if a woman finds herself in this situation, the cheating part should be the least of her worries.
i posted this response to BM'S thread about cheating; thought it deserved it's own thread.
elite ladies: if your husband/boyfriend has a relationship with another man, is this cheating?
lol um....yes, definitely cheating. Plus I'd feel used, and stupid, because obviously in that situation, he's gay and I'm his beard.

It's so strange how some would accept a wife with another woman to be somehow "ok" but if she is with another man it is cheating and *gasp* to consider your husband with another dude = horror.
My exhusband's brother was gay so we would often to places that were patronized by mostly gay men. These guys were AMAZING! Hot, HOT, HOT!!! Impeccably dressed, buff bods, witty conversationalists, funny... Made me wish I was a dude. And yet I could have been buck ass nekkid wearing a sign around my neck that stated, "FREE blowjobs" and NO ONE would have noticed. It was the strangest feeling in the world to be completely invisible while all these fine men were all over my husband. LFMAO Were we in a tittybar or hooker convention I could have cared less but THAT situation I found to be very unnerving. I mean, even though my ex was straight (I guess, who knows for sure) I felt like there was NO WAY I could compete... odd, odd, odd...![]()

yes, there is still a "double standard" when cheating is involved...It's so strange how some would accept a wife with another woman to be somehow "ok" but if she is with another man it is cheating and *gasp* to consider your husband with another dude = horror.

Us musicians have a saying:
"What happens on the road -- shit happens"
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Explains why you aren't married yet and *insanely happy* bout it. Must feel good to finally come out of the closet.![]()
And miss 'i wanna sleep with another woman and it's not cheating' wins the self-righteous award kids! lol!
Oh look BM, a dancing cage!
people in glass houses....
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