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Ok here's the story, I need some people's input. 3 weeks ago I was at a party up here in college. There was this one really hot girl there that I was checkin out so I asked one of my friends what the scoop was, if she had a boyfriend or not. She didn't, so I was like score, so I went and started talking to her and tried to put my mack down. We ended up making out by the end of the party and I ended up getting her number. I couldn't believe she didn't have a boyfriend, she was bangin. Anyways, so in the last 3 weeks we've hung out probably like 6 times, we've been hitting it off real well. A couple days ago she told me that she thought she was "really starting to fall for me". That kind of freaked me out a little since we've been seeing each other only 3 weeks, but i was like ok. Then today she told me she wanted to talk to me about something important to her, and she said she just wanted to let me know that she wanted to wait till marriage before doing anything sexual (basically nothing past making out and very little fondling) and she said she hopes that was ok with me. I said "sure", and tried to act normal, but in my mind i was thinking "oh shit, this has gotta be why her relationships up to this point have ended".
Anyways, my last 2 girlfriends were freaks in bed, and i'm a junior in college right now, and i'm going to grad school, so i won't be getting married for another 4 years atleast...basically i don't think this relationship is going to work out between us, but what do I say? If I tell her i'm not down with the waiting for sex thing i would feel like an asshole and I don't want to hurt this girl, but i'm just being realistic. why drag this out? the thing that sux is, since she was at that party because we both knew some of the same people, i'm going to get bitched out by some people if they find out i ended it because of the sex thing. Tough situation i'm in, what would you do? i respect people who want to wait, but thats just not one of my values, sorry.
Anyways, my last 2 girlfriends were freaks in bed, and i'm a junior in college right now, and i'm going to grad school, so i won't be getting married for another 4 years atleast...basically i don't think this relationship is going to work out between us, but what do I say? If I tell her i'm not down with the waiting for sex thing i would feel like an asshole and I don't want to hurt this girl, but i'm just being realistic. why drag this out? the thing that sux is, since she was at that party because we both knew some of the same people, i'm going to get bitched out by some people if they find out i ended it because of the sex thing. Tough situation i'm in, what would you do? i respect people who want to wait, but thats just not one of my values, sorry.
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