approaching women...

[swaptrex]

i currently attend college and wanted to know what some guy's do to start a convo with random girls....and also, ladies make any suggestions if you like. i don't have a hard time time with girls, but my weakest point is starting the conversation. sometimes they start it, which is great, but others don't.

 

[markshark]

i was wondering that too. ive never had a girl try to talk to me in my life, and this is my 4th year at school at a major university. im pretty lost on what to do because im a super senior and have never gotten laid or anything.

 

[swaptrex]

i feel your pain, it's not as easy as everyone states...

 

[markshark]

thats the worst shit, everyone sayin "yeah man wait til you get to college you'll get ass all the time!" bullshit! ive went out a million times, went to parties, everything and ive given up.

 

[sweed]

just go to a party, get a litle drunk, talk to some nice lookin girls and get laid... easy as that... too bad i have no partied in a long time or else i would have been in a better situation right now,lol.
if sober, i always start something that is kinda funny.... like last sunday at my club. a girl wasn;t done with her drink, so i kinda took it, and she goes heeey... so i repeatedly took it when it was half full or more the rest of the night ( it was gay night) , she was hot, got her number, and she is a lot older than me.. easy things like that, but she was prob drunk, oh well...
gooooood luck bro!!!

 

[jdevlin1985]

Confidence! Nothing more. Nothing less.

 

[swaptrex]

i've got the confidence, that's not the problem...i just wondered what you guys say to "break the ice" for example if you were sitting next to a good looking girl in school and it was silent, what would you say? just curious.

 

[javaguru]

Find something unusual or interesting to comment on, it can be a general comment about the surroundings or preferably some witty observation about them. You can practice this in everyday life by striking up conversations with strangers. For example, I was at a bar once and two girls had come from a "hawaiian" themed party. I walked up one and said, "Wow, you got laid twice, I'm jealous!" They laughed hysterically and ended up talking with me all evening. Once the ice is broken you can just ask questions about them, women love to talk about themselves. Be empathetic, mimic her body language, and touch her when you can; It all helps create a "connection." I could go on but you get the idea.

 

[swaptrex]

great tips! the touching works, i have used it many times...such as on the lowerback, or the inner thy when possible.

 

[tmk123]

read double your dating... its very interesting ;-)

http://www.Doubleyourdating.com