Is there some kinda of baby bug in the air?

[Strongbow]

most children don't become human again until they hit their late 20's.

the pastor of my church used to work into his sermons the tale of the teenager/20-something/30-something who was amazed to discover that as he became older his father became smarter.

The circle of life, if only my father were here now, the shit I wish I could ask him. When he was I didn't give a shit what he had to say.

 

[Smurfy]

i think rnch wants a baby

 

[Bikini Mod]

No doubt you look great on the back of Grump's Harley. All kids are a pain in the ass at some point, and I know how you feel, as we have talked about before about situations with kids. All of my kids are just like me, well both of my boys, hard ass, hard headed, and quick tempered. My lil girl is an angel, does No Wrong. They can give you the most joy and turn around and hurt you worse than anything. I have lived thru this shit with my oldest son and after 14 years he has come back to me, even thou he was pumped full of shit his whole life about what an asshole I am. He is 18 now, almost 19 and we are as close as any father and son can be. Keep your head up, I know its hard, I have been there. Don't ever give up. I would think that giving up is not in your nature, from the lil I know about you.

Everytime I hear of an experience like this I am comforted. Gives me hope.

I will never give up, but it is definitely time for me to move on.

If and when my children ever come back to me I will be a living testament to the fact that everything they have been fed about me was utter bunk <--- causes me to hold myself to a higher standard (which IMHO is a good thing). And if they don't, then my life will not have been wasted in despair and paralyzed uselessness. Hopefully if I accomplish all that I set out to do then I will have helped many people

 

[broonzy]

LOL I want to be able to be like Al one day bro, can't do that wit lil babies. Im already starting to look and feel like Al Bundy.

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[rnch]

i think rnch wants a baby

most of my detractors say rnch IS a baby!

 

[Strongbow]

Everytime I hear of an experience like this I am comforted. Gives me hope.

I will never give up, but it is definitely time for me to move on.

If and when my children ever come back to me I will be a living testament to the fact that everything they have been fed about me was utter bunk <--- causes me to hold myself to a higher standard (which IMHO is a good thing). And if they don't, then my life will not have been wasted in despair and paralyzed uselessness. Hopefully if I accomplish all that I set out to do then I will have helped many people

Well your words have helped me out on a couple of occassions, so theres one, and I'm sure there are many others. Live your life, you have too. It was my interactions with my children that brought my oldest back to my side. In his words, I seen how you were with them and I knew that you could not have been who I had been led to beleive you were. His mother has always hated that I chased a dream, one which I begged her to be by my side through and she refused to leave the comfort of her mommy. Funny thing is, her family, grandparents, uncle and sister are closer to me now than they are her. I love my kids and time nor anything will ever take that away. This I am sure you know. My son asked me a lil while ago, if I had learned not to love him, being that we had been seperated so long, and I said I have loved you everyday and now as much as I did the day you were born. They will never fully understand a parents love until they are a parent.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thanks again...

You are correct.

And Rnch... we all know YOU ARE A BABY.

 

[Strongbow]

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I was just saying that trying to make you feel good about yourself, fact is I am a sexy, good looking mutha. I am one of those that will be 60 and look 30. I just got it like that.
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[stilleto]

God no.

It just reminds me of how much work babies are.

They are only cute so we don't end up killing them.

I don't think it has anything to do with logic, probably more to do with hormonal/phermonal signals.

RNCH, I think you should take a look at the thread I started 'what sex is your brain'.

Your concept of male or female logic is scientifically flawed, and what I would assume you have made from subjective experiences, which is an inherently illogical way to try and make logical conclusions.

It is called attribution, bias and confirmational scanning.

You keep looking for evidence to fit your view of the world, and guess what, when you do that, you do, and of course, typically ignore all other evidence to the contrary.

pwned.


seeing other babies, or hearing about them, or having friends have them only makes me SOOOOO glad that i'm not going to have more.
i hate babies. there. i said it.

 

[cindylou]

thanks guys.