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Author | Topic: Johnny o and other people here i respect i could use advice | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
ok here it is,like i posted on another post i did get some action and we both were drinking but she was drinking more then me and we made out and so on and today she told me she regrets it and feels like a slut,now i feel like i should have stopped it because i wasnt as drunk as her,should i feel like i took advantage of her or should i be happy i got a piece and move on thanx all i really and bummed by this ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 486 |
You will appreciate getting laid one day. If its all you wanted was a piece then move on, if you are interested in more talk to her and tell her that you didnt just want to have sex and leave. ------------------ | ||
Moderator Posts: 1961 |
so just to clarify things... you all got drunk, you all made love, and now the morning after she feels like a slut, and is blaming you? | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
not sex but everything but and i feel i wasnt as drunk as her and im feeling kinda quilty,i wanted mroe then sex from her and i told her that but she is dwelling on this and i kinda feel like i took advantage of ehr,i think she feels that way to for letting me do things to her,what do i do guys ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Moderator Posts: 1961 |
tell her you only wanted to make her feel good, and share things with her that you haven't with any other person, because you want respect her and just want her to be happy. God that sounds sappy, but girls like to hear that stuff. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
i told her i havent done that with anyone else ,maybe i should let her cool down,she lives about 30-45mins away anyway so i doubt id see her often if we hooked up,should i be happy i got some and move on? ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
having a conscience sucks this is rippin me apart inside,i guess its better then being a heartless prick ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 912 |
BETTER YEs, EASIER NO! | ||
Moderator Posts: 1961 |
don't feel guilty.. you both were drinking and judgment was impared. go make her a homemade "i really like you card" .. very romantic. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 912 |
don't feel bad that you have a conscious, it's very rare these days and you should be very thankful for it. i would never take advantage of a girl, even if she totally deserved it i don't know if i could. it's her fault for getting drunk, but try to do a little something to make her feel better without going too far out of your way. but if you guys didn't have sex it's not like she is that slutty or anything either. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1308 |
C Oak, you guys didn't have sex, so ya shouldn't feel all that bad. But I can see why ya do, making people feel low makes you feel low. It comes w/ the conscious, but be glad ya got one they're hard to come by now-a-days and you'll be thankful you have it one day. As to what ya should do; talk to her, make her feel alright again. Find out her favorite flower and get her one (damn working in a flower shop got to me sooner than I thought) and Johnny's idea may seal the deal in making her feel good. ------------------ | ||
Guru Posts: 2120 |
so you raped an innocent girl? actually, i dont care what she says, unless she was passed out shit faced drunk, she KNEW what she was doing!!! she wants to hear you say how you care about her to justify HER actions... if she didnt want it to go that far, your dick would be in her kitchen sink and ground up. dont worry dude, you did nothing wrong, you went with the flow, be happy you got some, be happy you may dig her, and hope she is just playing "nottawhore" by her needing to feel wanted instead of used. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
guys those r the answers i need i jsut couldnt find them,thanx guys i am gonna call her and see what she says ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Moderator Posts: 1455 |
I didn't read the whole thread but... are you telling me you guys didn't have sex but you feel like you took advantage of her????? when I was your age, We did a lot worst and the girl would still call you the next day. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 912 |
hmm, on second thought madbomber has a good point too. anyway i don't got a clue of what i'm talking about. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
i sent her a card and attatched a voice message she isnt "home" and she will call me back later ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 738 |
I WOULD BE CAREFUL, YOU WILL WIND UP IN JAIL! ------------------ | ||
Novice Posts: 1 |
Did you ever see that movie "Kids" ???? just wondering. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1143 |
Hahahaha Mrs. Big Rock Hahahaaha | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1143 |
Oak: Seriously bro, don't you think you're being a bit melodramatic about this? Don't always believe what she's saying bro. Drunk or not she still had her choice in the matter. I think people use alcohol as an excuse most of the time. And trust me, I've got the experience to know. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 319 |
read madbombers thread 10 times, and don't even worry about it. you did'nt slam the chic, so don't fret it! ------------------ | ||
Moderator Posts: 1455 |
Holly shit!!! she is here lol lol lol lol, My girl signed on to Elite, Ohh fuck here we go, I won't be able to post shit anymore. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 319 |
fuck rock, i was lol when i seen that. i figured you were just fucking around! thats too funny! ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
i know why i feel bad and ill have to live with it ,i made her feel low like rex said now i feel bad,ill get over it one day thanx for all the help ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1120 |
