4everhung

[Spartacus]

following in the path of mr G I thought I's start a thread titled by my username
difficult day today
a teen kid(19) died today due to an auto accident yesterday
"yeah mr hung,but that's what you do"
difference being the kid worked for us a couple of months
and his grandfather,who raised him,has been with us for a decade or so
the kid loved my supra and I took him for a ride or two
nothing outlandish,and when he mentioned his typical night involving speed and juvenile hubris I cautioned him

 

[redguru]

And I thought I had a bad day at work.

 

[eat big]

Not much you can do about that. Sorry man.

 

[Spartacus]

And I thought I had a bad day at work.

actually what's painful is my indifference

 

[Spartacus]

I'm sure when I see the relatives tomorrow and see their pain I'll get upset
to put a face on death I need the survivors
"survivors" being an illuminating choice
there are no survivors
just lengths

 

[Cutiebaby]

wow, sorry bout that.

 

[Lestat]

sorry to hear the day was a tough one bro

 

[obiwan9962]

the good ones always get called early in life
sorry to hear about the loss and your numbness
all in all things will be okay in a few months
hang in there bud

 

[Spartacus]

the good ones always get called early in life
sorry to hear about the loss and your numbness
all in all things will be okay in a few months
hang in there bud

nope
I can assure you of that
and you're missing my point people
I felt nothing
to be true I'm actually thinking of my "act" factor

 

[anthrax]

Sorry to hear you're a heartless bastard

And sorry for the kid too
Life really sucks .... sometimes

 

[Spartacus]

when I say "act" I'm not describing a batch of fakeness
from experience I know the recall from a "sudden and/or unexpected" death is low
their minds aren't normal and they are dealing with untypical emotions
and we ask them to make decisions under such duress
I recoqinize that frequently their memories of those days/hours will be incomplete
I myself can't be fake and offer ingenuine concern,so I'm a professional
I think they notice

 

[anthrax]

More seriously I've heard people saying that being insensitive to other people's pain (physically or emotionally) is even worse than the pain you feel when you actually care about those people (if ever it makes sense)

 

[stilleto]

I'm sure when I see the relatives tomorrow and see their pain I'll get upset
to put a face on death I need the survivors
"survivors" being an illuminating choice
there are no survivors
just lengths

huh.
your occupation certainly does put life and death at a different perspective.
It must be odd to deal with death so much- i imagine it takes the inconceivability of it away.

i'm sorry your day was bad.

 

[Spartacus]

the real trick is to make them laugh
a little bit of humor is uplifting
but you have to be goddamn good and know the moment

 

[Spartacus]

More seriously I've heard people saying that being insensitive to other people's pain (physically or emotionally) is even worse than the pain you feel when you actually care about those people (if ever it makes sense)

well shit bro
I can't see the "pain" in the dead
well actually I can,but that would involve another thread

the "pain" is in the family
usually

 

[stilleto]

i hope you're creepy looking. that would be cool.

 

[redguru]

i hope you're creepy looking. that would be cool.

As long as he doesn't carry chrome balls about 6" in diameter, I'm ok with creepy looking funeral directors.

 

[stilleto]

As long as he doesn't carry chrome balls about 6" in diameter, I'm ok with creepy looking funeral directors.

chrome balls?

wtf?

do you know someone who carries around 6" Chrome balls? what does he do with them, besides smack them on your chin?

 

[Spartacus]

huh.
your occupation certainly does put life and death at a different perspective.
It must be odd to deal with death so much- i imagine it takes the inconceivability of it away.

i'm sorry your day was bad.

In reality I'm so appreciative of life
which saddens me as I'm in an area that's bullshit for mr single
wtf do you think I'm on here so often
beleive me when better options present themselves
I avail myself of them
in 5 years on elite there's not been a "tiddly wink" gal exchange with me
funny as I got far with werd

 

[redguru]

chrome balls?

wtf?

do you know someone who carries around 6" Chrome balls? what does he do with them, besides smack them on your chin?

 

[stilleto]

is that 4everhung? does he smack his balls into you a lot?

 

[redguru]

is that 4everhung? does he smack his balls into you a lot?

Sorry but 'stilleto' can not be a target of this store item due to his usergroup status!

 

[stilleto]

Sorry but 'stilleto' can not be a target of this store item due to his usergroup status!

tee hee. take your tongue out of my ass now, thank you.

 

[Quadsweeps Sister]

the good ones always get called early in life
sorry to hear about the loss and your numbness
all in all things will be okay in a few months
hang in there bud

It's so true the best are called up before their chance at greatness...maybe there is a higher purpose for people such as these.

My thoughts and sympathy are with you in this time.

 

[blut wump]

You tone is depressed. I think it's affected you more than you realise.

 

[heatherrae]

I concur, blut wump! Just because you don't burst out into tears or whatever does not mean that it didn't affect you. When my mother died, I went into this hyperactivity for about 2 hours where I just started throwing things out and cleaning. I didn't cry right then. I didn't cry at her funeral either because I was responsible for making sure everything was in order and for giving the eulogy. My grandfather died a month later, and at his funeral I cried so hard that I was a complete wreck. I just had not had time yet to be the weak one. Once someone else was in charge, I had time to mourn both my grandfather and my mother.

Everyone reacts differently. If it truly had not affected you, you would not have even thought about it to post on here.