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I'm not insane - I just know the business.
(I have the unfortunate pleasure of dealing with truckers on a near daily basis.)
A professional mover in NYC or The Hamptons cost upwards of $75 per hour per man. I can have A PIECE OF FURNITURE (chair, armoire, etc.) delivered 2 miles up the road from the store and it will cost $79 and that is at a wholesale cost.
How can you compare a professional to a day laborer?
I'm not questioning the insanity of the prices -- but what I am saying is that professional moving cost $$$$. Not equal to the cost of a do-it-yourself-er.
I just had a kitchen worth of appliances delivered to an NYC apt from a NJ Pier for a client, down a flight of stairs and up the elevator 35 floors. 1 cooktop, 1 stove, 2 dishwashers, 1 refrigerator, and 1 hood. Took them 4 1/2 hours with 4 guys, including the piecing apart and piecing together of the fridge. The bill was just shy of $1600.
Try having 4000 lb. of tile delivered -- white glove into an apt.
It is what it is.
As far as tipping, there are many books out of the etiquette of when, where and how to tip all sort of people in all sorts of trades.
Curling ,
$6000 seems rather high for such a close move. Unless they have a huge house or the wife has a lot of blanket wraped and insured pieces of value. Since it was a house to house move your employee should have taken care of the drivers when they arrived at their new place of residence. You should have never been involved in the tipping process. You as the employer should have to only pay the moving bill if that is what had been agreed upon prior to the move.
Simlpy stated - your employee is either ignorant or lacks class.
I suspect the latter - if she has *priceless artifacts* from an inheritence.
