I don't think that men and women are that different.
Both have some that are out to play games, and get what
they can from a relationship. They will use whatever they can
to succeed in their goals. They will lie, cheat, turn you against others, basically do what they feel necessary to win their game.
Then others who are genuine, and caring individuals.
These are the ones who end up getting dumped on, or have
to pick up the pieces after the game players are done.
They have to explain that when they do something nice, it is
because they are just being nice. No games, no secret agendas,
just genuine kindness.
That is why I can't stand seeing someone run a game on another
person. I know it will make that person lose trust in people of the opposite sex for a long time.