Anyone else find comfort in knowing the person that they are dating

[Bikini Mod]

Brother I am NOT ripping you a new asshole, just trying to slap some sense into you.

Fact is the way you are making this broad out she seems like an insecure, controlling, harpy bitch. Surely her pussy isn't made of gold... is it?

She could be the nicest person in the world but if you perceive her to be a jealous, insecure, controlling, harpy bitch then what is the point of wasting one more second of YOUR LIFE with her?

All women are not nuts just as all men are not dogs. Life is too short to waste with a woman who makes you feel the way this one is making you feel.

Here:

My first husband was a lesson and my last husband is a gift.

I am not telling you anything that I didn't find out for myself... the hard way.

 

[SaiBoT]

Ahmmm... want to solve some problems with her make her feel secure! But once you make her feel secure don't let her build overconfidence...

 

[*ebony*]

lol
thanks for all the replies
Bikinimom is ripping me a new A-Hole!!!
I just feel like i get blamed for everything that happens in our relationship
i am very low maintenance low drama
she is the opposite. she loves the drama, cant live without it
i can chill by myself all day long doing my own thing and i'm fine
she is constantly needing someone to go with her here or there
because she doesnt like doing things by herself and then i get in trouble
for not being super excited when she comes back after
being gone for only an hour or 2
i cant sit here and talk smack on EF when she's around because then i'm not spending time with her
but she can sit and shop online for hours and i dnt say a word

I agree with what everyone says about making a clean break but at the moment it just cant
be done. It is only fair to do that for her sake because i knw that our relationship
is not going to be forever (shoot me).

it just infuriates me when she makes me feeel guilty for working out with my training partner and not her or tell me that eating six meals a day is selfish and pyscho.
sorry for the rant, i just feel like im growing up and away from her
i am in a different place now then where i was when we met
im much more drivin, ambitious and focused
girls are crazy
i need a woman

Sparta, if you need some space, tell her. your prbly just overwhelmed now. Just talk to her about how you feel, and see if things change or if your feeling for her change. Relationships are about communication and compromise.

We all need our space... we all need our own time with other people... she needs to realize that you spend a lot of time with her already and that you just need your own time too.

alot of girls have a very bad habit of making relationships their whole lives! That is where girls run into trouble! Talk to her about it, but don' t attack her and choose your words wisely!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Ahmmm... want to solve some problems with her make her feel secure! But once you make her feel secure don't let her build overconfidence...

Unless you have been doing something to *make her* insecure (which would make you a douche - not saying that the guy did this, some do) then there is NOTHING a guy can do to *make his lady secure* (and vice versa).

Insecurity and control have got to be THE TWO HYUGEST turn-offs evah...

Had me one of them and couldn't be happier to have gotten rid of his sorry ass.

 

[SaiBoT]

Unless you have been doing something to *make her* insecure (which would make you a douche - not saying that the guy did this, some do) then there is NOTHING a guy can do to *make his lady secure* (and vice versa).

Insecurity and control have got to be THE TWO HYUGEST turn-offs evah...

Had me one of them and couldn't be happier to have gotten rid of his sorry ass.

Some people are insecure by nature not because you particularly made them feel that way...

 

[lartinos]

just don't get her pregnant