the only condition that i would hang out with a girl would be if she agreed beforehand to let me fool around with her a bit. and no i dont mean sex, i just mean touching.
and i dont know of any women that agree to this type of stuff in advance.
I don't think most people, male or female, are worth it. In general. They're pains in the asses. And when you find someone special who lights up your world it just makes the pointlessness of others all the more apparent.