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a woman's past

PinK233

PinK233

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To the men....just curious, is a woman's sexual past important to you when deciding whether you will choose to be in a relationship or not...whether she was promiscious or abstinent...
 
good question. I don't think anyone ever wants to date the town whore, but then again I'm sure women feel the same way. I usually don't ask because right off the bat it's not my business and it's kind of an awkward question to ask on the first date.
 
I don't think it matters too much...

I know most of you feel I have a jaded view on the female population... which I do...

If anything, someone who has a strong sexual past would be a more attractive factor for me... I'm more likely to get what I want out of a relationship with her that way.

C
 
Do you really think that a woman would tell a man that she cares about that she was a slut? No way, she is going to tell you that she is as pure as Dove soap!!
 
PinK233 said:
To the men....just curious, is a woman's sexual past important to you when deciding whether you will choose to be in a relationship or not...whether she was promiscious or abstinent...
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Her past is her past.... As long as none of my buddy's have tapped it, it doesn't matter. I actually enjoy a woman that's open sexually and somewhat experienced....as long as she's clean!
 
Sluts make great fuck buddies...just never care about them.

Abstinent girls become promiscuous when Test boy is on the prowl.:mix:
 
toga22 said:
Do you really think that a woman would tell a man that she cares about that she was a slut? No way, she is going to tell you that she is as pure as Dove soap!!
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Hmm.... well at least women are honest to men they care about... no wait... OOOOOHHHHH you ment that they will LIE to men they care about...

Isn't this part of what I've been preaching? :)

C
 
Test boy said:
Sluts make great fuck buddies...just never care about them.

Abstinent girls become promiscuous when Test boy is on the prowl.:mix:
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:rolleyes: LOL

C
 
I would rather be with a woman that's open enough with
her sexuality, to know what she likes or dislikes, than one
who is afraid of or dislikes sex.

The past is just that, the past.
 
It doesn't matter to me. My first wife slept with 3 men before me and fucked around on me and left me for my best freind. Also dated a woman who worked as an escort she must have fucked 100's of guys. Best sex I ever had and treated me better than any woman ever has. Perfect in looks and personality but couldn't get over that job thingy so I dumped her. Kinda regret it now.

You can look at it two ways, if you hook up with a girl who has limited sexual experience she WILL cut loose at some time. If you get a woman who already has cut loose and wants to settle down-then what's wrong with that?? Her past is her PAST and you can't change the past. Sometimes it takes alot of bad relationships to finally find the one who is right for you. And oh yea, unless she's a virgin she HAS had a dick alot bigger than yours just get OVER it. What matters is now, if she misses that big schlong just buy a BIG dildo.
 
originally posted by Citruscide
Hmm.... well at least women are honest to men they care about... no wait... OOOOOHHHHH you meant that they will LIE to men they care about...

Isn't this part of what I've been preaching?

C
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Ok--I deserved that!!

What I meant, but did not phrase very well, was that I don't think a woman would tell a man that she loved everything about her sexual past if she was "easy". For the simple fact of hurting her partner.

Actually, I think if the couple was truly in "love" the question would not come up anyway.

For myself, I wouldn't want to know. Past is past.
 
Yes her past is VERY important. I'm just blown away by people who say things like "the past is the past" and "if you're really in love, the question won't come up." don't get me wrong... if that works for you fine, but i just cannot even comprehend that mentality.

The past might be the past, but its also the single best predictor of the present and future. If a girl has bounced around from one guy to another, she's not a girl I want to have a relationship with. I'm not saying i'm looking for a virgin, just someone who holds sex in as high of a place as I do. I would never dream of sleeping with a girl without knowing how many guys she's been with. To me, being in love with someone means knowing EVERYTHING about them.
 
I think it is VERY important. If the guy is not looking for a relationship, it doesn't matter. If you're with someone for 2-3 years and you're thinking about getting married, then you find out this chick was a hoe and used to suck off a couple of guys a week it's gonna be a foregone conclusion.
 
I'm not saying that the past isn't important, just that
the present is more important to me.

People change, they make mistakes. Hopefully, we learn
from our past, and if we're smart, we don't make the same
mistakes over and over.

Also remember that both parties, the man and woman,
have a past. If you hold her past against her, then you have
to hold his, against him.
 
in todays world people owe each other to be honest about their sexual past
 
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I don't want to know, and I certainly wouldn't want tp find out from someone else either about it.
 
StoneColdGold said:
Yes her past is VERY important. I'm just blown away by people who say things like "the past is the past" and "if you're really in love, the question won't come up." don't get me wrong... if that works for you fine, but i just cannot even comprehend that mentality.

The past might be the past, but its also the single best predictor of the present and future. If a girl has bounced around from one guy to another, she's not a girl I want to have a relationship with. I'm not saying i'm looking for a virgin, just someone who holds sex in as high of a place as I do. I would never dream of sleeping with a girl without knowing how many guys she's been with. To me, being in love with someone means knowing EVERYTHING about them.
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Thats very true, Id like to remain ignorant to the fact, but if it came up and I found out the #'s, and they were high, Id likely not be too happy about it, it would definately get to me
 
I would like to think that I wouldn't hold a man's sexual past against him...but if he told me he slept with 100 women before me and then when we slept together I would feel like another number and it wouldn't feel as special to me...I have friends who have lied to their boyfriends about their number to hide their past promiscuity, I personally feel thats TOTALLY wrong...whether I've slept with 0 or 500 men I would be totally honest about it b/c my boyfriend has to accept me as a whole person and that includes my sexual past or lack there of...
 
