Advice and me

[fyxgel2]

Obviously if this forum has learned one thing, its that I dont take advice very well. Sure I listen to it and give it consideration, but I never put it into interaction, even good advice.

I'm starting to wonder if advice is really even going to be helpful to me at all when it comes to the dating scene.
Sometimes different people tell me opposing things, or people give me advice that I am not sure about how well it will work, so I dont try it.

Could it be that perhaps I should just not listen to anyone's advice at all, not ask for advice, but just kind of bump around and learn things on my own? Granted I'll probably make some mistakes that other people would have told me to avoid, but the thing is that I will learn these concepts and trust them much more, than if someone tells them to me.

For example, lets say 100 people are telling me the idea "dont look desperate in front of women, or they wont be into you". I'll hear this advice, but I will have no idea how to implement it exactly to my situations. Or maybe I wont believe it fully (in this case I'd believe it, but in other cases its hard to say)

Anyways... finally when I go out and do something and make the mistake, I seem to learn from it a lot better than just having a bunch of people telling me to do or not to do something.


Maybe I am just a bad receiver for advice and I shouldnt ask for it?

 

[BileStew]

Make a female alter and exchange PM's with yourself.

You have nothing to lose now.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

you should ban yourself until you take everyone's good advice and put it to use.

that's one piece of advice you should NOT ignore.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

Make a female alter and exchange PM's with yourself.

You have nothing to lose now.

already been done by BBF.

however, if he made a male alter and was exchanging penis pics, that'd be something new.

 

[vansmack2000]

Go work at a womans prison, m guessing you can get laid

 

[-SD-]

Somtimes I just have to sit back and laugh.

 

[supersizeme]

stop posting and wasting people's time if you're not going to listen to anyone

 

[Fragadelic]

Make a lot of money and frequent whorehouses - works for me

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, I know I'm a sucker. But, I wish you luck.

 

[HumorMe]

 

[bulldog3434]

after reading these threads, i'm convinced that its all a joke. this totally can't be for real

 

[RADAR]

Get on the yellow brick road,follow that sucker to OZ , see the wizard and tell that sucker you want a FUCKING Brain, oviously that one is defective!!!!!


RADAR

 

[Buddy_Christ]

ain't that the truth.

 

[HumorMe]

Get on the yellow brick road,follow that sucker to OZ , see the wizard and tell that sucker you want a FUCKING Brain, oviously that one is defective!!!!!


RADAR

Obviously he mistook God when he said he was giving out brains and he thought he said trains. He told God he wanted a little one that ran backwards.

 

[fyxgel2]

ouch, maybe i should have waited a few days before posting this thread.

you guys are being incredibally hard on me.

Seriously, how is this for a new idea though, dont ask for everyone's advice, and just figure shit out on my own. I mean, its not like I'm utilizing the advice right now..

 

[Taps]

I always pull for the underdog. Go get 'em, bro.

 

[fyxgel2]

I always pull for the underdog. Go get 'em, bro.

thanks. the encouragement helps.

In the mean time no one has commented directly on my idea about not using advice, and just trying to learn shit on my own.

 

[InTraining]

Troll....

 

[Taps]

thanks. the encouragement helps.

In the mean time no one has commented directly on my idea about not using advice, and just trying to learn shit on my own.

Adivce is fine, but the only way you really learn anything is by doing it yourself. Repetition is key.

 

[fyxgel2]

Adivce is fine, but the only way you really learn anything is by doing it yourself. Repetition is key.

I couldnt agree more. You dont know jack shit until you get out in the real world. Advice cant guide you by the reins, I think its just meant to give you a little push here in there ONCE YOU ARE ALREADY OUT AND DOING SOMETHING.

 

[Taps]

I couldnt agree more. You dont know jack shit until you get out in the real world. Advice cant guide you by the reins, I think its just meant to give you a little push here in there ONCE YOU ARE ALREADY OUT AND DOING SOMETHING.

lol well, there you go.

