a homo i met

[BO-DEN]

i met a guy a few weeks ago, he is cool as hell.. a body builder, he helped me with my diet and supplements.

after i had talked to him yesterday another gym member that knew him told me he was gay.

i was shocked because he seemed so rugged and manly ... i know that many gay men are this way but i guess it still was surprising.

well i like him because he really dose make everyone comfortable.. by NOT making his sexual preference an issue at all.

its very uncomfortable when i see gay t-shirts/bumper stickers and stuff like that. i understand pride, but i dont feel comfortable displaying bumper stickers and wearing shirts that indicate that i like blowjobs by brunetts with huge boobs.

i wouldnt expect to be taken seriously if i did.

and thats my point this guy is gay.... but its no ones buisness

i have alot of respect for him.

i know alot of you would agree that using STERIODS is looked down on much the same way. if i were to tell people about my drug use they would look at me differantly,could loose my job...etc

but much the same way i dont talk about my steroid use.. i dont wear t-shirts that spell it out. so i do feel like i understand what it is to keep a personal part of your life secret.

just thaught id share this... it was on my mind

this guy might help me get ready for my show in the fall

i hope it works out

BO-DEN

 

[gonelifting]

Good luck with the show.

I agree with you about the don`t flaunt it thing. It goes both ways, I may talk about women in front of my buddies but not in front of other women. There`s a certain amount of respect one must give. That`s similar to what you`re describing I think. Good post.

PS would you fight me bro? let me know. thanks

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

Some of the coolest mo-fo's I've ever known have been gay.Never was an issue,they are no different than my hetero friends.

 

[juve]

Ditto. Gay people that don't regard themselves as victims, or have to shove their gay pride in your face have my outmost respect for pursuing what they enjoy in life. I know a few gay dudes, and they are all cool as hell - fun going night-clubbing with them

 

[BO-DEN]

PS would you fight me bro? let me know. thanks

sure! cool i love a challenge.

i live in baltimore...

i dont know how close that is to you.

yea but id love to, iv been training with my brothers for years.

we study a universal matial art... i just take what i like from each art... and try and balance stricking,submission,speed,endurance..etc

let me know how youd like to do it.

we could video it and put it on the board

BO-DEN

 

[string_bean00]

My boss is cool as hell and she's a lesbian. She doesn't advertise it at all.

 

[KillahBee]

well i like him because he really dose make everyone comfortable.. by NOT making his sexual preference an issue at all.

its very uncomfortable when i see gay t-shirts/bumper stickers and stuff like that. i understand pride, but i dont feel comfortable displaying bumper stickers and wearing shirts that indicate that i like blowjobs by brunetts with huge boobs.

i wouldnt expect to be taken seriously if i did.

and thats my point this guy is gay.... but its no ones buisness

i have alot of respect for him.

i know alot of you would agree that using STERIODS is looked down on much the same way. if i were to tell people about my drug use they would look at me differantly,could loose my job...etc

but much the same way i dont talk about my steroid use.. i dont wear t-shirts that spell it out. so i do feel like i understand what it is to keep a personal part of your life secret.

just thaught id share this... it was on my mind

this guy might help me get ready for my show in the fall

i hope it works out

BO-DEN

it was always puzzling to me how so many gays/lesbians/bis/whatever will come out publicly and talk about how they hate being "labeled" and that they are human like the rest of us. YET, they go and have a gay pride parade and flaunt those bumper stickers around. Hey, it's your business if you are straight or gay or whatever, but don't tell me not to label you when YOU label you. I would love to see what would happen if we had a straight pride parade or God forbid a television station called White Entertainment Television (WET). It is healthy to be proud of what/who you are, but you should not be ingnorant of the idea that if you label yourself then others will do the same.



good luck in your show brotha BO-DEN.

 

[KillahBee]

sure! cool i love a challenge.

i live in baltimore...

i dont know how close that is to you.

yea but id love to, iv been training with my brothers for years.

we study a universal matial art... i just take what i like from each art... and try and balance stricking,submission,speed,endurance..etc

let me know how youd like to do it.

we could video it and put it on the board

BO-DEN

I'll ref.

 

[big_bad_buff]

I’m so proud of you bo-den, you accepted a gay, how do you feel? Ready to stand up in front of crowds and tell the world you have a gay friend and that it’s ok to be gay? Funny how you compare them to an illegal drug lol.

