates lined up this week. Will know for sure if I should stay with this one. It is lookin like it, but better to be sure.

Yes, I agree with you on your points.
 
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