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We met at my job...... He's a very good looking guy, but no he does not take care of his body the way I would like him to. He is out of shape. I'm not an extremist as far as health and fitness but I take care of myself as it is a requirement for my job and my health. I admire others who do...

Actually, it wasn't so bad in the beginning....I guess 'cause it was something new. Also, he is such a nice person and has the kindest heart. His personality kinda outweighed everything else.

I just recently broke up with my finance. Reason : I love everything about him but I'm not sexually attracted to him at all. He calls and wants us to get back together. I would love to but I don't want to hurt him by rejecting him sexually. Has anyone had this problem? Any advice?

BFL I've read the book. It takes a lot of discipline and determination. My ex is trying it. He is not very disciplined so he is not following it to a T. He strays. He has lost 20lbs in the last four weeks. I do not know if 20lbs in four weeks is healthy for anyone or everyone. But just...

:) There probably is nothing to worry about since it hurts when you touch it. If it was a painless bump however, I would be really concerned. Go see a doctor anyway.