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the same things that attracts you to someone ulitmately can cause problems in the relationship?
Anyone else find this....
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When I was younger yes. I was very drawn to men that were dominant, controlling and had violent tendencies. I foolishly thought this meant that they were strong and would "protect me".
HA! Was I young and retarded! (not talking about anyone but ME here)
Now the second I sense any sort of the tendencies I listed above - I am OUTTA THERE! Hence, the I date more than one person at a time approach. I dont like feeling controlled... If I am left totally to make my own decisions (as it should always be on both ends of a mature and healthy relationship) then I feel myself very drawn to that person and find that I only want to be with him.
If a man feels the need to tell me - then he isnt the one for me.
HA! Was I young and retarded! (not talking about anyone but ME here)
Now the second I sense any sort of the tendencies I listed above - I am OUTTA THERE! Hence, the I date more than one person at a time approach. I dont like feeling controlled... If I am left totally to make my own decisions (as it should always be on both ends of a mature and healthy relationship) then I feel myself very drawn to that person and find that I only want to be with him.
If a man feels the need to tell me - then he isnt the one for me.
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Feistyness....
yep.....danger
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yep.....danger
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I like guys with similar interest and life ambitions as mine which leaves them busy like me which equals problems finding time for one another.
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If you guys are both single (meaning no exhusband/wife to fuck with your world) and have no kids, how busy can you be to not find time to want to spend with a person of the opposite sex that you are into?superqt4u2nv said:
Maybe you guys just not that into one another afterall?
Monday-Firday work 9-5 get home at 6 eat gym by 7 or 8 home by 10:30-11Beached Whale said:
except Tuesday nights I am normally working at my friends store then. Saturdays as of late at my friends store 10-4. So yeah most Saturday nights I am free for a date. Sundays I cook clean and get myself ready for the next week I don't generally like to go out Sunday nights but will for the right guy. Him = owns his own business = working 24/7 plus he aslo trains etc.
I really beleive that it is possible to be too busy to have relationship.
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superqt4u2nv said:
No, you just have different priorities than to make this relationship the primary focus of your life. Not a bad thing at your age at all.
EnderJE said:
yea right... You're so fulla Shiat!
