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antares

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At what age do u start culpabilizng/feeling bad to be a bachelor?
(or just feel people look at u as an antisocial weirdo)
 
U can be an antisocial weirdo at any age.

Being a bachelor with no future of relationship(unless you want it that way) I'd say 30.

Talk to DT he's got this shit covered.
 
When all your friends are married ... then when they start getting divorced you'll feel better.
 
Up until recently, thought all this "meeting someone nice thing" had passed me by. But now have a lovely GF.

However, a friend of mine is in his 40's and seperated. He tells me that the biggest problem is that the women you meet in your 40's tend to have a serious amount of emotional baggage with them. Nobody wants to listen to someone going on and on about their ex-husband or all their other failed relationships.
 
when your mother starts setting up blind dates for you with that 'nice girl down at the bank'
 
when 90% of the people you meet- men and women, come to you discretely over time and tell you how much they wish they were single, it sheds a whole new light on things...i will say this: most of the 90% have gotten married for the wrong reasons at the time they did it (very begining)...there are times i long for someone special, because now i know so much more...the mistakes made in the past would not be repeated-Not to say new mistakes would not be made-but i have a much more clear understanding of what its all about, why- and to find someone at the same place and time, is going to be rough...however, iam content with my solitude, it is extremely liberating in many many ways...
 
antares said:
At what age do u start culpabilizng/feeling bad to be a bachelor?
(or just feel people look at u as an antisocial weirdo)

Nothing to do with age.
More to do with how many cats you have in your house and the fact that all the neighbourhood kids point at your house when they walk by. :D
 
antares said:
At what age do u start culpabilizng/feeling bad to be a bachelor?
(or just feel people look at u as an antisocial weirdo)


Well I am closing in on 30 (past 28) and have been a bachelor my whole life. Don't feel bad about it at all, although I am a little antisocial.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
riverrock said:
Up until recently, thought all this "meeting someone nice thing" had passed me by. But now have a lovely GF.

However, a friend of mine is in his 40's and seperated. He tells me that the biggest problem is that the women you meet in your 40's tend to have a serious amount of emotional baggage with them. Nobody wants to listen to someone going on and on about their ex-husband or all their other failed relationships.
Darlin this goes both ways. That is why I make it a point to not date men that haven't been divorced AT LEAST 2 years.

Nothing worse than listening to some guy drone on and on about his "bitch ex". :rolleyes: I've got one of my own, dont need to hear about someone else's. That type of conversation is why one has friends..... or at least elite C&C! LOL
 
If you're still a virgin past 30. Shoot yourself, but shoot me first.

There is no hope.... You're in for the quiet, cold ride at the back of the bus, by yourself, till you die (or off yourself), and no one goes to your funeral except for maybe a sister or something.

Life is piss, ain't gonna change, it's all your fault, you were expendable and meaningless at day 1.


*This was all really just a note to myself, disregard it*
 
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