Am I Bi?

[gorillahung]

I've never been with a man, only women. But I have fantasies of going down on a man. I don't ever think I could get an emotional connection with a man. I just want to "borrow" their cock for a few minutes. Would I be considered bisexual or am I a hetero guy with a strange fetish? Are there any other guys who are mostly into women but also have a homoerotic fantasy?

 

[*ebony*]

have you always had these feelings?

Im not a guy but I new a guy that you remind of. Only with him, he had sex with other guys, said it was the fantasy that aroused him and not the guys themselves. never an emotional connection with them, only women.

 

[tryin2tone]

I know how you feel. You just want to try it and see if you like it. I think you should give it a go, only after you do it will you know if you're into dudes or not. It's only a fantasy if you do it once and its over... Like a one and done, but if you like it, well now that would be up to you what you do next.

 

[NinjaRyder]

Your call I am the exact opposite, do the sex and date thing with dudes but the only sex with females.... I define either way depending on the situation but it is a bitch to explain to most when asked(very open here).

 

[Headholio]

I know there are guys who have the shemale fetish (chicks with dicks). They don't consider themselves gay. But they are IMO.

Lets face it; homosexual has a simple definition. Sex with your own sex. Either you are into it, or not. Apparently, you are.

 

[tryin2tone]

I know there are guys who have the shemale fetish (chicks with dicks). They don't consider themselves gay. But they are IMO.

Lets face it; homosexual has a simple definition. Sex with your own sex. Either you are into it, or not. Apparently, you are.

But is he into it or not? It doesn't seem like he has actually done the deed yet. Once he sucks a dick, he will know if he wants to stay licking snatch or if he wants to play both teams. He's only just imagining it now.

 

[Headholio]

But is he into it or not? It doesn't seem like he has actually done the deed yet. Once he sucks a dick, he will know if he wants to stay licking snatch or if he wants to play both teams. He's only just imagining it now.

He's fantasizing about it so he's into it.

I fantasize about girls, beer, pizza, vacations, money. I don't fantasize about dog poop, worms, or freezing to death. It's easy to figure out what you are into.

 

[*ebony*]

would do it given a discreet arrangement?

you are married? will you tell wife?

 

[tryin2tone]

He's fantasizing about it so he's into it.

I fantasize about girls, beer, pizza, vacations, money. I don't fantasize about dog poop, worms, or freezing to death. It's easy to figure out what you are into.

Lmao, I guess you're right there. I didn't think of it that way. Maybe he should watch some dude porn, a little guy on guy and see if he gets a hard on.
I know I would much rather watch 2 chicks go at it, than 2 dudes any day.

 

[*ebony*]

Lmao, I guess you're right there. I didn't think of it that way. Maybe he should watch some dude porn, a little guy on guy and see if he gets a hard on.
I know I would much rather watch 2 chicks go at it, than 2 dudes any day.

other way around for me. gay guy porn is way hotter than 2 girl porn to me.lol

 

[TheRippedReverend]

I've never been with a man, only women. But I have fantasies of going down on a man. I don't ever think I could get an emotional connection with a man. I just want to "borrow" their cock for a few minutes. Would I be considered bisexual or am I a hetero guy with a strange fetish? Are there any other guys who are mostly into women but also have a homoerotic fantasy?

Nope just GAY plain ol gay

 

[tryin2tone]

Nope just GAY plain ol gay

Ahahahahaha!!!! Awesome.

 

[gatemoney]

I know how you feel. You just want to try it and see if you like it. I think you should give it a go, only after you do it will you know if you're into dudes or not. It's only a fantasy if you do it once and its over... Like a one and done, but if you like it, well now that would be up to you what you do next.

And just what the hell is going on here!?

 

[tryin2tone]

And just what the hell is going on here!?

Dr. Phil advice.

 

[*ebony*]

Dr. Phil advice.

lol, I like you!

 

[tryin2tone]

lol, I like you!

And I like you

 

[nangiggles]

how satisfied have you been with your female sexual partners?