Not only will you get over it one day, you will get over it in the very near future, trust me, you wont be feeling guilty for that much longer, its just fresh on your mind right now, and by the way, like everyone else said, you both knew what you were doing, so you didn't take advantage of her. Most girls I know feel like sluts after they get drunk and bang someone, but I guess you didn't screw so who cares. ------------------ | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 394 |
LOL... it's the oldest trick in the world. Girl gets drunk, fucks your brains out (which is what she wanted) then blames the alcohol for acting this way, she wants you to think she's not really a slut and she sure doesn't want that to get around. SLUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! fuck her again dude or whatever you did with her, do it again: this time sober, and see what her excuse will be this time. ------------------ "how much can you really know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?" Tyler Durden | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 696 |
Don't feel guilty, you did not do anything wrong. That is the oldest trick in the book what she said to you. "don't think I am a slut, I feel like a slut etc" TRANSLATION: "I am a slut". Keep playing her, just remember, if you are saying things to her that almost make you puke, and if your friends would kick you ass for, you are feeding her the right bullshit. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
whoa guys im not out for a fuck i really like her,i dotn think shes a slut she hasnt done this kinda thing b4 so i dont think she is and she still wants to be friends which is good cuz id like a relationship out of this.and i actually mean things i tell women i dont feed them crap ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Guru Posts: 2120 |
big rick, whatcha mean your girl signed on here... fill us in man... allow us to ruin your life... my tramp is here, i dont care at all, i never posted one lie so who cares. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 696 |
Oak. Even if you really do like her, you have to feed them some shit up front to get the ball rolling. If you do like her a lot you better slow down and make sure you don't just spill your guts on how much you like her or you will scare her away. Trust me on that one. Every girl I have ever know says they hate it when a guy is way too into them at the beginning and breaks down and dumps it on them. Play it cool and kiss some ass. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
im just honest and tell her nice things all the time but i mean it,i dont say it to get brownie point although it usually turns out that way,she knows i like her and i told ehr thats and thats why i didnt stop the things we did ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 15 |
drinking at a party, thats kid stuff, u gotta hit that herion | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 24 |
Brotah Oak - you're a sweet kid. Just relax, we were all young once, and we all did stuff we would've done differently had we not been drinking (Except the fucking thing - personally, if I was gonna fuck a guy, I did it stone cold sober....I wanted to enjoy it too!) Now, if she DID have sex w/you and tried to blame it on the alcohol..that is a different story altogether. Take it from me, if a girl conducts herself in this fashion....dump her. Her self-esteem is WAY TOO LOW. ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1091 |
Next time you two are drinking, take her by the hand and do it in the butt. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
we didnt have sex but went down on each other,she is just really upset,im gona be here for her cuz she lives in a small town of 20 thousand and all her friends know and she feels bad,but things will be good in a few weeks i hope ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1143 |
Just make sure you fuck her next time. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 90 |
Could be she was disapointed with your "package" | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
i knew there would be one fucking asshole who opens his mouth and acts like a dumb fucking cunt, fuck you buddy this is serious i dont need that shit fucker ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 90 |
It was a joke. No insults were intended. Your reply was way out of line. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
i appoligize but if you would have put j/k after i would ahve realized that im man enuff to admit when im wrong,im sorry i exploded im jsut very furstrated and upset with the last few days ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 90 |
Really, i'm not an asshole. I guess I was not aware this so serious. Cultures are different and I sometimes assume everyone here are friends. My friends and I bust each others balls all the time with no true intent.(just American I guess) Truely best wishes with your situation. I should learn not to assume people I don't know are like my friends Peace Iron Brother, | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 322 |
Bro, don't feel guilty for one minute. You didn't do anything wrong. You showed great restraint not to drill her brains out. ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1143 |
Am I the only one who thinks this is a big fucking overreaction? Gimme a fucking break. You made out with a chick. Big deal. No offense bro, but who gives a shit????? | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 795 |
im irish canadain actually and i did flip and i truly am sorry,frack this is serious shes freaking cuz it was the first time she has gone down on a guy and had a guy go down on her,it wouldnt be that big of a deal but shes really upset and i feel bad cuz i was involved ok sorry that it seems like nothing to u but i find it big cuz i care ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started |
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