Harry.. I think you're 100% wrong...
Responsible levels of AAS usage in a women is just as safe as for a man.. In fact, stress on the filtration and cardiovascular systems is far less severe in women, given they need such small doses..
I hate when guys tell people they just need to fix their diet or grab a few extra minutes of cardio.. Sure, those things help.. but AAS effect gene transcription and people that are naturally low bodyfat or muscular are that way because of their hormone levels as well as diet and activity levels.
A person who doesn't fix their diet and cardio should not be using AAS, period. AAS should only be used once someone hits their natural genetic limit.
I see people all the time jump right into AAS without having established a solid base. A good example is a young high school kid I used to see in the gym a few years ago. He did cycles at a young age, thought it was the right way to go to lose weight and build muscle, but his diet and workout schedule was pure crap.
I saw him for the first time in about three years the other day and he is overweight and suffering from depression.
That said WorkinWoman13 states she works 50 hour a week and raises two 5 year old. I know she is busy as hell. Recommending winstrol is the last thing I would do!
In my opinion, and this is based on my experience working with people who have busy schedules, (and I am not judging you WorkinWoman13! Just trying to make a point), she will start taking the winstrol, start working out, her schedule will interfere with her workout schedule, and then it all falls apart. Next thing you know your natty hormone levels are off, you feel like crap, and your workout schedule has fallen apart and you end up worse than you started.
My approach: write out a workout plan and also a meal plan. Put it on paper then start a diet and workout journal.
Stick to that plan for 6 moths to a year. Weight loss and muscle tone will come in due time. If, over a 6 month to 1 year period you are very dedicated and hit all of your goals, then think about taking AAS.
WorkinWoman13 didn't mention her current workout schedule, diet and so on so I may be jumping the gun. But I have lots of experience dealing with people who have a very hard time balancing their fitness and professional/work goals.
I didn't do my first cycle until I was in my 30's. And I made sure I had my diet and schedule down. I haven't missed a day in the gym in years, except for a few surgeries, and even then I was back right when the doc told me I could go.