Perhaps my opinion was somewhat skewed – I didn’t read it “date” per se, I answered as if it was just a one night stand situation. I would only date a married person if I felt she was that one in a million match (which is not likely) , and only if she stated herself, that she would be happier with me. Kids would negate the whole thing for me. The ‘sleep’ with thing can be justified for me by the fact I am doing nothing wrong, she pledged to abstain from carnal relations with others not me. Plus she obviously isn’t getting what she needs at home – hence its simply supply and demand, she demands and I supply.