Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I have been friends with my ex since we split up 4 years ago. I just found out the other day in an email she sent saying she is getting married. Now I have no romantic feelings for her at all, but when she said she was getting married it kind of hit a nerve. Almost like I was glad for her but at the same time somewhat jealous. WTF? Anyone else ever notice this?
Anyone friends with their ex's?
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tripleblonde
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nope.....too awkward for me.....
tripleblonde
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avenirup said:
just got in babe....need to wind down a bit before i can sleep
Deus Ex Machina
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AAP said:
was he the one who lied and is now your proverbial 'lost puppy dog' ?
MissJanet79
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Nope...not friends w/ any...all ended bad b/c they didn't know how to remain faithful. Haven't had many relationships - I was always very selective.
I am friends with pretty much all my exs. I am generally pretty happy when they hook up with someone etc. I mean if you truly care about someone all you want is for them to be happy.
tripleblonde
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AAP said:
wow....say that five time's fast
SlavikHavik
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Out of all of them... none.
I was with one girl for two years, we broke up didnt talk, and then got in a relationship again just without the title. I split with her cause i didnt like that, and wanted a more solid commitment. I dont talk to her anymore. Had she been the same girl i started dating three years ago. I probably would have continued to talk to her. She was cool back then, very original, had her own style, unique intrests, value system etc. Now shes nothin special. Good looking, but nothing unique just looks like your typical club girl, and her intrests consist of tanning and sleeping. Dosent talk about anything other than that anymore.
All the other girls ive been with i havent really cared about, and dont bother to keep in contact with.
So my answer to yoru question is
No, none at all. Its too hard to do, especially when you care about someone
I was with one girl for two years, we broke up didnt talk, and then got in a relationship again just without the title. I split with her cause i didnt like that, and wanted a more solid commitment. I dont talk to her anymore. Had she been the same girl i started dating three years ago. I probably would have continued to talk to her. She was cool back then, very original, had her own style, unique intrests, value system etc. Now shes nothin special. Good looking, but nothing unique just looks like your typical club girl, and her intrests consist of tanning and sleeping. Dosent talk about anything other than that anymore.
All the other girls ive been with i havent really cared about, and dont bother to keep in contact with.
So my answer to yoru question is
No, none at all. Its too hard to do, especially when you care about someone
Freind with Ex's
you guys are nuts?
for me they would not be ex's unless they fucked up some how
and when they do all bets are off
lats one lied to me three times in my face while looking in my eyes, and it was such a petty thing to lie about
but when she looked at me staight faced and lied
that was it, I just gave out,
was more dissapointed in how someone could lie so well
and for such a petty thing, glad I cought it, for who knows what else she coudl have lied about
funny she had no reaosn to lie, I always told here the ruth
but when she did that to o me all bets were off
the only regret I have is delibritaly fucking with here during the tail end of the relationships
but truth be told I was mad at the ay she lied
so I exacted slow revenge
i will never do that again for its not my place to do this type of thing
better to walk away and have them wallow in their own dark depair
you guys are nuts?
for me they would not be ex's unless they fucked up some how
and when they do all bets are off
lats one lied to me three times in my face while looking in my eyes, and it was such a petty thing to lie about
but when she looked at me staight faced and lied
that was it, I just gave out,
was more dissapointed in how someone could lie so well
and for such a petty thing, glad I cought it, for who knows what else she coudl have lied about
funny she had no reaosn to lie, I always told here the ruth
but when she did that to o me all bets were off
the only regret I have is delibritaly fucking with here during the tail end of the relationships
but truth be told I was mad at the ay she lied
so I exacted slow revenge
i will never do that again for its not my place to do this type of thing
better to walk away and have them wallow in their own dark depair
Fina Junkie
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Just one. I'm going to see her today as a matter of fact. I'm so weak. I just want her to see what she is missing out on. Her bf is a little bitch, literally.
Bigdawg1468 said:
I have to agree just cause your friends dosen't mean you still sleep with them. Just means your mature enought to continue the relationship on another level. I could never cut someone out of my life just cause he is not my bf anymore.
superqt4u2nv said:
For sure, a lot of time you might not be able to be friends immediatly as there might still be some feelings involved on one side but after that blows over why not, especially if it was a good breakup.
Sometimes you realize you made a horrible couple but great friends.
lucidblue
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I can see where Seashell is coming from. I've had problems with guys being friends with their ex's. There's a lot to consider... why they broke up in the first place, is the girl still interested and trying to get him back (b/c if she is, they really aren't only friends... even if that's all he wants), amount of time (and kind of time) they spend together, etc.
Sometimes it's an issue and sometimes it isn't.
Sometimes it's an issue and sometimes it isn't.
sh4dowf4lcon
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I am friends with ex girlfriends. I do not have any ex wives. I see 2 of my ex girlfriends from time to time. One has a son same age as mine in the same soccer division for U5 boys (different team but same division). It is a trip to see her cheering for her son and me cheering for my son, at one point we thought we were going to get married after High School! LOL. It feels a little werid when I see the other one at my Gym only about (7-8 times in past six months). We were pretty close at one point. It doesnt really feel weird until we start talking. When I talk with her, I usually cut the conversation short and "move around".
Lol, okay I wasn't clear in my first post.. I was just pointing out how some people will call the ex they're still hooking up with a "friend". In my opinion, that is not a friend. And anyone with that kinda friend is obviously not someone I'm looking to date.
If they are truly just friends, then ofcourse it's not an issue. But like Lucid said, it depends on the situation.. whether or not I'm comfortable with it.
If they are truly just friends, then ofcourse it's not an issue. But like Lucid said, it depends on the situation.. whether or not I'm comfortable with it.
Seashell said:Lol, okay I wasn't clear in my first post.. I was just pointing out how some people will call the ex they're still hooking up with a "friend". In my opinion, that is not a friend. And anyone with that kinda friend is obviously not someone I'm looking to date.
If they are truly just friends, then ofcourse it's not an issue. But like Lucid said, it depends on the situation.. whether or not I'm comfortable with it.
Much better, you are out of my doghouse now
GoldenDelicious
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cant say that i have let too many get so close to me that i particularly care enough to even feel awkward. i chat to them all the time, but they were foolish relationships with very little emotional pull after so long. there is one who is floating in and out of ex status, and unfortunately for me, i really, really, really like 
unfortunately superqt, if i cant have her in my life romantically i will self destruct, so cutting her out of my life is sheer survival. i hope you dont think less of me
unfortunately superqt, if i cant have her in my life romantically i will self destruct, so cutting her out of my life is sheer survival. i hope you dont think less of me
jh1
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Seashell said:Lol, okay I wasn't clear in my first post.. I was just pointing out how some people will call the ex they're still hooking up with a "friend". In my opinion, that is not a friend. And anyone with that kinda friend is obviously not someone I'm looking to date.
If they are truly just friends, then ofcourse it's not an issue. But like Lucid said, it depends on the situation.. whether or not I'm comfortable with it.
So there hope for us afterall.
lucidblue
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GoldenDelicious said:if i cant have her in my life romantically i will self destruct, so cutting her out of my life is sheer survival. i hope you dont think less of me
I completely understand this feeling
. I've only felt this way about one guy though... the rest I don't really care whether I'm friends with them or not. Depends how they act.
Moderate_THIS
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jh1 said:
she also likes man-taint.
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