Calling this girl back i met

[Testo]

Im just looking for some advice form you guys and gals,

I met this girl on saturday night, shes a friend of my mates ex. Anyways, to cut a long story short we hit it off great and went back to my mates ex's place

It wasnt until about 5am we got to bed and decided to get down to it, at which time she had drunk too much and said she would prefer to leave it till the morning, and it wasnt anything i'd said\done and she really likes me.

She didnt wake up till about 11am at which time my mate was knocking at the door wanting to get the bus. I asked her if she wanted to see me again, she said yes and we swapped no's

The main reason i acted like such a retard is because this girl was pretty hot and i didnt think anything was going to happen that night it took me by surprise.

Anyway, when do you think i should ring this girl back? I dont want her to think im a desperate fucker just wanting a shag but i also dont want to leave it too long for her to lose interest.

I was gonna try and sort something out for this weekend what do you think?

thanks for reading

 

[the nature boy]

uh you should have called her on monday.

 

[Testo]

I was gonna do that but didnt want to come across as too desperate, too late for that now anyway shall i ring her tonight then?

 

[the nature boy]

yes, the longer you wait the more it'll look like you're a prick. waiting a day isn't a sign of desperation if she likes you and you like her. if you don't care about her and you want to play games with her mind then call her tomorrow.

 

[Crazier]

You're playing games.

If you like her, call her.

If you don't call her... it will appear to her that you don't like her.

Nature Boy is right on this one.
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[Frackal]

Tonight is the optimal time

 

[Bobber]

I agree with Frackal.

 

[the nature boy]

Nature Boy is right on this one.
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what, you're trying to say I've been wrong before?

 

[Obnoxious White Guy]

yeah, listen to all the lady-less jackasses who live on this board....brilliant...

three days bro...simple as that...

 

[Doktor Bollix]

Two days. That's the industry standard.

Karma for calling the movie.

 

[Obnoxious White Guy]

swingers, and it's on the third day (does that make it two days?) all i know, i meet you on friday...i might call you on monday...

 

[PHATchik]

3 days is a good wait.

 

[the nature boy]

yeah, listen to all the lady-less jackasses who live on this board....brilliant...

three days bro...simple as that...

that's a bunch of BS. I've proven the "3 day" theory wrong time and time again. 2 days is all you need.

 

[Testo]

Thanks guys n gals, i rung her tonight and we organised to go out on saturday we'll see what happens, i'll let you know how it goes, karma for all you great people thanks for the reassurance

 

[PHATchik]

You know, we keep talking about the amount of time that you should wait and all that crap. Even I posted a time limit. It's actually pretty stupid. You don't have to wait any certain amount of time. If you hit it off with someone and they give you their number, then I see no reason why you can't call them the very next day. I met a guy once that called me the same night to make sure I made it home ok. I thought that was really sweet. You shouldn't have to worry about seeming desperate or seeming like a prick. If you like the girl, then just call her. Quit making it a huge issue. If you can't call her, then just get over it and move on.

 

[Obnoxious White Guy]

fuck it, now i'm pissed...call that bitch up every fifteen minutes and tell her how you just can't wait to get all up in them moist loinchops...

 

[Doktor Bollix]

The Rules
Rule Twelve:
The Waiting Game.


CHARLES
Eight-one-eight.

MIKE
Three-one-oh.

Everyone reacts favorably to this area code.

MIKE
How long do I wait to call?

TRENT
A day.

MIKE
Tomorrow?

TRENT
No...

SUE
...Tomorrow, then a day.

TRENT
...Yeah.

MIKE
So, two days?

TRENT
Yeah, I guess you could call it that.

SUE
Definitely. Two days. That's the industry standard.

TRENT
(to Sue, shop talk)
...I used to wait two days. Now everyone waits two
days. Three days is kinda the money now, don't
you think?

SUE
...Yeah. But two's enough not to look anxious...

TRENT
Yeah, but three days is kinda the money...

MIKE
(interrupting sarcastically)
Why don't I just wait three weeks and tell her
I was cleaning out my wallet and found her number...

CHARLES
...then ask where you met her...

MIKE
Yeah, I'll tell her I don't remember and the I'll
ask what she looks like.
(pause)
Then I'll ask if we fucked. How's that, Tee? Is
that "the money'?

The guys laugh.

TRENT
Laugh all you want, but if you call too soon you can
scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.

SUE
Don't listen to him. You call whenever it feels right.
to you.

MIKE
How long you guys gonna wait to call your honeys?

TRENT AND SUE
Six days.

 

[Freak Show]

Ok, you've called her once. now is when you spring your second, third, and possibly fourth personalities on her. She's bound to like one of you. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!

 

[Testo]

Hey guys n gals, just wondering what anyone else thinks on this situation. I rang her on tues night and we said we'd go out on sat night, she sounded interested but didnt seem to want to say a time and said she'd ring back later in the week. If she dosnt ring back by tomorrow afternoon shall i ring her or take it as a brush off and move on?

thanks..

 

[bigguns7]

Take it as a brush off and move on.

 

[Norman Bates]

I have yet to meet a girl that would call back, even if she has promised she would.

 

[Testo]

thx guys, 2 conflicting opinions though can any folks clear this up otherwise i will probably ring her saturday anyway what have i got to lose?

thanks.

 

[the nature boy]

fuck it, call her. but only call once. and call her in the afternoon or something, if you wait till the evening you'll probably be too late. And offer to meet up with her somewhere it's less pressure than picking her up and all that nonsense. And it'll make her more comfortable tell her to bring some friends along, and you do the same. That way maybe at least your buddies will get some action even if for some reason you don't.