I’m nice to them and try not to treat them different(unless they have the whole queer thing down) but I’m sorry, I will never thinks it’s right or natural or except a man that sticks his dick in another mans ass. Every gay person that I’ve met has issues, this being they talk with a lisp, walk funny, very feminine, or even sexually molested as a child. Why would a grown man act feminine? On purpose for that matter. Wtf is with the lisp? What’s with tranny’s?

Something wrong with all that shiot.

 

[big_bad_buff]

Re: Re: a homo i met

Beautifully said bro. people dont realize they feed themelves their own shit

it was always puzzling to me how so many gays/lesbians/bis/whatever will come out publicly and talk about how they hate being "labeled" and that they are human like the rest of us. YET, they go and have a gay pride parade and flaunt those bumper stickers around. Hey, it's your business if you are straight or gay or whatever, but don't tell me not to label you when YOU label you. I would love to see what would happen if we had a straight pride parade or God forbid a television station called White Entertainment Television (WET). It is healthy to be rpud of what/who you are, but you should not be ingnorant of the idea that if you label yourself then others will do the same.
good luck in your show brotha BO-DEN.

 

[gonelifting]

sure! cool i love a challenge.

i live in baltimore...

i dont know how close that is to you.

let me know how youd like to do it.

we could video it and put it on the board

BO-DEN

I don`t want to take a way from a good thread bro.

I`ll just say We don`t need a video camera Just a snapshot of your first punch and I`m sure there`s not much more after that. lol

Plus I on my way driving to Florida once, our car died in Baltimore. The cop that came to help us said "Don`t leave your car here overnight, It will be on blocks by morning" OH SHIT!!! From a cop!!! lol

 

[sconoscuito]

"bumper stickers and wearing shirts that indicate that i like blowjobs by brunetts with huge boobs."

thats actually a great idea

anyone know where I can get custum bumper stickers?

 

[BO-DEN]

I don`t want to take a way from a good thread bro.

I`ll just say We don`t need a video camera Just a snapshot of your first punch and I`m sure there`s not much more after that. lol

lol

oh, dont gas my head up..... iv learned my lesson with being all ego.

i consider every oppenent a teacher and give them the same respect because im sure to learn something from the fight.

Plus I on my way driving to Florida once, our car died in Baltimore. The cop that came to help us said "Don`t leave your car here overnight, It will be on blocks by morning" OH SHIT!!! From a cop!!! lol

yea this town is alittle rough... probably one of the reasons i would even be having a dicussion about my experience in fighting


BO-DEN

 

[BO-DEN]

I’m so proud of you bo-den, you accepted a gay, how do you feel? Ready to stand up in front of crowds and tell the world you have a gay friend and that it’s ok to be gay? Funny how you compare them to an illegal drug lol.

I’m nice to them and try not to treat them different(unless they have the whole queer thing down) but I’m sorry, I will never thinks it’s right or natural or except a man that sticks his dick in another mans ass. Every gay person that I’ve met has issues, this being they talk with a lisp, walk funny, very feminine, or even sexually molested as a child. Why would a grown man act feminine? On purpose for that matter. Wtf is with the lisp? What’s with tranny’s?

Something wrong with all that shiot.

lol

your right this was a huge step for me... im very old fashioned and the thaught of two guys makes me very uncomfortable.

and any show of WEAKNESS makes me want to bash your head in
(feminine behavior)

but as long as gays dont talk about it and keep it behind there doors.. i can live with it.

i agree i will never condone it..
(dicks in other guys asses)
but i cant stop it so i got to just keep it out of my face..

all you can do..

BO-DEN

 

[Deterass]

Gay guys in general don't bother me except the ones who act like and talk like women.Like the asian guy that was on the Anna Nicole show,i couldn't stand that fukker.

 

[pitbullstl]

One of my best friends is queer as a football bat.......

But he is the coolest guy I know..........

Other people's sexual preference is of no consequence to me..

 

[unclebully]

Gay guys in general don't bother me except the ones who act like and try and talk like women.

Same here I have no problem with them so long as they act like a normal man.

As far as im concerned then if you have a cock and balls your a man so act like one.

I also hate the butch man dykes that you get.
You know the ones with short back and sides haircuts and check shirts who dance like the bushwackers LOL .

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

I also hate the butch man dykes that you get.
You know the ones with short back and sides haircuts and check shirts who dance like the bushwackers LOL .

Now I must admit,the Mullet-sportin,sleeveless shirt wearing,chip-on-the-shoulder bull dike does rub me the wrong way on occasion.

