Bros and ladies...need some advice?

[MasterMind]

Ok...the story goes like this......met this really cool girl and we decided to be just friend...nothing has ever happend....not a single kiss...I never even thought of kissing her..we were just really good friends.....but the other night she comes up to me and tells me she loves me and that she thinks that we were meant to be with each other.....I am already in love with an awesome girl...how do I let down my friend easily without breaking her heart and possibly our friendship? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

 

[MasterMind]

Tried it a bunch of times....I always wondered why it never worked...guess now I know

 

[MasterMind]

Good advice......but I don't think I could ever date her....and I don't wanna lie...cuz what if we do breakup....then I told her something that I can't do.....she is a cool girl, but not my type

 

[MasterMind]

Thanks for the advice man...really if I had un-grey karma I would send you some.....I guess its just one of those ruts in life that come along.....guess I'll tell her the truth, just got to figure out how to say it.

 

[spongebob]

whatever you do dont do this.

1.you and her

2.you and her at the bar

3.you and her after bar

4.she wants to start

5.you say no, she gets

6.you try to leave

7.she sez no and

8.her

i would think twice about it,you dont want your life to end up in the

 

[Taps]

Tell her what you just told us. You think she's awsome, but you're already in love. Be honsest. It's tough (God knows it's fucking hard to be honest in a situation like this) but she'll eventually appreciate it.

I've been in a similar situation. I hate to say this, but I wouldn't count on remaining friends. Sorry man.

 

[spongebob]

something about the latenight crowd, you gotta luv 'em.

 

[spongebob]

its the strangest thing. when your single nobody even looks your way, but when you have a g/f its a different story. the girls are crawling all over you.
did she know you had a g/f? i bet she did. women are like that. they are jealous creatures.

 

[MasterMind]

Yeah she knew....well I guess I'll hold off telling her for a while since her b-day is tommorrow.....I bet I know what she wants for a b-day present...thanks for all your advice bros i really appreciate it...and Bob....very creative post there hehe....how long did that one take you?

 

[Y_lifter]

Tell her you have balls the size of Vermont Walnuts just like DOT..
She'll want nothing to do with you sexually after that..

 

[MasterMind]

Tell her you have balls the size of Vermont Walnuts just like DOT..
She'll want nothing to do with you sexually after that..

LOL
Funny shit man funny shit...I just read that post too

 

[satanic goatslayer]

#1) Throw in the old Apache Indian hit, Arranged Marriage.

#2) Look at this girl and yell "ME WANT GAAAALL, TO MAKE ME ROTI!!!!!"

#3) If she looks at you funny, stab her in the throat with a mechanical pencil and serenade her with a mandolin.

#4) Crack out her knees with a tire iron and do the hokey pokey. BUT, instead of putting one hand in and one hand out, put one knife in her chest and one knife in her abdomen.

#5) Celebrate with a game of checkers.

 

[MasterMind]

I knew SG was coming...it was just a matter of time....sometimes i really wonder about you goatboy

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Master -- What you have in your mind is friendship. In her mind it is more. There is no way you can let her down easy. If you don't accept her terms, the relationship will likely end. You must face that.

You love the girl you are with, so she is your first priority. Be true to the relationship that you have with your gf. And tell the other girl the truth. Friends don't lie to each other.

I would also stop hanging out with her even if she says she still wants to hang out. It could lead to problems down the line. Also, immediately tell your gf that she has crossed the line. This will protect your relationship with your gf should things go sour and the other girl starts spinning lies to break you two up. You've got to realize that this other girl would like nothing more than to see your current relationship end.

Ask yourself if you'd want your girlfriend hanging out with a "just friend" that had professed his love for her. I know I wouldn't.

Good luck. I know it's not easy, but do the right thing.

 

[spongebob]

Yeah she knew....well I guess I'll hold off telling her for a while since her b-day is tommorrow.....I bet I know what she wants for a b-day present...thanks for all your advice bros i really appreciate it...and Bob....very creative post there hehe....how long did that one take you?

mastermind,
thank you for your interest in the fine arts, its nice to someone else appreciates masterpieces.
artwork is not created over night, sure the flawless strokes may technically took a day or so, but true artwork is created over a life time.
you see we all have perseptions and windows that we look thru individually and subconsiously store in our memory cells. its this process and the process of coaxing that memory from the inner layers of the mind that is the exhausting part that us artist must go thru. this my friend is timeless.
again, thankyou for your interest in my feable endeavor to describe what i am sure is a complicated situation for you.
de sponge'

 

[Virtual Acid]

Great Advice TheMachine

Im thinking i like TheMachines Advice the best.... much better than Lie Lie Lie!!!... But here's what i think.

Its true if you tell this girl that she's not your type then it's just gunna back-fire.. But she has to know the truth... Eventhough the truth can hurt, it'll be rewarded in the long run.. I'm sure your girlfriend understands the currect situation, But that DOES NOT mean it doesnt bother her just a lidle bitty bit...
Just try to make this other girl understand that you really do love somone else and thats it would never work because your heart belongs to your girlfriend Good luck

 

[bigpopfd2]

tell her, you already are sticking "it" with another girl