Good work on getting it done now....I'm divorced and I obviously fucked part of my life up because of it...
I wouldn't have had kids though. Which are my world. The sad thing is I knew I couldn't spend the rest of my life with that person. I guess I felt pressured to get married I guess... I was way too young and had other things I wanted to do in life before getting married, unfortunately I only knew this until I was divorced.
I have a great gf now and I'm actually glad all this happened. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger..made me a way stronger person. Everything I believe happens for a reason.