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Bikinimom-------- Thank you.

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For all the times you reached out to me and offered me advice on the situation with my daughter and ex. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, and I hope that everything works out for you.
 
hooray for moms in bikinis
 
No need to thank me darlin' it was my pleasure... I am just glad that I could help.

I know how hard it is for men to relate to their daughters sometimes. Add a difficult divorce and strained relationship with and ex who has "issues" (to be polite) and it would be enough to scare the bejeebers out of any guy....

The best advice I ever got from a single dad who had been through the divorce ringer was, "NO ONE CAN EVER UNDO THE GOOD THAT YOU HAVE INSTILLED WITHIN YOUR CHILDREN."

This single sentence gave me the strength to make many difficult decisions regarding my own children in a calm and rational manner.

I will never be able to thank that dad enough... Actually, I think I can - by being the best mom to my girls that I NEVER thought I could be.

So you just enjoy your daughter and remember what many adult children of divorce had told me over the past few years. They said that because they had ONE PARENT that didn't have their heads up their ass... THEY WERE A OK!

In a perfect world children have AT LEAST two parents to guide them on the road of life... Remember, though that in African culture they believe it takes an entire tribe. Continue to reach out for support from wherever you can get it.

Not one of us has all of the answers. And many show us exactly WHAT NOT TO DO...

Biteme, you'll be ok. You're a smart guy who truly loves his daughter. I still remember how much you were concerned for the welfare of your daughter, the tone of your voice and how you seemed to nearly agonize, "Am I doing the right thing?..."

As long as you continue to be the way you have been, you will undoubtedly make mistakes, but I believe that you will always do the "right thing".

Dormie Bien Mon Ami! :)

And thank you for your well wishes. Me and my girls will be fine... If being homeless and jobless in a country where I had no proper papers, couldn't speak the language and had no family, friends or man to help me didn't break me it will take a lot more than some sorry-assed delusional psycho (fill in the blank here) to hurt me and my girls!
 
Boo fucking hoo. I have lived through my father burning down our house, having NOTHING, yet I have started to come out of the ashes of this shit. You can MAYBE talk about how your life was hard or how your wife left you but you have no clue. As for bikinimom, you left your kids behind to try and better yourself/themselves. Don't even talk your shit until you feel a coat hanger on your back bitch.
 
Unless you know what you are talking about, silly little man, I suggest you hold your tongue. I feel badly for your lot in life darlin' but that does not mean that you have a clear understanding of the lives of others. Where is it that you THINK you know that I EVER LEFT MY CHILDREN ANYWHERE?!..."behind"? Behind what?

You clearly have some misplaced anger. You would do so much better in life if you found some way to channel those emotions into something a bit more positive. Perhaps a bit of counseling could do you a bit of good.

Just because I haven't posted up specific accounts of all of the unfortunate circumstances of my life that does not mean that they didn't happen.... something for you to consider. If your only suffering was because of money - can I be the first to say, "Yea? So? I grew up with nothing, the child of immigrants who to this day can't speak a word of English. Your father burned your house down and my father drank.... so?"

I am not bitching darlin', never did... I have ten fingers and ten toes so I am truly blessed. There was a however, a woman that I used to pass in the subways when I was homeless which made me realize that though things were a bit stressed for me at the moment, there were MANY who were way worse off then me.

See, the difficulties that Biteme and I are speaking of are difficult not because of our pain. We are adults and we accept the consequences of every decision we have made. Unfortunately for our children there are many circumstances that we are powerless to rectify.

Until you have children of your own this is something that you are incapable of understanding.

"Don't even talk shit until I can feel a coat hanger in my back, bitch?" What is this statement supposed to mean?
 
I would love to.... Unfortunately Biteme is a bit geographically undesirable. *sniff*

I don't know if what would happen "if" but I can say with a fair amount of certainty that

A. we would undoubtedly be buds... I mean that in the most complimentary way.

B. we would probably get a REAL RISE out of making our insane ex's even more insane with envy! LOL
 
One never knows what the future holds.... for now, I think that we both have a lot that needs sortin' out in our own backyards.

You goin' into the Yenta business Omega?! LOL
 
I was only funnin' LOL.

I dont have the time nor the inclination to care about the negative feelings of others. My ex will do and think and say what he wants regardless, as I am sure would Biteme's ex. I wish that my ex could find someone NORMAL as it would only benefit my children if there would be a woman out there that could actually "fix" his wagon. Unfortunately I think that a "woman" isn't what would be necessary to fix any part of him... :(

But that isn't anything that is a topic for discussion... I has papers that say so... soooooooo I am not saying! LOL
 
Thanks darlin'! Each year though harder than the last just gets better and better.... Me and my girls are learning and growing.

I wish the same for you!!!! :)
 
E, I wanted to talk to U tonight. I just got home and you are probably in bed now. Catch up with you later.:)
 
it's like the message board equivalent of marking your territory with urine.
 
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