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Anyone else in a long distance relationship??
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smallmovesal
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two words: sexy email 
smallmovesal
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well my date from boston lives a hell of a ways from here... plus he hates the phone so we basically only communicate if he's on aim.
smallmovesal
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alphaxi said:
Ohhh...thats right.
So how are things with you today smalls? BTW, nice chatting with you last night...
i've had a hell of a day... but actually things are shaping up fine.
and yeah, it was great to talk to you last night
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HighIntensity
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The Long Distance Relationship 
brings tears 2 my eyes.
I did it for three years, and for three years it worked. Problem is i needed four, and we did not make it.
It is quite a commitment on both ends, but it can work. If you 2 are truely in love, then that should be more than enough to carry you through the days. Send emails (sexy, romantic email) I woke my ex up with email, and ecards everyday. Get a cell phone with free nationwide long distance (nights and weekends). Plan intensive weekends together when you do see each other.
But beware this is a dual link, if one partner becomes week it can be all over. Remember a long distance relationship in reality is not natural. We like to have our boyfriend/girlfriend around to hold, touch, share ect. And trust me the phone and AIM can not duplicate the feeling of a lover near.
So if this person is very special in your heart, then go for it. I almost made it...
brings tears 2 my eyes.I did it for three years, and for three years it worked. Problem is i needed four, and we did not make it.
It is quite a commitment on both ends, but it can work. If you 2 are truely in love, then that should be more than enough to carry you through the days. Send emails (sexy, romantic email) I woke my ex up with email, and ecards everyday. Get a cell phone with free nationwide long distance (nights and weekends). Plan intensive weekends together when you do see each other.
But beware this is a dual link, if one partner becomes week it can be all over. Remember a long distance relationship in reality is not natural. We like to have our boyfriend/girlfriend around to hold, touch, share ect. And trust me the phone and AIM can not duplicate the feeling of a lover near.
So if this person is very special in your heart, then go for it. I almost made it...
satanic goatslayer
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Yes, the woman I buried in that coffin 'lives' about 5 miles from my place of residence.
Maintenance is mandatory on such a relationship. For example, I have to travel to the burial grounds twice a day to feed and water her.
Maintenance is mandatory on such a relationship. For example, I have to travel to the burial grounds twice a day to feed and water her.
satanic goatslayer
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alphaxi said:
How romantic...
You think that's good, on every third Sunday I travel to her site with small bombs to throw down the tube at her. She especially likes when they explode on her abdomen or groin area.
Kakdiesel
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alphaxi said:I am with the perfect person and I know that this is "it" for me..but it's so damn hard to be 500 miles away from him
If you are in a LD relationship, how do you handle it when you miss your significant other like mad??? ARG!
You dont think this is "it" for me as well? Hehehe....why you gotta put our business out there like dat homey? LMAO
yeah well I wouldnt claim to be perfect, but i try to be for ya
And yeah, elitefitness, Kakky can actually be a good person--contrary to popular belief..i love ya too Alphaxi
and no this aint no frackal/kartchick kinda love...we've known of each other for years (i've known her dad for about 8 years--he worked out at the same gym as i did when i was in high school) but alphaxi went to another school across the river from me...funny story, back in high school when i barely knew her, i was tryin to get her hooked up with my best friend and she wasnt hearin it..i use to think she was a stuck up blonde hair blue eyed chick..but fortunately i was soooo wrong
cant wait to see ya this weekend homey
slickdadd
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Im in the long distance still right now. It has only been about 3 months. Hard to believe its only been 3 damn months. It seems like it has been around a year. Goes by very very slow. Mine is 4000 miles away or however far Hawaii is from Tennessee. We are doin worse now then we were. We did talk on the phone everyday basically, but i think that can be overkill. Or at least it was for us. Emails and sexy emails definitely are good. Keep the intimacy. I get to see her in about a month and a half again, saw her about 3 weeks ago too. Its tough. No doubt. I'm not givin up hope though.
Kakdiesel
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woops.what i meant to say was that this aint no frackal/kartchick kinda love as in internet love...
LOL we didnt meet on here by NOOOO means...
but i'll have to make this comment about long distance:
the love/attraction HAS to be a deep emotional/personality one for it to be successful..
if its more physical then it wont work--cuz if you're only or largely more into how the person looks, and you dont get to see them, well then it wears off--fast...
but if you love them for who they are more than anything, then talking to them on the phone and just communicating with them with other different mediums will keep it alive and strong.
i would bet my left arm that if you ask most people in successful, happy long distance relationships, they'll tell you that they love the PERSON for who they are more than anything.
LOL we didnt meet on here by NOOOO means...
but i'll have to make this comment about long distance:
the love/attraction HAS to be a deep emotional/personality one for it to be successful..
if its more physical then it wont work--cuz if you're only or largely more into how the person looks, and you dont get to see them, well then it wears off--fast...
but if you love them for who they are more than anything, then talking to them on the phone and just communicating with them with other different mediums will keep it alive and strong.
i would bet my left arm that if you ask most people in successful, happy long distance relationships, they'll tell you that they love the PERSON for who they are more than anything.
rudedawg
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Kakdiesel said:
And I would bet your left arm you can't find too many that are in a successful, happy long distant relationship. If you are happy then obviously you don't want to be close to that person right? How can someone be happy by being seperated from the one they love?
2 words........ move on!!!
Kakdiesel
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rude dawg my brother, i gotta ask you something..why do you have this huge problem with me..whenever there is a thread dissing me or if i post anything, you always got something negative to say to me..which i dont get mad about, but just confused..i've never said anything wrong to you..nothing..not to my recollection at least
and anyways, i do respect you for being a ex-mlb pitcher..i mean shit man, you got to play in MLB parks and get paid to be around MLB players and play ball! jeezus man, i dotn know why you got this chip on your shoulder for me, but hey whatever..jsut lettin ya know i have no problem with you..just curious as to why you got it in for me...
take care
and anyways, i do respect you for being a ex-mlb pitcher..i mean shit man, you got to play in MLB parks and get paid to be around MLB players and play ball! jeezus man, i dotn know why you got this chip on your shoulder for me, but hey whatever..jsut lettin ya know i have no problem with you..just curious as to why you got it in for me...
take care
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