 

[big_bad_buff]

I pretty much feel the same way

your right this was a huge step for me... im very old fashioned and the thaught of two guys makes me very uncomfortable.

and any show of WEAKNESS makes me want to bash your head in
(feminine behavior)

but as long as gays dont talk about it and keep it behind there doors.. i can live with it.

i agree i will never condone it..
(dicks in other guys asses)
but i cant stop it so i got to just keep it out of my face..

all you can do..

BO-DEN

 

[ChefWide]

Now I must admit,the Mullet-sportin,sleeveless shirt wearing,chip-on-the-shoulder bull dike does rub me the wrong way on occasion.

Thats because an attitude like that spells "ASSHOLE" regardless of sexual preference.

I mean, Curling looks EXACTLY like you described, and who cares that HE'S gay? No one.

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Now I must admit,the Mullet-sportin,sleeveless shirt wearing,chip-on-the-shoulder bull dike does rub me the wrong way on occasion.

"You're not the only one who's gonna try to punch this donut hole"

 

[unclebully]

Thats because an attitude like that spells "ASSHOLE" regardless of sexual preference.

I mean, Curling looks EXACTLY like you described, and who cares that HE'S gay? No one.

We were talking about butch lesbians who dress and look like that here not gay guys. Well I was anyway.

 

[FreeballinDC]

Damn, thanks guys. It's good to see that at least some people on this board have an open mind.

The only reason I bring up my sexuality on the board is because I feel comfortable with who I am and what I like, and I feel no need to advertise that outside of this board.

The only reason I bring it up is because I get tired of the "what women do", or "what I do to women" threads, and thought a different male perspective might help out.

I think if any of you met me in person, you probably wouldn't have a clue, although somebody's gaydar might go off.

If you have any doubts of whence I speak, talk to Wodin, Lumberg, NatureBoy, ttlpkg or Ffactor. These guys have been the coolest since we had the first DC meetup. I hope they felt as comfortable with me as I felt with them.

Thanks for letting me vent some.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

Thats because an attitude like that spells "ASSHOLE" regardless of sexual preference.

I mean, Curling looks EXACTLY like you described, and who cares that HE'S gay? No one.

LOL

 

[BO-DEN]

[B
It's such a common myth that gay guys are always hunting for straight guys and will hit on you when you're not looking. Reality is, gay men are attracted to other *gays*. They look at straight guys just like they look at women.

-= nav =- [/B]

well nav

i got to go ahead and dis agree there

if had multipul situations were guys hit on me.... im not a gay looking guy.

and its usually by gay dudes that know me and they know im straight

BO-DEN

 

[theoak01]

Some of the coolest mo-fo's I've ever known have been gay.Never was an issue,they are no different than my hetero friends.

exactly,my gay friends are more down to earth then the hetro's

 

[BO-DEN]

I've had gay guys help me out WAY more when life gets tough for me, and I need advice -- then my straight friends. Who honestly, if it doesn't involve drinking and scamming on chicks -- could care less what's going on in my life.

-= nav =-

dude i love you and all but from what you say here makes me think your gay friends want to sleep with you ...


the only time i listen to anyones tough times like i care is if its a woman i want....

BO-DEN

 

[TC2]

Now I must admit,the Mullet-sportin,sleeveless shirt wearing,chip-on-the-shoulder bull dike does rub me the wrong way on occasion.

it's cause they think they're tough like a man.

 

[XBiker]

Re: Re: a homo i met

it was always puzzling to me how so many gays/lesbians/bis/whatever will come out publicly and talk about how they hate being "labeled" and that they are human like the rest of us. YET, they go and have a gay pride parade and flaunt those bumper stickers around. Hey, it's your business if you are straight or gay or whatever, but don't tell me not to label you when YOU label you. I would love to see what would happen if we had a straight pride parade or God forbid a television station called White Entertainment Television (WET). It is healthy to be proud of what/who you are, but you should not be ingnorant of the idea that if you label yourself then others will do the same.



good luck in your show brotha BO-DEN.

Ain't that the truth, bro.

Very well put.

 

[SanFrancisconewb]

DO- Den,
Why do you think you would want to bash someones skull or however you put it because they are showing feminine traits? Perhaps you have completely stifled yours - to the pint that you're juicing testosterone etc. to repress them. maybe you're a bit threatened by anyone who displays these characteristics because you hate that part of yourself. That's not even basic psychology- that's common sense.