Now go score some tail.

 

[fyxgel2]

lol well, there you go.

Now go score some tail.

My real desire in me is to go out and talk TO women. But because I am afraid of screwing up and rejection, I hang around back here on these forums and talk ABOUT women instead, in attempts to satisfy that desire, but obviously it doesnt work. And when I talk about women, usually it comes in the form of asking for advice, for situations I wont face any time soon.

And as you can imagine that pisses everyone off, the repeated asking for advice without the asker using it. And people are waiting for the day when fyxgel will get a date, and it hasnt happened yet, and its driving people crazy, and people are wondering if its ever going to happen.

Let me tell you folks, it will happen soon. I pray this. Hopefully God can help me get past my insecurities, because so far I havent been able to. But I too will continue trying in the mean time, trying harder than ever.

 

[Taps]

Well, to be honest, you're not missing out on a whole lot. Girls your age are pretty boring to talk to. If it wasn't for the sex aspect, I think most young guys would just chill with thier friends and play X-box all day.

Anyway, if you're having that much trouble, you might want to consider changing your perscription or something. Being paralyzed by fear and insecurity is no way to live, man

 

[fyxgel2]

Well, to be honest, you're not missing out on a whole lot. Girls your age are pretty boring to talk to. If it wasn't for the sex aspect, I think most young guys would just chill with thier friends and play X-box all day.

Anyway, if you're having that much trouble, you might want to consider changing your perscription or something. Being paralyzed by fear and insecurity is no way to live, man

I really wouldnt mind making out with a girl or something like that. Even if some Christians would look down on me for it, I could care less.

It seems like I can get past the fear of initial conversation. I'm great with introductions, and pretty basic small talk. I'm not very good at talking with girls about how the Lakers played, or something silly like that, or about some show, or those things (the problem is that I dont have many hobbies and i dont really want to get any more hobbies)

so the real problem is, I dont get to the stage where I'm hanging out with them, or talking to them very regularly, or anything like that. I think my fear is what prevents me from getting to THAT stage.

 

[jackangel]

you're asking for advice about whether or not you should ask for advice because you don't listen to advice.

this thread is a marvelous creation, it glistens in the light of our attention, the sheen of its afterbirth throwing out electromagnetic radiation like a challenge to all who bear witness. it furrows the brow and twists the mouth in confounded amazement at the insuperable mysteries brought to us each day by this world. it defies the self-assured and mocks the jaded complacency of internet mavericks everywhere.

i retire to bed this night in awe.

 

[fyxgel2]

you're asking for advice about whether or not you should ask for advice because you don't listen to advice.

this thread is a marvelous creation, it glistens in the light of our attention, the sheen of its afterbirth throwing out electromagnetic radiation like a challenge to all who bear witness. it furrows the brow and twists the mouth in confounded amazement at the insuperable mysteries brought to us each day by this world. it defies the self-assured and mocks the jaded complacency of internet mavericks everywhere.

i retire to bed this night in awe.

lol, you lost me somewhere in the middle.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

you're asking for advice about whether or not you should ask for advice because you don't listen to advice.

Yep, that's about the size of it....

 

[HumorMe]

You dont know jack shit until you get out in the real world.

Just in case you do get out in the real world...this might help with knowing who Jack Shit is
.
http://nerdysouth.com/flash/jack schitt.swf

 

[RADAR]

you're asking for advice about whether or not you should ask for advice because you don't listen to advice.

this thread is a marvelous creation, it glistens in the light of our attention, the sheen of its afterbirth throwing out electromagnetic radiation like a challenge to all who bear witness. it furrows the brow and twists the mouth in confounded amazement at the insuperable mysteries brought to us each day by this world. it defies the self-assured and mocks the jaded complacency of internet mavericks everywhere.

i retire to bed this night in awe.

What he said.............................You have recieved enough advice here to become a playa, why you don't use it is beyond me.

