A question for the guys...

[fit1]

Guys, I have a question...
Once you're dating someone...nothing serious at the moment, but you definately see it going somewhere and want it too...when do you first TRY to get the girl in bed???? couple dates, weeks, months or what? does it totally ruin it for you if she sleeps with you too soon or does it really matter?

fit1

 

[WODIN]

When I was single...I would try and get them to fuck me over the phone!!! I think I invented phone sex. "That's it baby...put your coochie up to the phone for woo daddy to kiss."...smoochie smoochie smoochie smoochie smoochie .

Still! I crack me up!

 

[casavant]

I'm not saying it's the best way to go about it, but after the first couple of dates, probably.

 

[The Shadow]

Guys, I have a question...
Once you're dating someone...nothing serious at the moment, but you definately see it going somewhere and want it too...when do you first TRY to get the girl in bed???? couple dates, weeks, months or what? does it totally ruin it for you if she sleeps with you too soon or does it really matter?

fit1

As yoda would say - "do or do not, for there is no try"

For me:

2 words....Delayed Gratification......it's not a matter of trying to get her in the sack but rather a matter of trying NOT to get her there. Fighting all those urges until you just HAVE to give in.


I have NEVER had sex with a woman I was not in love with.

I have, consequently, never had any regrets either.

 

[Latimer]

The amount of time I wait is exactly proportionate to the size of her breasts.

 

[spentagn]

Re: Re: A question for the guys...

I have NEVER had sex with a woman I was not in love with.

Stop, you're gonna make HS blush.

 

[-SD-]

The amount of time I wait is exactly proportionate to the size of her breasts.

An inverse proportionate relationship I assume?

I dont make a point to wait or to not, Ive had good relationships from sleeping with someone after a few days or not. Doesnt matter.

 

[Mysterio]

Guys, I have a question...
Once you're dating someone...nothing serious at the moment, but you definately see it going somewhere and want it too...when do you first TRY to get the girl in bed???? couple dates, weeks, months or what? does it totally ruin it for you if she sleeps with you too soon or does it really matter?

fit1

I say anything to a month is good but more than that I see a problem. If you really care about him sex shouldn't be the number one factor here but does need to be expressed when the time is right.

 

[lilperronis]

doesnt realt matter to me i just tell her that she has to make the first move so that i wont move to fast but after she makes the move it is off to the races for me

 

[MrMuscle]

It depends on the guy i would think. in my case i wouldn't be in a hurry. Id take things as they happend. Like cornholio said, i wouldnt want to have sex with her before i knew the right feelings where there.

 

[lilperronis]

It depends on the guy i would think. in my case i wouldn't be in a hurry. Id take things as they happend. Like cornholio said, i wouldnt want to have sex with her before i knew the right feelings where there.

well good point

 

[fit1]

ok...how do you know if all they are looking for is a fuck buddy????

 

[MrMuscle]

ofcourse, im 23 years old, and a virgin

 

[beastboy]

When I was single...I would try and get them to fuck me over the phone!!! I think I invented phone sex. "That's it baby...put your coochie up to the phone for woo daddy to kiss."...smoochie smoochie smoochie smoochie smoochie .

Still! I crack me up!

I think someone needs to rub one off......

 

[the nature boy]

ok...how do you know if all they are looking for is a fuck buddy????

you'll know when they start fucking you.

actually you'll know if they don't call you all the time and talk about bullshit that couples talk. fuck buddyes that I've dealt with you see once a week or so, maybe once every two weeks. however 85% of the time someone ends up liking the other person.

back to your first question. don't put a time on it, for some the standard is like a month or 4 dates. for some its longer or for some it's shorter. hopefully the female will have some compassion and maybe do something besides fuck you, she'll use other means besides actual intercourse if you get my drift. Some women don't understand that after all that making out and dry humping a guy needs a little release. So womrn should feel obligated to at the very least user her hand on the man.

 

[georgie24]

im in the same situation at the moment. we went on two really good dates so far. i wanna stick my tounge down her throat so bad but im gonna wait till she is hot and bothered!

 

[The Shadow]

Georgie - if she wants it - she'll take it.


I SO expected some flaming over my answer......

 

[Sexual Mustard]

Wait until you two are serious about each other. Otherwise he played you like a slut.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

As soon as possible and I don't look down on a woman if I have sex with her on the 1st night. If I never see her again then I might think she is a ho because she might have just used me for sex and took off.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Georgie - if she wants it - she'll take it.


I SO expected some flaming over my answer......

No flame here brotha.... couldn't agree more!

 

[madbomber31]

Re: Re: A question for the guys...

I have NEVER had sex with a woman I was not in love with.

I have, consequently, never had any regrets either.

if thats the part you expected to get flamed for then its a sad world... i give ya props for that man... THAT is being a man...

with that said, i need to nail a whore.