BLIND DATE- flowers? or no?

[madbomber31]

ya, the woman hating madman is gonna try his luck on a blind date... why? cuz his girl pal says "she's pretty hot and has big boobs".... so i figure, why not...

now, do i want to be me? i'm the type that would give flowers if i had asked her out after meeting for real... but on a set up.. flowers or no?

i was thinking 3 peach roses or something like that... with some babies breaths...

 

[HighIntensity]

no no no...

at least not to start the date off, go out see how it goes, pick up some nice sunflowers and put em in your trunk. If things go well just grab em out of the trunk and say I just wanted to make sure you had a little sunshine to wake you up tomm. thanks for a lovely evening.

 

[crimson coal]

Wow high...Thats a pretty smooth thing..Wish I had thought of that when I was a single man.

 

[slickdadd]

i'd just say no period. don't. seriously.

 

[Lao Tzu]

no no no...

at least not to start the date off, go out see how it goes, pick up some nice sunflowers and put em in your trunk. If things go well just grab em out of the trunk and say I just wanted to make sure you had a little sunshine to wake you up tomm. thanks for a lovely evening.

does stuff like that really work.

 

[HighIntensity]

does stuff like that really work.

I should write a book if it is done with class then yes it can work, don't be cheesy about it and girls will melt in your arms. Or at least for a year or two they will.

 

[supersizeme]

do not bring flowers to a first date. you are immediately killing off a big part of the challenge for the girl by doing this. try keep the playing field level, so that it's not just you who is lucky to be out with her, but also the other way around. this will project a sense of confidence on your part and keep you out of the "nice guy, i think i'll make him my friend" zone. not only that, but it can be an awkward moment for the girl to figure out what to do with them. save the flowers for much later on in dating her.

 

[HighIntensity]

do not bring flowers to a first date. you are immediately killing off a big part of the challenge for the girl by doing this. try keep the playing field level, so that it's not just you who is lucky to be out with her, but also the other way around. this will project a sense of confidence on your part and keep you out of the "nice guy, i think i'll make him my friend" zone. not only that, but it can be an awkward moment for the girl to figure out what to do with them. save the flowers for much later on in dating her.

stop with the game bullshit, be smooth, confident but charming... it will work, a dozen roses no, but present a certain ambience romance that will add a little spice to the date that she will not forget. I have had two girls in my life tell me on the first date that they went out with me, they went into the bathroom and said please let things workout with this man.

charm is a lost art

 

[the nature boy]

I just show up at the door with my balls hanging out and act like it's nothing. works every time.

 

[Warik]

say I just wanted to make sure you had a little sunshine to wake you up tomm. thanks for a lovely evening.

I'll have to do that for my girl some day. When you write that book, let me know.

-Warik

 

[Pamela]

Why not bring some flowers?

I think you will make a very nice and lasting impression...


Good Luck..

 

[the nature boy]

you don't think that's a bit much for a first date... let alone blind date?

 

[HighIntensity]

you don't think that's a bit much for a first date... let alone blind date?

2 or 3 sunflowers are cheap NB and she will smile, no harm no foul like I said its not a dozen red roses and a ring. Just something sweet.

 

[Paulos]

NB had the best advice here. The Floppy testicles on the first blind date is a winner everytime.

 

[Advaik]

I always bring a flower on any date I go on. Blind (something cheap but nice), first (something nice but not too nice), second (something special, but not gushy), breakup (something VERY expensive and VERY nice...), whatever. I might not have a girlfriend right now, but I get in alot of girls pants (5 last week actually).

 

[Hannibal]

I think that a medium length bundle of whimsical summer wildflowers says, "I thought of you but I'm not bombarding you with mushy-fluff."

Have to, of course, agree with Spatts on this one...Hand-picked is always a better idea than a flowers from a grocery store. Buying commercial roses with the price tag left on is worse than no effort at all....and hand-picked wild flowers show EFFORT...which in the long run is the important thing.

 

[Pink Space Biscuit]

Have to, of course, agree with Spatts on this one...Hand-picked is always a better idea than a flowers from a grocery store. Buying commercial roses with the price tag left on is worse than no effort at all....and hand-picked wild flowers show EFFORT...which in the long run is the important thing.

We tried the handpicked method once. Wasn't fun with the owners of the houses chasing after us.

I think HI's idea is really really sweet. Flowers right off the bat feel a little weird, not that I know, but I watch a lot of blind date and TLC.

 

[madbomber31]

interesting... i think i'll go with HI's idea, minus the cheese and mayo...

unless i add a little madman comedy to it....

thanks.

one bad thing.. i got a truck, no trunk... but i got some room behind the seat.

 

[Pink Space Biscuit]

Cover them with a LIGHTWEIGHT jacket or something. Just don't squish em under some big ol heavy blanket.

 

[Bikini Mod]

charm is a lost art

I agree 100% Hi.

Just make sure that you are the kind of man who has character to back that charm up. Otherwise, save the girl some heartache and be a loser from the getco.

 

[madbomber31]

hmmm... a loser from the get go? then i wont get laid!!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Not necessarily. A lot of chicks LOVE to be treated like shit... y'never know, she may be one of them.

 

[the nature boy]

I still say no flowers. Especially if it's a blind date and he's meeting her somewhere. She's supposed to carry around those damn flowers the whole night? F that. There are other ways to charm a woman, espeically if you're me. Save the flowers for when you get in trouble.

 

[manny78]

no not for a blind date. Forget about any kind of flowers/gift/chocolates. Instead, spend your money on alcohol with her and get her drunk, then ya never know .........

 

[MP5]

well, the good thing is if you bring flowers, it could save you money at dinner cause you know this chick is going to be a pig and if she gets hungry enough she could eat them!!!

Hot chicks don't need the internet or blind dates to get men.

 

[polarpixie]

When's your date?

I'd save the flowers for if you decide you really like her...or by some in the middle of the date if it's going well. It's a sweet gesture but kind of meaningless if you don't even know her...