 

[SanFrancisconewb]

Unfortunately i also have to disagree with the notion that gay men are attracted to other gay men and not homos. Gay men are attracted to the hyper-masculine ideal, and tend to be looking for validation from the types that rejected them in their childhood and adolescence. (the men that marginalized or somehow impuned them for their homosexuality- be it directly or through observation) I often think that it is directly proportional to the amount of sand they(we) had kicked in their(our) faces.

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

DO- Den,
Why do you think you would want to bash someones skull or however you put it because they are showing feminine traits? Perhaps you have completely stifled yours - to the pint that you're juicing testosterone etc. to repress them. maybe you're a bit threatened by anyone who displays these characteristics because you hate that part of yourself. That's not even basic psychology- that's common sense.

i take it you have a lisp and walk with a wrist weaker than christopher reeves?

 

[SanFrancisconewb]

No, but if i did i'd be proud of it. I take it your knuckes drag on the ground when you walk.

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

No

ok just wondering. for a minute there you were starting to worry me.

 

[AustinTX]

Unfortunately i also have to disagree with the notion that gay men are attracted to other gay men and not homos. Gay men are attracted to the hyper-masculine ideal, and tend to be looking for validation from the types that rejected them in their childhood and adolescence. (the men that marginalized or somehow impuned them for their homosexuality- be it directly or through observation) I often think that it is directly proportional to the amount of sand they(we) had kicked in their(our) faces.

LOL, good job trying to replace one stereotype with another...

 

[Taps]

One of my friends is gay. He takes me shopping and intruduces me to all the hot women he knows. It's like having a drinking buddy, matchmaker and fashion consultant all in one.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

i've never had a problem with gay men except when i had one hitting on me. i thought he was straight and was very wrong. nice guy and all, but i made a few comments when he started to tell him to knock it off, then had to get kinda nasty with him about it. he apologized. never saw him around again. it wasn't a good situation for him to be in either, because we were both Marines and there's the "don't ask don't tell" policy.

i don't care if someone is gay, as long as they know i'm not and it's not going to change. other than that, i've got no reason to treat someone that is gay differently from someone that isn't gay. if you're gay and you're an asshole i'll treat you the same way as if you were straight and an asshole. someone's sexual preference doesn't bother me...hell, i wish there were a lot more gay guys....there'd be more women availible for straight men!

cross dressers, "bull dykes," and gay men that prance around and talk with a lisp and what-not, they all scare me.

 

[BO-DEN]

DO- Den,
Why do you think you would want to bash someones skull or however you put it because they are showing feminine traits? Perhaps you have completely stifled yours - to the pint that you're juicing testosterone etc. to repress them. maybe you're a bit threatened by anyone who displays these characteristics because you hate that part of yourself. That's not even basic psychology- that's common sense.

ill explain bro... and everyone that gives a shit listen up

one your right i am a man and hate any part of me that is feminine

femininity is the opposit of what my goal is.

my whole life i have trainned to be strong... its what is important to me....every crossroads in my life i take the harder more difficult path ...why? because this is how i will ascend into a better person. weakness can be many things not just physical but physical is the easiest to see.

if you look at my gallery you will understand .

my family rasied me to fight against ANYthing that stood in my way to become that absolute best i can. since i was tiny power and strength are what i wanted

some of the things i hold dear, someone like you could never understand.

for me i dont believe anyone has the right to live . (call me old fashioned) but this is the way nature made us only technology and moral limits have changed this nature.

no animal on this planet is garenteed life.... and i believe no person should be garenteed life either.... i am differant but im telling you this so you ALL can have a better understanding of my morals and values.

my signiture says i will eat all my enemys because this is what i believe

and if you do NOT train every day... and suffer for the benifit of progess and ascendance i can not relate to you and have no respect for a being that wont fight.

feminity in men to me is the core of weak behavior


a feminine being brings life (children)
and is a treasure for this

masculenity brings conflict and suffering to help grow and ascend... this is not treasured by most but is nessisary for human growth

men can not bring life so are a waste of femininity


humans with harder lives are more mature because they learn fast from they'r suffering


i can not respect weakness because i would only perpetuate more of it.


being gay is one thing.....

being weak is discusting


i know many of you have opposit views but like you i was raised this way.

i will strive for the ascendance of my MIND ,BODY,and SPIRIT..

everything eles is secondary!


