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Advice for taking out a single mom???
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May1010
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Single moms = damaged goods
The Whole F/N Show
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Just be yourself. Single moms usually aren't much different from most other women. Don't be overly hung up on it. Finding a babysitter is usually the biggest issue.
TxCollegeguy
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she's a nice person, very very smart, and has lots of drive....It was a bit of a shock since she asked me out
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May1010
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Why would you want to get wrapped up with a single mom?
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May,
Just because someone is a single parent doesn't mean they are not a quality person. And as a gay man what your expertise on dating single moms?
Just because someone is a single parent doesn't mean they are not a quality person. And as a gay man what your expertise on dating single moms?
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The Whole F/N Show said:
I've yet to meet a single mom that wasn't absolutely nutty.
TxCollegeguy
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I haven't thought of any reasons why not. she's not looking for a daddy, since that job is filled, we share alot of interests with music, poetry, books, food, dancing
she has a good job and will probably finish school before I will...She's an interesting person
but what shocked me the most about her, is that she enjoys dancing to "They Can't take that away from me"
the fact that she's 22 and enjoys thta song more then I do is cool, considering no one else I know has ever heard of it
she has a good job and will probably finish school before I will...She's an interesting person
but what shocked me the most about her, is that she enjoys dancing to "They Can't take that away from me"
the fact that she's 22 and enjoys thta song more then I do is cool, considering no one else I know has ever heard of it
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Well that's your experience. That's not the case for all of them.
fistfullofsteel
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May1010 said:
May1010's ass=more wear and tear than madonna's pussy.
I do agree with him on the damaged goods though, but it's hard to find a girl without a busted hymen.
Rotten
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May1010 said:
Silly faggot, dicks are for kids. Sorry Loren, I disagree with you. I married a single mom. Seems like 80% of the women I dated were single moms. They aren't damaged goods, they just take a little more patience then other women.
Tex, I guess the only advice I could give you would be to find out how much the child's father is in the picture. The "damaged goods" that May talks about usually happens when the ex torments the mom to death and makes her a little nutty. My wife's ex is a classic psycho. That asshole calls every fucking day at least two or three times a day. He and I get along fine, if fact we used to hang out at this bar I used to work at for years. He would come in with a different chick every night. It wasn't until I met my wife that I found out that he was married the whole time and left her at home with their son. Asshole. If there was anything I could change about my life now it would be to hire Satanic Goatslayer to kill her ex, then life would be perfect.
Another thing is I disagree with the people who say get in good with the kid first. That's called "Shoplifting the pooty" and it's wrong. If possible I wouldn't be around her child until you know you've got a good chance with the mom. If things don't work out between you and mom and you've gotten close to the child, then when you leave that child will be really hurt and won't understand why their new friend left them.
Good luck. Single moms can make excellent girlfriends and future wives.
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strengthmonster
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From my own personal experience I'd stay away from any single mum that seems too hasty to introduce you to her kid. If she is a good mum (and good g/f material) she would be careful about introducing you to her child until she knows you very well. It wouldn't be fair on the kid if he/she got attached to you unless there seems little chance of you breaking up.
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velvett
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You don't treat a single mom any differently than any other woman and as someone else stated the hardest part is finding the babysitter.
You just have to realize something, she was pregnant at 20 or younger and will eventually go through a phase of resentment that she doesn't have the freedom of her peers. (you and she will of course deny this - that's normal)
She will always be looking at her boyfriends and considering them as potential fathers - you are kidding yourself if you think that is not true. Women without children sum up a guy as to their potential father skills, so why should a single mom be any different?
There are many people who will have the same point of view as May does, some will tell you to your face, others will just talk behind your back. Consider yourself pre-warned.
All in all, she's still just a girl, like any another with thoughts, feelings, opinion and heart that can be broken - so treat her right.
You just have to realize something, she was pregnant at 20 or younger and will eventually go through a phase of resentment that she doesn't have the freedom of her peers. (you and she will of course deny this - that's normal)
She will always be looking at her boyfriends and considering them as potential fathers - you are kidding yourself if you think that is not true. Women without children sum up a guy as to their potential father skills, so why should a single mom be any different?