 

[-SD-]

"You either suck dick or you do not suck dick"

-Andrew "Dice" Clay

 

[lander2312]

wasn't he gay? Lol

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[gorillahung]

how satisfied have you been with your female sexual partners?

I've always been satisfied by the ladies I've been with. I feel like a str8 guy with a bizarre fetish. I also like BDSM but that's a different issue

 

[Headholio]

I've always been satisfied by the ladies I've been with. I feel like a str8 guy with a bizarre fetish. I also like BDSM but that's a different issue

You are almost there. Now give that bizarre fetish a name.

 

[tryin2tone]

You are almost there. Now give that bizarre fetish a name.

I'm pretty sure there's a difference between a fetish and a fantasy. This here sounds like he is fantasizing about a big ol' dong in his mouth. Just sayin

 

[gorillahung]

You are almost there. Now give that bizarre fetish a name.

???? How about naming it cocksucking?

 

[lander2312]

I've always been satisfied by the ladies I've been with. I feel like a str8 guy with a bizarre fetish. I also like BDSM but that's a different issue

Let me guess your BDSM fantasy has you being dominated by a woman with a strap-on.

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[billfred]

Dude - you are gay. Get it over with before you have a wife and kids.

 

[SpyWizard]

You can be the best actor, doctor, lawyer whatever but suck one dick and you'll always be known as a cocksucker..

that's a quote..

 

[Fitguy308]

Yeah bro your gay probly

 

[lander2312]

But who cares if you are bi? Live your life and have fun. You only get to live it once!

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[chadstallion]

if you've never acted on this fantasy you're not gay.
the first time you do you can consider yourself 'bi curious' and you get a free pass.
if you really like it and pursue it even on a semi regular basis, you can consider yourself bi.

i have learned this over the years from blowing lots of married guys.
most only receive - they dont consider themselves bi; those that return the favor are comfortable with the 'bi' label.

 

[Doniella]

I think bi guys are hot!! One of my fantasies is my boyfriend, a bi guy and me all having sex at the same time...mmmmm. I love gay porn also!

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[lander2312]

I smell an alter.....lol

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[TheRippedReverend]

I think bi guys are hot!! One of my fantasies is my boyfriend, a bi guy and me all having sex at the same time...mmmmm. I love gay porn also!

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Id hit but I dont sword fight! Sorry but Ill stick it in ur ass 

 

[Mh48500]

Based on the opinions there are a ton of people who are not sexually liberated. The mind is limitless, free, and all fair game. It is even more incredible when shared with your partner...calling the guy gay for fantasizing about something is close minded. What about the high percentage of woman who fantasize of rape or forced sex? FANTASY, not reality...I highly doubt they truly want to be raped.

 

[stopstalking]

To me it sounds like your a straight guy. That had some kind of abuse S a child. Wether it was adult on child or child on child. Seems this fantasy might be due to something that Happen back in the day

 

[joeblow12345]

It sounds like your gay. I am a straight man,and I have never considered blowing a guy. I have always been attracted to women and addicted to vagina. If your gay then your gay. Do what makes you happy.

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[lander2312]

But your screen name says you want to blow a guy named joe? Just a little confused...haha

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[Jamesm11]

To me it sounds like your a straight guy. That had some kind of abuse S a child. Wether it was adult on child or child on child. Seems this fantasy might be due to something that Happen back in the day

This actually was what I was thinking too. Especially liking BDSM. You don't have to answer as its extremely personal but it may be previous abuse as a child or growing up. Happened with my cousin and he shared a lot of the same stuff you just mentioned

 

[joeblow12345]

But your screen name says you want to blow a guy named joe? Just a little confused...haha

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To clear up any confushion you might have I shall clarify, I only go down on women. If guys are your thing good for you. Its just not for me.

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[shirlene29]

why does someone have to be abused to be a little kinky?
geez...gotta love armchair psychologists

I was never abused , I've had bisexual fantasies...hell I experimented with it a bit ..figured out I'm straight as hell and love the cock ...
if half the people in here took some intro sociology courses or intro psych courses...they'd know this is pretty normal even if they've never experienced it

 

[Headholio]

Its different with girls

 

[shirlene29]

lolol...is it?

