Recent content by firewitch

oh man......way too complex for a bulletin board reply, but here goes: you gotta define true religion. If that means following the prescripts of the religion is the only way to happiness or to heaven, and you believe it is the true religion, you gotta follow the rules, otherwise what is the...

read this in Esquire: Touch her so lightly that you think it is just too light good advice with some women, whether you are using tongue or fingers. When her labia gets swollen she can take more pressure.

I had the same problem when i was young. Then I was with a new guy for the first time, and told him not to worry about me because I never come......... hehehhehhehhee..........boy did he prove me wrong! Bless his heart, he knew what I wanted more than I did, and I never had anyone like him...

It's called performance anxiety, very common, doesn't mean you are gay (sorry wiseguy). I have had it myself, but of course it is not as evident as yours would be. I have heard advice on this subject many times in my reading, and I believe the first approach is to give up the idea of having an...

what are you talking to her about? get some idea what she enjoys doing, (movies? walk the dog? hiking? theatre?) then ask her if she wants to go do that with you, be specific about when. good luck hon, you'll never know if you don't ask

No one has ever talked me into it, although I am also very openminded.....had a finger once or twice in the ass and even that was too much, made me feel as alexi describes..... ....except once. Had a b/f who wanted the vibrator in his hole, but the stink was a total turn-off for me

funny thing, some times i can take the whole thing in, but most often not. I have heard that one can train oneself not to gag, but i can't control the reflex most of the time. I would imagine most men prefer if you can take them all the way in. When I can manage it, I enjoy it, because the guy...

wow..........why is it you guys know what my doctors/nurses/nurse practioners never did? that BC pills change the acidity.......... I put up with years of infections because of this. I am here to tell ya gals....those pills are a blessing but make sure they are not screwing up your body, cuz...

I like to take breaks! wouldn't mind a 2 hour session, but I sure don't want the guy pumping me the whole time. I get sore! long sessions with lots of change in position/location/intensity are nice, but I have to admit my favorite times are the ones where we are both real hot by the time he...

vitamin E? I would guess you already know this, but vitamin E overdose can affect blood clotting ability also..... shouldn't be taking more than 1000 UL daily

I have known 2 people in my life who married because they didn't know how to break up. DON'T DO IT!!!!! Did it ever occur to you that it is in a way an insult to think that this adult woman will not be able to make it without you? If she had kids, it might be different, but one person who is...

It occurs to me that if you really love this lady, it might be worth a trip or two to a sex therapist or a shrink. There might be some subconcious reason why you aren't turned on to her .....I have known people who had this problem. (commitment issues, for example only) Address that, and things...

firewitch nooooo.....we broke up after 3 years, different goals...... and if we had stayed together and wanted kids, genetic testing would have been the only way to go

move on, girl! If sex was important to him, he wouldn't be keeping you waiting 2 years. If sex isn't important to him, he is the wrong one for you. Right? Believe it or not, not all guys are horny, some just think they are when they can't get any. Then when they have free access, they realize...

Honesty is the best policy and the sooner the better. You can't avoid hurting someone in a situation like this, so at least make sure its the truth that hurts and not a lie. ( I don't meant you should be cruel, just tell her you don't think there is a future and you don't want to string her...