Beatings..

[Wulfgar]

Why are there so many of them out there?

 

[Gambino]

beatings i.e slogging the dolphin?

 

[KillahBee]

I like

 

[Phenom78]

They had em coming

 

[Wulfgar]

Beating: A woman who literally and figuratively gives your emotions a beating

 

[Wulfgar]

no one on here has ever heard the term "Beating" to describe a woman like this?

 

[KillahBee]

Beating: A woman who literally and figuratively gives your emotions a beating

lol, it's typically the other way around.

only happened once for me and it was more of an emotonal beating from the mutual loss, not getting played or dumped.

A LOT of good came out of that though

creation comes from destruction, right?

 

[Phenom78]

Beating: A woman who literally and figuratively gives your emotions a beating

You make no sense to me

Are you from California?

 

[Gambino]

lol, it's typically the other way around.

only happened once for me and it was more of an emotonal beating from the mutual loss, not getting played or dumped.

A LOT of good came out of that though

creation comes from destruction, right?

so why were you knocking aj for falling for the 'rican tang when your just as guilty?

 

[Wulfgar]

Chicago
and I dont know if its the other way around. Ive seen ALOT of guys who get thier emotions destroyed regularly by crazy women. More so than women who are emotionally beat by men. Most men dont know how to be that needy and as much of a pain in the ass.

 

[KillahBee]

so why were you knocking aj for falling for the 'rican tang when your just as guilty?

tee hee

 

[Gambino]

tee hee

it's only pathetic if you let it happen more than once.

 

[Wulfgar]

lol, it's typically the other way around.

only happened once for me and it was more of an emotonal beating from the mutual loss, not getting played or dumped.

A LOT of good came out of that though

creation comes from destruction, right?

It can
Im just sayin we have all had the girl who constantly checks cell phone calls, txt messages, emails, thinks we are cheating on them, stays the night @ your house constantly, calls 15 times before breakfast....ect
THAT is a beating

 

[KillahBee]

it's only pathetic if you let it happen more than once.

That's definitely true. But it's pathetic if it happens once cause you were the bitch. No respect for that.

 

[KillahBee]

It can
Im just sayin we have all had the girl who constantly checks cell phone calls, txt messages, emails, thinks we are cheating on them, stays the night @ your house constantly, calls 15 times before breakfast....ect
THAT is a beating

oh. nah, that's a man that does not know how to handle his situation. and is probably very needy himself

 

[Gambino]

That's definitely true. But it's pathetic if it happens once cause you were the bitch. No respect for that.

well then i'm guilty of being pathetic.
won't happen again, learned the hard way

 

[Wulfgar]

oh. nah, that's a man that does not know how to handle his situation. and is probably very needy himself

So how does a man handle a woman who is a beating?

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I guess in my town (Grand Rapids, MI) there have been more shootings this year already than there were all of last year.

 

[Wulfgar]

I guess in my town (Grand Rapids, MI) there have been more shootings this year already than there were all of last year.

So you recommend shooting them then?

 

[KillahBee]

So how does a man handle a woman who is a beating?

a) he should have been perceptive enough to not get involved with someone like that

BUT, we have all seen people change when you start dating, SO

b) you bounce. simple as that. THERE IS NO REASON to stay with a person who acts like that.

AND

c) they will NEVER change

you can give it a try, talk to her about it. tell her it stops or its over, but that won't work with an illogical person. she will most likely pull the behavor back for a few dyas/weeks then go back to the natural her. she is very insecure and, if you are a secure man, you should not want to associate yourself with people like that.

unless you need drama in your life

 

[Wulfgar]

a) he should have been perceptive enough to not get involved with someone like that

BUT, we have all seen people change when you start dating, SO

b) you bounce. simple as that. THERE IS NO REASON to stay with a person who acts like that.

AND

c) they will NEVER change

you can give it a try, talk to her about it. tell her it stops or its over, but that won't work with an illogical person. she will most likely pull the behavor back for a few dyas/weeks then go back to the natural her. she is very insecure and, if you are a secure man, you should not want to associate yourself with people like that.

unless you need drama in your life

good call
guess its just that easy right...

 

[Gambino]

I guess in my town (Grand Rapids, MI) there have been more shootings this year already than there were all of last year.

look at you, forgetting about your yooper roots.
kids don't be fooled this maing's a yooper he knows nothing of the big city

 

[KillahBee]

guess its just that easy right...

definitely not. nothing is that easy. personally, I have always been wired that way (and it has not always been to my benefit, for real). for others it is not that easy. it's not easy to walk away from someone you care about.

when logic battles emotion, emotion wins 9 times out of 10. you have to train yourself to make logic the first filter in your mind when taking in information. for some people it's ntougher than others.

but man, I HATE when people try to blame a childish, illogical decision (being in an emotionally or mentally abusive relationship of ANY kind) on "emotions". it's ridiculous and basically says, "I do not have control over myself, mentally and emotionally".