 

[FattyMcGillicutty]

Nothing wrong with no matter what you are or think you are. Try it, if you like it, do it. I have some of the same fantasy but given the chance I completely freaked and just bank it as fun to think about only.

 

[2Dope4U]

I've never been with a man, only women. But I have fantasies of going down on a man. I don't ever think I could get an emotional connection with a man. I just want to "borrow" their cock for a few minutes. Would I be considered bisexual or am I a hetero guy with a strange fetish? Are there any other guys who are mostly into women but also have a homoerotic fantasy?

You are gay..just haven't came out completely...gay gay gay gay gay!!! Lol

 

[Outonthegrind]

He's fantasizing about it so he's into it.

I fantasize about girls, beer, pizza, vacations, money. I don't fantasize about dog poop, worms, or freezing to death. It's easy to figure out what you are into.

Hahahaha

 

[cbodd]

Dude buy a dildo and put it in ur mouth and if you feel like you want the real thing after that then go for it !! To each there own on a fantasy but once you act on it ,its not a fantasy anymore its reality !! Now time to munch on some poosie !!!

 

[musclemom]

A fantasy is just that, it's a fantasy. Sometimes the appeal is the forbidden nature of it. Put it this way, plenty of women have rape fantasies, doesn't mean they find true rape erotic.

And honestly, my personal observation is that most of the time the reality doesn't come close to the fantasy.

A fetish is something else entirely, Google it, explains it much better than I could.

 

[BigNino]

Dude, if you're trying to blow another guys whistle then your gay ..!

 

[tryin2tone]

Dude, if you're trying to blow another guys whistle then your gay ..!

whether youre on top or bottom!!!

 

[BigNino]

Dude, if you're sticking your snicker bar into another guys peanut butter jar ... Trust me you're gay I'm just saying... not hating on you do yr thang !! I don't get down like that I'm the incredible heterosexual ..haha !

 

[Fitguy308]

If you like cock then your gay in my book

 

[nangiggles]

If you like cock then your gay in my book

Dude, if you're trying to blow another guys whistle then your gay ..!

Actually NO, if you two paid attention and had some sort of analytical skill you would read he LIKES women and has sex with women but has FANTASIZED about blowing a dude, hell even if he did it IRL it would not make him gay it would make him BIsexual not homosexual.

I think, there is nothing wrong with bisexuality. Double the fun.

THIS ^^^

To me it sounds like your a straight guy. That had some kind of abuse S a child. Wether it was adult on child or child on child. Seems this fantasy might be due to something that Happen back in the day

This actually was what I was thinking too. Especially liking BDSM. You don't have to answer as its extremely personal but it may be previous abuse as a child or growing up. Happened with my cousin and he shared a lot of the same stuff you just mentioned

LOL at you two, so homosexuals or bisexuals were abused somehow? it is a known scientific fact that sex generates spikes of adrenaline which can help build up resistance to pain (that's why you dont feel that friction burn until the next day or later, lol) BDSM just make those spikes higher and more stable and can actually enhance the sexual experience, of course it's not for everyone since not everyone has the same education, feelings, taste and sensibility, but I must say that stating these things/preferences are due to childhood abuse are the most ignorant things I've read here in BTS, congratulations on baffling me, and I've heard some doozzies, oh and no I'm not gay or that into BDSM

why does someone have to be abused to be a little kinky?
geez...gotta love armchair psychologists

I was never abused , I've had bisexual fantasies...hell I experimented with it a bit ..figured out I'm straight as hell and love the cock ...
if half the people in here took some intro sociology courses or intro psych courses...they'd know this is pretty normal even if they've never experienced it

Healthy educated female with a good libido up in here ^^^

 

[BigNino]

Listen Bruh !! Do your thang just saying in my book if u want to fuck a dude .. your ass is gay period.!!! I'm not hating on old boy just keeping it 100..!! Do yr thang Dawg I'm not knocking yr hustle !! Peace