(PS.since you had a jab at my name... your name being sanfrancisco explains the reason behind your comment. this being my point in general on this thread. dont make your sexuality an issue and you wont be attacked for it)


BO-DEN

 

[randyjones]

Im not gay at all but I belive we should treat everyone with respect.

Bo-den that last stuff you said was retarded.You are on way too much gear.Might be time to come off cycle.

P.S you are not better then anybody.

 

[sconoscuito]

damn though why do fags always say shit like "oh you are so mean to gays that you must be gay yourself" how the fuck that makes sense, that is the gayest shit

damn exit hole is exit only... no tresspassing, thats how it meant to be

 

[pitbullstl]

ill explain bro... and everyone that gives a shit listen up

one your right i am a man and hate any part of me that is feminine

femininity is the opposit of what my goal is.

my whole life i have trainned to be strong... its what is important to me....every crossroads in my life i take the harder more difficult path ...why? because this is how i will ascend into a better person. weakness can be many things not just physical but physical is the easiest to see.

if you look at my gallery you will understand .

my family rasied me to fight against ANYthing that stood in my way to become that absolute best i can. since i was tiny power and strength are what i wanted

some of the things i hold dear, someone like you could never understand.

for me i dont believe anyone has the right to live . (call me old fashioned) but this is the way nature made us only technology and moral limits have changed this nature.

no animal on this planet is garenteed life.... and i believe no person should be garenteed life either.... i am differant but im telling you this so you ALL can have a better understanding of my morals and values.

my signiture says i will eat all my enemys because this is what i believe

and if you do NOT train every day... and suffer for the benifit of progess and ascendance i can not relate to you and have no respect for a being that wont fight.

feminity in men to me is the core of weak behavior


a feminine being brings life (children)
and is a treasure for this

masculenity brings conflict and suffering to help grow and ascend... this is not treasured by most but is nessisary for human growth

men can not bring life so are a waste of femininity


humans with harder lives are more mature because they learn fast from they'r suffering


i can not respect weakness because i would only perpetuate more of it.


being gay is one thing.....

being weak is discusting


i know many of you have opposit views but like you i was raised this way.

i will strive for the ascendance of my MIND ,BODY,and SPIRIT..

everything eles is secondary!


(PS.since you had a jab at my name... your name being sanfrancisco explains the reason behind your comment. this being my point in general on this thread. dont make your sexuality an issue and you wont be attacked for it)


BO-DEN

This post confuses the hell out of me........


But for what it's worth, I believe you were the one who was looking for "toughman" .....or what people who actually partake in this type of competitive sport call it, (underground fight club's)

I offered to point you in the right direction if you are looking for such a challenge, I told you there are several such clubs in East St. Louis.......two of which I used to be a part of , and a new one that my very gay friend just started........it draws people from Cincinatti, Chicago, Dallas....and a few other major cities.....I forget where you are from, but if you're intersted, he's game......incidentally he can be a very feminine, bitchy dude sometimes, all while holding a 3rd degree black belt in Kenpo, and I believe a brown belt in BJJ........he was also the midwest heavyweight kickboxing champion for 7 years in a row.......man he's super gay.....and in comfortable surroundings he let's his feminine side shine........he is also a Gulf War Veteran.........

This whole point might be moot to you.......but the point remains, don't judge a book by it's cover.........

I like your posts, because they have such an intensity behind them.......but don't think for one minute that being able to be empathetic to one's friends ie: bending an ear when a friend has to complain or express sorrow is a feminine trait.......

You say old fashioned, I say archaic.......

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

BODEN, I never knew you were of African origin. Neat-o

 

[Sebby]

I say fuck it, if they don't make their sexual preference a problem, I'm cool with whatever. Just easy going about it.

 

[BO-DEN]

This post confuses the hell out of me........
looking for "toughman" .....or what people who actually partake in this type of competitive sport call it, (underground fight club's)

I offered to point you in the right direction if you are looking for such a challenge, I told you there are several such clubs in East St. Louis.......two of which I used to be a part of , and a new one that my very gay friend just started........it draws people from Cincinatti, Chicago, Dallas....and a few other major cities.....I forget where you are from, but if you're intersted, he's game......incidentally he can be a very feminine, bitchy dude sometimes, all while holding a 3rd degree black belt in Kenpo, and I believe a brown belt in BJJ........he was also the midwest heavyweight kickboxing champion for 7 years in a row.......man he's super gay.....and in comfortable surroundings he let's his feminine side shine........he is also a Gulf War Veteran.........

