Recent content by willowtree444

Hmmmm. .... Can you maybe get her discreetly in the shower.... you can try the before and after approach, tell her you would like to see the difference between her relaxed look and a muscle shot in a photo,... Or become a spy and lurk around corners. LOL Jen :0)

Just curious. Do you think her back looks too wide all of the time; just when she's working out; and or does she tend to flex her shouldersand lats even on her down time? The reason I ask is that I wasn't aware that I was flexing ( not in a big way but still not completely relaxed,) when I was...

Hi que_66 I'm new to the forum but I know EXACTLY how you feel. I hate to say it but I think it's the turning 40 thing. I magically gained 15 lbs what seems overnight 3 and half years ago when I turned 40. I do have a desk job but I don't think that was it. Your body adapts to daily...

Thanks for the good advice. Still need to lose 10lbs though ( well at least I think it's 10) I'm only 5ft 6inches so I don't think I should be more than 130 to 135, even though muscle weighs more than fat. Jen

undefined Hi Girls, Newbie to this forum. My real name is Jennifer and I'm a 43 year old mother of 2 girls, 11 and 14 year old. Have been back into lifting since the beginning of February of this year and have managed to lose 17 lbs of fat and can now tolerate the way I look. Just nicely...