A fair, thoughtful, objective conclusion about Stained's fiance

[Frackal]

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She's a stupid bitch!

 

[casavant]

Well, like anyone, when you know the person you start to think of them as a person first and not what they are in their occupation. It's not a bad thing, but it can lead to a lot of heartache. It is only human, however, to occassionally not be able to see the forest for the trees.

 

[Mandinka2]

I would have added selfish and untrustworty , but apart from that it seems pretty accurate.

 

[Sinistar]

this wouldnt be a problem if he wasnt such a sad sack you know?

why do you guys get sooo attached to these whores? these fucking women try to dry hump a guy off for ca$h. they get nakd and dance in front of an entire room of guys. anyhing about this sound well adjusted to you?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Not that I am disagreeing with Frackal's assessment of the girl in question - because I am not! However, Staind has to accept a level of repsonsibility for the situation. The little bit that I read shows this guy may be a nice guy but he has MAJOR issues as well. Perhaps it would do him some good to just stay away from women in general and look at himself and try to do what needs to be done in order for HIM TO BE HAPPY BY HIMSELF - FOR HIMSELF.

As for "the crazy whores". While I don't disagree that it is a bizaare way to earn a living I would wonder what would happen to "those crasy whores" if men stopped BEGGING them to grind on their laps for $? Seems like every guy who makes comments like this is a little annoyed that "those crazy whores" are "getting over" on men.

Simple solution: Men should stop throwing money at crazy whores to bump and grind on their laps.

*poof*

All clubs that sell this sort of "entertainment" would close.

All the crazy whores would magically disappear and all "the nice normal men" would no longer be subjected to them.

Problem solved.

 

[Mandinka2]

Not that I am disagreeing with Frackal's assessment of the girl in question - because I am not! However, Staind has to accept a level of repsonsibility for the situation. The little bit that I read shows this guy may be a nice guy but he has MAJOR issues as well. Perhaps it would do him some good to just stay away from women in general and look at himself and try to do what needs to be done in order for HIM TO BE HAPPY BY HIMSELF - FOR HIMSELF.

As for "the crazy whores". While I don't disagree that it is a bizaare way to earn a living I would wonder what would happen to "those crasy whores" if men stopped BEGGING them to grind on their laps for $? Seems like every guy who makes comments like this is a little annoyed that "those crazy whores" are "getting over" on men.

Simple solution: Men should stop throwing money at crazy whores to bump and grind on their laps.

*poof*

All clubs that sell this sort of "entertainment" would close.

All the crazy whores would magically disappear and all "the nice normal men" would no longer be subjected to them.

Problem solved.

BKM , are u saying that if his gf was made unemployed she would turn into an upstanding morally resonsible citizen? Personally I don't frequent strip clubs but most girls I meet in nightclubs (the standard kind) don't go with stickers defining their jobs on their foreheads. I imagine most guys would look twice if it read "stripper" there , regardless if she had a huge chest.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

kini.. weren't you an exotic dancer? or was that more lies

 

[Bikini Mod]

BKM , are u saying that if his gf was made unemployed she would turn into an upstanding morally resonsible citizen? Personally I don't frequent strip clubs but most girls I meet in nightclubs (the standard kind) don't go with stickers defining their jobs on their foreheads. I imagine most guys would look twice if it read "stripper" there , regardless if she had a huge chest.

No, that is not what I am saying at all. What I am saying is that if there were no men to frequent these clubs then perhaps they would not exist in the first place and the men who bitch about them so frequently wouldn't feel the need to bitch.

There are MANY women who lack morals in all sorts of jobs. And YES, I do agree that there is a much higher instance of women who lack morals in the dancing profession. It is a VERY BIZAARE way to earn a living and only someone with a very strong self-esteem will not get sucked into bullshit. It is when the women themselves can not differentiate WHO THEY ARE from THE JOB THEY DO.

No, I was not an exotic dancer or a stripper.

I currently support myself and my children as a go-go dancer = tiny bikini and 7 inch heels. Any of you care to come and watch me work? PM me and I will give you the location of the clubs where I work.

I am also and artist and illustrator of children's books with excellent prospects for publication.

I don't drink.

I don't do drugs.

I don't turn tricks.

I dance, I smile, I provoke, I sell a fantasy. If you have a problem with that, that is your problem.. Not mine.

 

[dballer]

are you really gonna ditch the beloved kids and run away to France??? or was that bullshit? Someone said that... I did not think it was true because of how good you claim to be to your kids.. or at least how much you post about them. I would not believe you would abandon them for some mid-life dream???

 

[Bikini Mod]

Dballer, you can kiss my ass.

Your statements are TOTALLY false.

I don't have to justify myself to you or anyone else and I won't even waste my time trying.

Bottom line: Do you know the story of the wisdom of Solomon? Two women have a child the same night. One dies. Both mothers claim the living child is theirs. The king declares that a swordsman come and cut the child in half so that it can be fair to both mothers. The living child's mothers IMMEDIATELY yields and begs the king to give her child to the other woman.

I gladly yield my children knowing that they will be safe and happy without me then to have MY HALF OF A DEAD CHILD.

If you can't comprehend that....


FUCK YOU.