I found out that my ex messed around with some older married guy before she dated. She's no better than the fuckstick that she fooled around with. It really fucked with my head for the rest of our relationship.
 
I dont really judge people based on their past... That said, immense lack of discretion could be a very bad thing, so I usually ask before anything gets too serious. I really do consider context, mental state etc.. Some times good people make mistakes too, it can be tricky to determine if someone is really dirty or just made somebad decsions.. Fuck, I knowI have done some stupid shit, and for the most part Im really a nice person, I cant be the only one.
 
Yup...main reason im not going out with a girl i really like...she's a little on the hoeish side, and if she did it before, she'll do it again..sorry just me
 
I'd be concerned about desease, or emotional problems if the girl had slept with a ton of guys. I hate to be rude, but I've found that women who've had a lot of partners are generally messed up in some way. Not that they're bad people...they just have self-esteem problems and the like.

A close female freind of mine has been with over 20 guys...and she's only 22. She's a great person, but emotionally unstable. I wouldn't call her a slut ...she just craves emotional/romantic connection. I've met a few women who really, really like sex...but they acutally show some restraint in thier sexual practaces.

A slut is a girl who's fucking a lot of differnt guys, but not me. :D
 
To all of you who say the past is the past, that is a crock of shit. You guys are saying it, but do you honestly believe it. C'mon it always matter cause if everytime you go out with someone and they were always running into one of their EX's they fucked you would be pretty pissed. Another example if you significant other murdered someone then could you say the past is the past, HELL NO!!!!!! There is a reasonable limit to how many people they fuck, and who they fuck and everyone knows it...... I don't why some of you pretend otherwise??????
 
StoneColdGold said:
Yes her past is VERY important. I'm just blown away by people who say things like "the past is the past" and "if you're really in love, the question won't come up." don't get me wrong... if that works for you fine, but i just cannot even comprehend that mentality.

The past might be the past, but its also the single best predictor of the present and future. If a girl has bounced around from one guy to another, she's not a girl I want to have a relationship with. I'm not saying i'm looking for a virgin, just someone who holds sex in as high of a place as I do. I would never dream of sleeping with a girl without knowing how many guys she's been with. To me, being in love with someone means knowing EVERYTHING about them.
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Never had a one night stand?.. or do you have a questionaire for that?!?!

Love and sex are different!
 
Lord_Suston said:
To all of you who say the past is the past, that is a crock of shit. You guys are saying it, but do you honestly believe it. C'mon it always matter cause if everytime you go out with someone and they were always running into one of their EX's they fucked you would be pretty pissed. Another example if you significant other murdered someone then could you say the past is the past, HELL NO!!!!!! There is a reasonable limit to how many people they fuck, and who they fuck and everyone knows it...... I don't why some of you pretend otherwise??????
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You are comparing apples to oranges here.....it all deals with a certain level of maturity!
 
I think it matters to most guys when they are thinking about a girl as a serious GF or a possible wife. Who wants to think half the town has been with your significant other.
 
It isn't easy to be honest about something like this, especially if you think or know you're on the high side. That takes guts. If your partner is honest with you, I think they deserve to be trusted.
 
yes... I would not stay w/someone who has been promiscious. but Id fuk her if shes good look'n...
 
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Sexual Mustard said:
I found out that my ex messed around with some older married guy before she dated. She's no better than the fuckstick that she fooled around with. It really fucked with my head for the rest of our relationship.
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SM...your ex was a REAL piece of shit. Did she have one saving grace? What was it??? My heart goes out to you bro. Gettin used hurts.:( :(
 
SoCAmuscle said:


Never had a one night stand?.. or do you have a questionaire for that?!?!

Love and sex are different!
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No, I've never had a one-night stand. I've been with 2 girls and I'm 24. If a girl has had a one-night stand, she is off my list of potential long-term partners. That makes me sick to my stomach.

Of course love and sex are different. But for me, the latter does not happen without the former... period. And I'm not interested in dating a woman unless she feels the same way.
 
The only thing that would concern me would be if she has a history of cheating while in a relationship.

Cornholio's rule of dating #236:

If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you...
 
In some respects it does and in others it doesn't...By no means do I want to date the town whore, but it wouldn't bother me if she has slept around if she had some respect for herself and just didn't give it up without some standards
 
Cornholio said:
The only thing that would concern me would be if she has a history of cheating while in a relationship.

Cornholio's rule of dating #236:

If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you...
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Exactly... that would bother me, more than the number of
past partners.
 
Damn I'm old fashioned. I can't be with a gal who's been with a good number of guys. My X wife slept with 10 that I know of. And continued to do so while we were engaged. Not to mention taking her top off at parties... getting felt up, giving blow jobs on first dates.

It still kicks my ass... and we're divorced. Have been for two years. She was an alcoholic... I helped get her out of that. She was hooked on Drixorals... I helped get her out of that. She did pot, meth, and acid.... I helped get her out of that.

I was determined to stay no matter what. But after she was out of it... and things were going very well... I just couldn't get it out of my head. I still dream about it 3 or 4 times a week, and I think about crap all day long.

Not 1 day passes that it doesn't hurt and piss me off.

Don't know how to get over it.

So yeah... a woman's past is very important.
 
True, too many details suck
i like a girl how has been with 1 or 2 guys and have gotten damn good at having sex
any more than 5 guys makes me feel like a number
 
Well, from my viewpoint...if there is nothing to hide
then don't hide anything.
But if she feels the need to hide this information
then there must be a reason,
and then I'd be gettin' the hell out of dodge.
If you know what I mean.
I ain't gonna be number 51 to any woman.
 
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