 

[brunette]

my head hurts

 

[flexygrl]

I have advice for you, take it if you will............

If you want a girl who plays games, then play games. If you want a good girl who will be good to you and actually love and care about you one day then be sincere, be yourself, don't try too hard but it's okay to show that you are a good person.

Trust me, if you do this you will attract a decent girl. It WILL take longer and YES you will get frustrated but you will be rewarded in the long run.

Jackie

 

[fyxgel2]

my head hurts

Here, have a nice smooth glass of "shut the fuck up" juice.

 

[Taps]

lmao...foxy dont take no shit off no bitch

 

[Moderate_THIS]

What is this fucking shit? The human version of Seabiscuit? The adorable tale of foxygel, the consummate underdog. *cue Jeff Bridges*

"My dick is too small, my head is too big, and I'm too dumb to know the difference"

My advice:

Before you post what you think, think.

 

[-SD-]

What is this fucking shit? The human version of Seabiscuit? The adorable tale of foxygel, the consummate underdog. *cue Jeff Bridges*

"My dick is too small, my head is too big, and I'm too dumb to know the difference"

My advice:

Before you post what you think, think.

Bwhaaahahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

[awittyusername]

Here, have a nice smooth glass of "shut the fuck up" juice.

That's it flyxgel!.. Be a man!!!!!!! Show some passion!!!! Chicks want a real man not a biatch!

 

[jackangel]

lol nice, that brunette sure has been dogging you on every thread, way to single her out for some verbal beatdown!!

 

[bulldog3434]

good job buddy

 

[crew9]

Here, have a nice smooth glass of "shut the fuck up" juice.

I wonder how many people have felt the same way about your threads

 

[bran987]

you're asking for advice about whether or not you should ask for advice because you don't listen to advice.

this thread is a marvelous creation, it glistens in the light of our attention, the sheen of its afterbirth throwing out electromagnetic radiation like a challenge to all who bear witness. it furrows the brow and twists the mouth in confounded amazement at the insuperable mysteries brought to us each day by this world. it defies the self-assured and mocks the jaded complacency of internet mavericks everywhere.

i retire to bed this night in awe.

after post #1 of this thread I don't believe him anymore
not that I shouldn't have figured it out sooner.

 

[fyxgel2]

after post #1 of this thread I don't believe him anymore
not that I shouldn't have figured it out sooner.

Its okay, my confidence doesnt rely on what you believe about me.

I wonder how many people have felt the same way about your threads.

I dont care how people feel about my threads, they dont have to read them if they dont want to. And they dont waste much boardspace, so that argument against me is bullshit.

At least I dont go ripping on people about their threads, or go ripping on people's character/personality, as "brunette" here is guilty of.

 

[bran987]

Its okay, my confidence doesnt rely on what you believe about me.

whatever. I was really trying to help you.

 

[fyxgel2]

whatever. I was really trying to help you.

you are trying to say that I am an alter, lol.

What I was saying is that, if you don't believe me for who I am, it doesn't bother me.

 

[brunette]

lol nice, that brunette sure has been dogging you on every thread, way to single her out for some verbal beatdown!!

i'm hardly hunting him down fella

way to stir the shit, eh? verbal beatdown

 

[vinylgroover]

If it flies, fucks or floats, rent it don't buy it.

 

[fyxgel2]

i'm hardly hunting him down fella

way to stir the shit, eh? verbal beatdown

I will be honest. I dont think you have been huntin' on me that much either. or at least not that i've noticed. you're still cool in my book.

 

[Robert Jan]

You don't need advice. you need to grow some balls.

Balls

 

[crew9]

Its okay, my confidence doesnt rely on what you believe about me.

Now take that attitude and direct it towards your feelings about girls.

 

[Robert Jan]

Oui, monsieur Fagoté

 

[brunette]

You don't need advice. you need to grow some balls.

Balls

wow, what a REAL man