Cornholio said:
JillyBean---it's like this - not all women are like those descriptive terms....however
...when I read "It's been three weeks - should I let him have some"
...and various others threads about "cheap dates" etc - it does give y'all a bad rep
Exactly, besides, this board is the only place I bitch about women too....bitching about women on this board is fun as hell.
Look at wardog's story.
Sorry to tell you this jilly if you weren't already aware, but the vast majority of women are fucked up in grand fashion, and I just have never, ever in my young life been so disillusioned and disappointed with ANYTHING, more than I have with finding out the true nature and desires of women. Perhaps 1 in 1000 women will respond to a guy who can just be open, caring and kind and treat his woman well and be upfront about how he feels about her.
I will gladly admit that I have not had enough real world experience to really know, (but then again who has?) but I do hope that I will be able to find a woman again who responds to sweetness and kindess, not the opposite.
For example, right now I am sorta kinda dating a very pretty younger girl. She is a very nice chick with a good heart, but alas, she has that fault of most women, she likes jerks. I hate acting like a jerk to her, I honestly do, I've never been like this before. But you know what? It's working. And working very well, I am astonished at the insanity. She has an old beau who treats her very well, drove 100s of miles to see her, they are supposedly in love but are 'dating other people' because of their long distance to each other (they met on a cruise)..... and you know what? This guy has been her #1 for years and the past few nights she has LIED to him when he's called to continue talking to me... how sick is that?
Perhaps it isnt just me being sassy and jerky, and I really, really hate acting like this, this is a really sweet girl, but I just cant believe how effective it is.
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