Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
Personal trainer hitting on my mrs
- Thread starter Zazingibingi
- Start date
^^^this. I feel proud when I cath dudes checking my girl out (not gawk) but hitting on her is totaly different. So far I'd just ignore it.
canadianhitman
Well-known member
Here's how I look at it: it's not about trusting my girl at all when it's a situation like this.
It's about that guy KNOWING who she's with and still feeling brave. That's disrespect. That's like him saying "I see you, know the situation, and I'm not worried".
Oh, really? You're not?
I'd give him a friendly how's it going at the gym, re-inforce what the situation is in a very cordial matter just so I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is no misunderstanding. Then, if it continues...well, I'd invite him to step into my office to have a more serious discussion (my office being the gym parking lot). Then we'd see if his not being worried was warranted, or a mistake.
It's about the respect, not about trust.
It's about that guy KNOWING who she's with and still feeling brave. That's disrespect. That's like him saying "I see you, know the situation, and I'm not worried".
Oh, really? You're not?
I'd give him a friendly how's it going at the gym, re-inforce what the situation is in a very cordial matter just so I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is no misunderstanding. Then, if it continues...well, I'd invite him to step into my office to have a more serious discussion (my office being the gym parking lot). Then we'd see if his not being worried was warranted, or a mistake.
It's about the respect, not about trust.
Ok Bino. This exact situation happened to me just the other day. I was at the gym with my boyfriend and this chick came up to him and hit on him when I walked away. He told me about it. So what does that mean? How is it different for men?
He's cheating on you bro.
it means he's putting you on guard, letting you know if you dont stop your cunty ways he's got one in the chamber.
It means if you don't get your busted ass grill fixed then he'll leave you
You're wrong.
The trick is the be very lady like in public and anything he wants in the bedroom. I've followed his lead. He had only a small idea of the deviant behavior I'm capable of.
I talked to him about that last night and other issues. He said it was flattering, but I'm Beautiful, intelligent and kind to everyone I meet. He said a lot of other things too, but mostly that a chick like me is rare and he won't chance messing that up. He wanted me to know that I can trust him and that's why he told me.
canadianhitman
Well-known member
I always tell my S/O if some girl is flirting it up with me. Why? Cuz I'm not a sneak.
But it's more than that.
Word gets out eventually. The LAST thing you want is for that S/O to have to hear about some girl constantly trying to flirt with you from a third party...a friend or co-worker or someone like that.
Instead of looking surprised by the info and feeling embarassed about it, she gets to look at whoever is delivering the news and say "I heard about that...he told me and we laughed at it together"
That's important.
Similar threads
