It really isn't something I can explain.......I feel it. I've been with my wife since I was 16...I'm 26 now....married for 5 years. She is the only woman I have ever been with...emotionally and physically.....I dated other gals prior to marriage....all I could think about was her.
Sure you have fantasies...especially since she is the only woman I have ever been with, but I could never act on them. I've seen what adultry has done to a family....ruins it.
My wife and I repect each other....compromise....and let each other be selfish at times.
Having our daughter just solidified or relationship that much more....we now have something that came from both of us and love more than anything else in this world. For anyone that has children, and doesn't experience this, I feel sorry for. I'm not saying a child in a marriage makes things better...but I can't understand how someone with a wife and child can even contemplate the idea of adultry. Nobody wins.
I really don't know what to say....I pretty mumbled this whole post out and jumped around.....
I love my wife and daughter more than myself.......I don't hurt myself, so there is no way in hell that i would do anything to hurt them.
Ka-Bar...just try to picture your life without your wife and children.....that should be enough to end the temptation.....if not, yor marriage should of already failed.