This whole point might be moot to you.......but the point remains, don't judge a book by it's cover.........

I like your posts, because they have such an intensity behind them.......but don't think for one minute that being able to be empathetic to one's friends ie: bending an ear when a friend has to complain or express sorrow is a feminine trait.......


But for what it's worth, I believe you were the one who was
You say old fashioned, I say archaic.......

in other word the guy from "CAMP JIM" with a black belt... wow thats great id love to see him,it really would be the first total feminin fighter i have ever met...

and yes tough man matches are my intrest.

no dobt i could learn a thing or two from a gay fighter.

i dont judge books i just am uncomfortable around feminine acting men. i cant identify

yes iv been trainning hard i plan on startng the fighting as soon as i got my diet and trainning insink

ill be pming you about the details of your fight clubs...money for planes is an issue so i hope it works out the way i want.


but thanks for the point in the right direction



im glad you like my posts im a very extream person...

and i pretty much hate people ....

the only people i can identify with are bodybuilders and fighters
(because they all have intensity)

in alot of ways my own persicution for starting out poor in baltimore, being mixed, and growing up with such differant views

hard to win the popularity contest.

i know most of you would like me im a good guy but just intence

and i cant change my mind because its (politicly incorrect)

ps. "toughman " is only what they call it were im living
didnt know i was so incorrect in the name of it... ill call it "under ground fight club" when we talk more about it

BO-DEN

 

[BO-DEN]

P.S you are not better then anybody.

says who ... you?

what makes anyone better then another?

i never said i was better then anyone, i only spoke on the reason i disliked a certine group of people.

and fearful limited degenerate pukes have always tried to tell me how "retarded" my life style is.

well i feel the same about some of you.. but dose that change anything?

NOPE

ill still sword train ,hunt deers with nives and baseball bats,and enjoy my life and the power i have.

well like i said some people will never understand the life im talking about.

and you can try and tear me down if you like but it only makes my anger and hate stronger and my training better ....and me happier

i look around and i wouldnt trade this life for any of yours.

dose that make me better?

i dont know

maybee just happy

ps. your a twerp


BO-DEN

 

[BO-DEN]

BODEN, I never knew you were of African origin. Neat-o

my african heritage is angolan

i really like the flag , its got a big machedi on it


BO-DEN

 

[BO-DEN]

damn though why do fags always say shit like "oh you are so mean to gays that you must be gay yourself" how the fuck that makes sense, that is the gayest shit

damn exit hole is exit only... no tresspassing, thats how it meant to be

agreed

 

[KillahBee]

says who ... you?

what makes anyone better then another?

i never said i was better then anyone, i only spoke on the reason i disliked a certine group of people.

and fearful limited degenerate pukes have always tried to tell me how "retarded" my life style is.

well i feel the same about some of you.. but dose that change anything?

NOPE

ill still sword train ,hunt deers with nives and baseball bats,and enjoy my life and the power i have.

well like i said some people will never understand the life im talking about.

and you can try and tear me down if you like but it only makes my anger and hate stronger and my training better ....and me happier

i look around and i wouldnt trade this life for any of yours.

dose that make me better?

i dont know

maybee just happy

ps. your a twerp


BO-DEN

BO-DEN: whether or not I agree totally with your views- a) I respect them and b) I would LOVE to work out with you some day, bro! I bet I would set many PR's by just feeding off your intensity. don't ever lose that bro.

 

[BO-DEN]

sounds great!

your welcome anytime... i run a powerhouse gym here in maryland

 

[AAP]

See. There are quite a few like that out there. Some people on here have always thought I was the exception to the rule.

You would be surprised how many people you come in contact with everyday that are gay, but you would never suspect it.

 

[KillahBee]

See. There are quite a few like that out there. Some people on here have always thought I was the exception to the rule.

You would be surprised how many people you come in contact with everyday that are gay, but you would never suspect it.

that's true. I think it is just hard for some straight men (including me) to fully understand why some gay men act the way that they do. call it flamboyant, feminine, whatever. sometimes it is difficult to understand how liking penis (not meant to make fun) translates into having a high voice, speaking with a lisp, walking like a "typical"woman, whatever. Unless it is a hormonal imbalance (which it may be) it seems kind of odd. almost like a man is gay so he feels that he needs to fulfill that stereotype.

please excuse my ignorance if I am off-base or do not exactly know how one "becomes" or just is gay and how that affects whether or not he fits a stereotype. I know some homosexuals that were born that way and some that figured it out along the way. I just don't know why it is that some fit the stereotype and some don't. Is it even a choice?

damn, I'm rambling.

