another bad experience with women

[sconoscuito]

so last night me, my girl, my friend and his girl(she thinks so) and another friend are all going out to this party, well there was more people with us later but this was the core.


basically we all end up gettin pretty drunk and what ends up happening is my friends girl constantly trying to put me down and shit, trying to tell me that the girl Im with doesnt like me and trying to make me feel bad...my friend constanly hitting on my girl who is about to pass out after like 2 beers... I was actually gettin kinda mad but I knew she wouldnt do nothing

now even though this girl was trying to make me feel like shit in every way possible she was the one who I ended up going home with and sleeping with, just sleeping, well tad more than just sleeping but not serius, I pretended like I passed out and I believe that alone takes alota courage...

and my girl ended up puking like 10 millions times which makes me never wanna touch her but I cant really blame anything on her, accept that shes a retard and a weak souce who cant even drink 3-4 bottles of beer, well I gues she had more but whatver

anyway, this is one more reason why its getting harder for me to trust a girl, I dont know why but no matter how many times I tried, girls always end up being like that hoe from cruel intentions... is there any normal girls left out there anymore? theres 1 that I know off actually who I'm gonna call even though she doesnt put out untill shes married but whatever, at least I can trust her.

 

[javaguru]

Read your post again and ask yourself why any woman should trust you?

 

[sconoscuito]

well I need to trust them first in order for me to turn trustable to them

that make any sense?

 

[juve]

well I need to trust them first in order for me to turn trustable to them

that make any sense?

ever heard of generalized reciprocity?

 

[MFMan]

I just wasted 3 minutes reading this.

 

[Gambino]

What kinda friend hits on your lady, especially with you there? Sounds kinda shady...

 

[jh1]

yeah bor, you're just as bad. Sorry.

I lived like that. everyone was doing it to everyone, but I couldn't take it because I get involved more than phyisically and I GET PISSED when someone betrays me. I tried for a couple years in that circle of people. Realized I had to find other people to date.

You are messing around on ur grl, how can you expect her to honor you?

Trust is something earned bro, you can give it or take it.

 

[sconoscuito]

no

fuck it all I want is a girl who I can trust, no lies no games, that friend whos gonna be there when I need it the most you know...

so far I cant find that girl

I think its cause I'm an ahole so girls try to be badasses back or something like that so that they wont get burned... is that a possibility ?

 

[Gambino]

A burised ego can be a dangerous thing...

 

[sconoscuito]

there is one girl like I said who in order to date her I need to meet her parents and not do it till shes married

she seems like a girl that can be trusted and as a matter of fact a great girl, shes gonna be back in 2 weeks

gonna give that one a try, I dont even care about gettin some anymore thats really not the point here

and I know I sound like im 35 but oh well

p.s and about my friend, its no big deal, the way I think which you will all tell me is wrong is that if she wants to cheat on me than we werent meant to be together and just waisting time... of course this can be prevented but I dont even wanna stress up something like that, now if I was married to that girl that friend of mine woulda had his throat cut by now

 

[sconoscuito]

yea well at least one of them called left a message, apologised for the obscene behavior and all the excessive drinking

that fuckin bitch



P.S. by the way. I'm kinda exagarating with all the name calling so you guys can avoid that

p.s.s aother girl just offered me if I wanna come over again over text message on my phone and I rejected that offer

at least now I know what you guys are talking about when it comes to those late night "come get some ass" calls

 

[flexygrl]

Sorry, but you don't sound like your 35. You sound like your 15. How many times are the women on Elite gonna tell you to stop playing with "girls". What kind of women are you picking up? Seriously?!? Are you just looking for the skank hoes? If so, why in the hell are you wondering why they "suck" so much?


Bottom line for the millionth time......there are plenty of good women out there. You will not find them in bars or clubs. If you are serious about a relationship, try a personal ad. Look for the girls looking for serious relationships, not friends. Look around your college, your library, church, hey even your supermarket.


Watch out for the ones that say they are virgins. Most of the time, those are the skankiest ones.

 

[PHATchik]

I'm not even going to try to formulate a response to this.

 

[sconoscuito]

well I did pick them up at school, so I dont kno where I can find a better place...they were the best looking ones we could find so I thought at least one would have some self esteem and class but I was wrong on that one



oh and Im not gonna try that online shit


by the way, I never cheated on the girl so whats the big deal? I did my part and she was flirting with my friend so we are equel now

but There was a moment last night, when she was sandwiched between the two Finnish dwarves and the Maori tribesmen, where I thought, "Wow, I could really spend the rest of my life with this woman".
I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is.
(derek)

 

[flexygrl]

LOL!!!


Okay, so you met them at school. What about girls that are NOT the BEST looking. You know cute ones or just pretty ones......maybe a nice face but not the best body?!? Can you deal with any of those? Was this your first date with this girl?

 

[flexygrl]

Oh.....

Read this book:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0060929448/inktomi-bkasin-20/ref=nosim/002-8480801-0416045h

 

[sconoscuito]

this wasnt a date anymore really but if it has to be than it would be about 3rd and the other girl, I just seen her twice but she acts like I'm married to her or something even though she keeps tryin to put me down every once in a while

as for the girls that are not all that good, than I dont really think I can deal with them cause I;m not attracted to them

this is weird but I'm not the only one thinking this way, I have 2 other dudes on my bball team that are from europe and they same exact same things I say... maybe I dont belong here in america

 

[onebigab]

Read your post again and ask yourself why any woman should trust you?

Damn, you beat me to it.

 

[Forge]

now even though this girl was trying to make me feel like shit in every way possible she was the one who I ended up going home with and sleeping with, just sleeping, well tad more than just sleeping but not serius, I pretended like I passed out and I believe that alone takes alota courage...

by the way, I never cheated on the girl so whats the big deal? I did my part and she was flirting with my friend so we are equel now

OK, you're version of not cheating is different than mine. News flash: it's also different than 95% of women's version of not cheating. Why expect something in return when you can't even give it yourself?

My advice: don't look for anything serious right now, just date and fool around. You don't sound like you're ready for anything beyond that yet. Sow some wild oats bro.

 

[sconoscuito]

yea thats exactly what I was thinking


that day will come anyway



p.S. you guys dont like me? not even tiny bit?

 

[Smurfy]

how old are you?

 

[sconoscuito]

19