There are many people who will have the same point of view as May does, some will tell you to your face, others will just talk behind your back. Consider yourself pre-warned.
All in all, she's still just a girl, like any another with thoughts, feelings, opinion and heart that can be broken - so treat her right.
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Strengthmonster and Rotten = GOOD ADVICE.
No offense May - I REALLY LIKE YOU and I STILL DO, BUT YOU ARE DEAD WRONG HERE. And personally, I find your comment offensive.
If a NORMAL woman who happens to be a single mom is a bit nutty it is 99 out of 100 times due to the fact that the EX IS A FUCKING LUNATIC WHO DERIVES A TREMENDOUS AMOUNT OF PLEASURE FROM TORTURING HER and because they are FOREVER BOUND because of a child(ren), sadly, there will most likely be a PERPETUAL AMOUNT OF BULLSHIT involved in the relationship w/her.
So now, think looooooooooong and hard. Do you want that type of complication in your life? If the answer is even, "I don't know" then perhaps a date or two would be in order...WITHOUT the child. Remember THE BEST things in life come with struggle and hardship: lessons well learned, a wonderful career, a stunning pysique, a degree of higher learning or skilled trade, a beautiful baby and yes, a life-long relationship filled with trust, respect and support. (NOT LISTED IN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE.....just stream of consciousness writing, ok?).
Gotta go drop the kiddies off at camp (STILL don't know how I will pay for it....) and bust my ass trying to make my way in the world - DAMAGED GOODS? I DON'T THINK SO!
No offense May - I REALLY LIKE YOU and I STILL DO, BUT YOU ARE DEAD WRONG HERE. And personally, I find your comment offensive.
If a NORMAL woman who happens to be a single mom is a bit nutty it is 99 out of 100 times due to the fact that the EX IS A FUCKING LUNATIC WHO DERIVES A TREMENDOUS AMOUNT OF PLEASURE FROM TORTURING HER and because they are FOREVER BOUND because of a child(ren), sadly, there will most likely be a PERPETUAL AMOUNT OF BULLSHIT involved in the relationship w/her.
So now, think looooooooooong and hard. Do you want that type of complication in your life? If the answer is even, "I don't know" then perhaps a date or two would be in order...WITHOUT the child. Remember THE BEST things in life come with struggle and hardship: lessons well learned, a wonderful career, a stunning pysique, a degree of higher learning or skilled trade, a beautiful baby and yes, a life-long relationship filled with trust, respect and support. (NOT LISTED IN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE.....just stream of consciousness writing, ok?).
Gotta go drop the kiddies off at camp (STILL don't know how I will pay for it....) and bust my ass trying to make my way in the world - DAMAGED GOODS? I DON'T THINK SO!
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May1010, you have some nerve saying that about single moms. I doub't you can relate to the sacrifices that single mothers make and of the work they do every day.
Single mothers can be very fine to date, if you are a secure, patient man - I suppose if you are looking for a quicky or cheap thrills you might have to look else where.
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Single mothers can be very fine to date, if you are a secure, patient man - I suppose if you are looking for a quicky or cheap thrills you might have to look else where.
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My hats off to all the single moms out there..... it is a bitch to do and I don't know how the hell they do it. Especially with all the fucking dead beat "dads" and I use that term very loosely.
I was home with our oldest son for the first 5 months of his life and I was a walking zombie. Those 2 sometime 3 getting up in the middle of the night nights sucked the big one. Wife was working and it was the off season for me soooo I did it.
So to all the single moms hats off to ya if you are trying.......if you are being a lazy ass and trying to just collect welfare......well look around.
I was home with our oldest son for the first 5 months of his life and I was a walking zombie. Those 2 sometime 3 getting up in the middle of the night nights sucked the big one. Wife was working and it was the off season for me soooo I did it.
So to all the single moms hats off to ya if you are trying.......if you are being a lazy ass and trying to just collect welfare......well look around.
fistfullofsteel
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kitKat said:
Exactly, so let's get married.
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