 

[BO-DEN]

app your gay?

 

[KillahBee]

app your gay?

I hope you are being sarcastic.

 

[gonelifting]

app your gay?

LMAO Welcome to EF.

 

[BO-DEN]

lol hes right it dose surprise me

 

[KillahBee]

LMAO Welcome to EF.

I guess the tiara, Elite Princess tag, and threads about boy bands and the Golden Globes didn't give it away!

 

[OptimusCrime]

proud.

 

[Tiervexx]

I guess the tiara, Elite Princess tag, and threads about boy bands and the Golden Globes didn't give it away!

Don't forget all the ranting about his "beautiful cock." LMAO

I used to hate the real feminine gay men myself because I am raised to be ultra-conservative but I got over it. Hell, some of em are cute...

When ever a gay man hits on a strait dude that they know are strait there is a 60 percent chance that they are just fucking with you, and most gay men have very particular tastes. I for example am only attracted to less than one percent of the men I've met. The rest are just weird and awkward looking.

 

[gymtime]

I think the title of this thread is kinda funny.

 

[BO-DEN]

i do too

 

[thefren]

Throughout my life I've always befriended gay dudes and they got good heads on their shoulders. you can tell them stuff you wouldn't normally talk to with your hetero friends, it's kinda good you know? like a brother or something. also, it always pisses me off, and i tell some of my friends, when they indirectly insult a gay dude. cheers for gay people. here in san diego everyone is someone!

also, I agree with gymtime, the title is kinda funny. at the same time it's like say homie. i got homies for friends.

 

[BO-DEN]

i just never really had much in common with feminin guys... maybee masculine gay guys is supose

 

[Tiervexx]

i just never really had much in common with feminin guys... maybee masculine gay guys is supose

You sure about that? There has to be more to you than wanting to beat peoples' skulls in. I'm sure there are feminin gues somewhere that can relate to you on something else.

 

[BO-DEN]

You sure about that? There has to be more to you than wanting to beat peoples' skulls in. I'm sure there are feminin gues somewhere that can relate to you on something else.

only my family and sometimes a special girl sees this side of me.... and because i dont waste my softer side on everyday people my loving emotions are alot more consintraited and focused on the ones that i care for.

but even then i still wont tolerate weakness even from my family


BO-DEN

ps. fighting and sex are my to most favorit things.... because at thoes times are the only moments i use all mind body and spirit at the same time.

 

[AAP]

I.

Ain't.

Gay.

 

[Tiervexx]

I.

Ain't.

Gay.

What's wrong? Someone piss you off today?

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

What's wrong? Someone piss you off today?

you didn't know? APP's not gay

oh yeah, I been meaning to ask you this... is that what I think it is in your sig?

 

[coldblue1955]

so i guess you're going to make a nice gay friend now huh?

 

[BO-DEN]

yea he can help me with my diet for my show

 

[AAP]

yea he can help me with my diet for my show

and help you get rid of that track lighting.

 

[BO-DEN]

and help you get rid of that track lighting.

who needs lighting?




BO-DEN

 

[John H.]

i met a guy a few weeks ago, he is cool as hell.. a body builder, he helped me with my diet and supplements.

after i had talked to him yesterday another gym member that knew him told me he was gay.

i was shocked because he seemed so rugged and manly ... i know that many gay men are this way but i guess it still was surprising.

well i like him because he really dose make everyone comfortable.. by NOT making his sexual preference an issue at all.

its very uncomfortable when i see gay t-shirts/bumper stickers and stuff like that. i understand pride, but i dont feel comfortable displaying bumper stickers and wearing shirts that indicate that i like blowjobs by brunetts with huge boobs.

i wouldnt expect to be taken seriously if i did.

and thats my point this guy is gay.... but its no ones buisness

i have alot of respect for him.

i know alot of you would agree that using STERIODS is looked down on much the same way. if i were to tell people about my drug use they would look at me differantly,could loose my job...etc

but much the same way i dont talk about my steroid use.. i dont wear t-shirts that spell it out. so i do feel like i understand what it is to keep a personal part of your life secret.

