First thing you need to do is educate your wife about steroids. Once you educate and tell her not to believe the bullshit that the media puts out there she will understand. If she doesn't understand get rid of her because this will put a strain on your marriage.
As long as you aspirated and no blood entered you are fine, same thing happens to me sometimes. If you ever aspirate and blood enters just pull out and stick in a new place
Tried the Winny and liked them I took one a day for 6 weeks. I felt that they added a hardness because my arms felt rock hard. One thing though make sure you take them with deca, eq, or test. I started them alone and by day 7 my joints in my fingers were killing me.