just thaught id share this... it was on my mind

this guy might help me get ready for my show in the fall

i hope it works out

BO-DEN

Hi Bo. I understand what you are saying but think about this: if a Heterosexual Man helped you out with your bodybuilding would you be "worried"? The same applies to BiSexual or Homosexual Men too. Your Sexuality is AS BORN same as the color of your skin. A Gift from God. To understand a little more about all this please read these books: SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN MALE and SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN FEMALE, by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and Associates; BIOLOGICAL EXUBERANCE, by Bruce Bagemihl; FORBIDDEN FRIENDSHIPS, by Michael Rocke; THE CONSTRUCTION OF HOMOSEXUALITY by David Greenberg. Each are very well written and have a lot of information to offer for understanding. Human Beings ARE Human Beings and each is "different" - there IS VARIETY in life and in living including Sexuality. Each of the Sexualities - Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual do exist in Nature and the Natural World and always have. You must understand that there is variety in ALL things. If you are NOT "interested" in someone no matter who they are, you are not. All you have to say is "no" and that usually settles it. To be "worried" is foolish and something we all have been "told" but NOT the facts of life and living truthfully speaking. Take Care, John H.

 

[BO-DEN]

Re: Re: a homo i met

maybe i didnt highlight my point enough.... im not worried about him being gay but happy that HE didnt make it an issue. ive met people that have out and just told me they were gay my point was that its uncalled for to make your sexuality public buisness i understand discrimination im biracial and like my example of the steroids there are private parts of my life that would not be appropriate to make public because the public dosnt understand the reality of steroids and my hidden lifestyles


thanks for replying

BO-DEN

Hi Bo. I understand what you are saying but think about this: if a Heterosexual Man helped you out with your bodybuilding would you be "worried"? The same applies to BiSexual or Homosexual Men too. Your Sexuality is AS BORN same as the color of your skin. A Gift from God. To understand a little more about all this please read these books: SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN MALE and SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN FEMALE, by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and Associates; BIOLOGICAL EXUBERANCE, by Bruce Bagemihl; FORBIDDEN FRIENDSHIPS, by Michael Rocke; THE CONSTRUCTION OF HOMOSEXUALITY by David Greenberg. Each are very well written and have a lot of information to offer for understanding. Human Beings ARE Human Beings and each is "different" - there IS VARIETY in life and in living including Sexuality. Each of the Sexualities - Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual do exist in Nature and the Natural World and always have. You must understand that there is variety in ALL things. If you are NOT "interested" in someone no matter who they are, you are not. All you have to say is "no" and that usually settles it. To be "worried" is foolish and something we all have been "told" but NOT the facts of life and living truthfully speaking. Take Care, John H.

 

[Tiervexx]

you didn't know? APP's not gay

oh yeah, I been meaning to ask you this... is that what I think it is in your sig?

What you think it is? From what I know about you that could be anything...

 

[from zero]

It's Link's sword from the Legend of Zelda.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

Re: Re: a homo i met

Hi Bo. I understand what you are saying but think about this: if a Heterosexual Man helped you out with your bodybuilding would you be "worried"? The same applies to BiSexual or Homosexual Men too. Your Sexuality is AS BORN same as the color of your skin. A Gift from God. To understand a little more about all this please read these books: SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN MALE and SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN FEMALE, by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and Associates; BIOLOGICAL EXUBERANCE, by Bruce Bagemihl; FORBIDDEN FRIENDSHIPS, by Michael Rocke; THE CONSTRUCTION OF HOMOSEXUALITY by David Greenberg. Each are very well written and have a lot of information to offer for understanding. Human Beings ARE Human Beings and each is "different" - there IS VARIETY in life and in living including Sexuality. Each of the Sexualities - Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual do exist in Nature and the Natural World and always have. You must understand that there is variety in ALL things. If you are NOT "interested" in someone no matter who they are, you are not. All you have to say is "no" and that usually settles it. To be "worried" is foolish and something we all have been "told" but NOT the facts of life and living truthfully speaking. Take Care, John H.

~~~~Loving light to you~~~~

freak

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

What you think it is? From what I know about you that could be anything...

check your K...

 

[BO-DEN]

Re: Re: Re: a homo i met

~~~~Loving light to you~~~~

BO-DEN

 

[Tiervexx]

check your K...

At first I was just thinking sword in general but why not?

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

At first I was just thinking sword in general but why not?

well, your old avatar reminded me of a character on FF7

 

[Tiervexx]

well, your old avatar reminded me of a character on FF7

It was black mage from FF1