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Why Do Young Women?

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Feel like they are to young to be involved in a seriose relationship. Even if the realtionship is wonderful and the guy is someone you could very easily see youself married to. But there seems to be some need to DATE assholes or party for a while, just to say hey I did that. Why is this, I can except it for a variety of reasons. People need to experience all aspects of life ect...

But if it's right why do you have to taste every dish on the menu.

just one mans observation
 
The more important question, bloke, is why do you use a fuzzy picture as your bloody avatar?
 
Men do this.....alot...maybe even moreso then women do...

they just feel like they're going to "miss out" on something if they don't party and live it up....so they use that as a reason to not get into relationships
 
i am not an expert with paintpro may...this is how it came out when I downsized it...

a more important question is what is going to be in your avatar?
 
Guys are the same way man. At least I was, I threw away a few good women to be a dawg when I was in my early twenties. Now I am thirty and the good ones are all gone.

People are self-centered today, and independent. Put off relationships and family to develop careers. Then have careers and have no time for relationships and family.

Just move on bro, eventually what you seek you will find
 
HighIntensity said:
a more important question is what is going to be in your avatar?
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A) I'm not that bloomin' May.


B) I don't know ... but I promise you it'll be totally inappropriate!
 
Hmm... Well not always, I'm a lot younger than my Boyfriend, And im pretty young myself, and Were in a serious relationship and i cherish every moment i spend with him , :)
 
thanks far I have moved on just wanted some thoughts I see it a lot these days...

I put everything into my past 2 relationships, and am just wondering if I should hold back on the effort till a little latter in life...
 
Wasn't trying to bash men or anything....this happens in both sexes...but it's funny how the media portrays the typical story...the woman is the desparate one who wants a commitment right away when the man cant even pronounce or say the word without getting chills....bad representation if you ask me....I've been seeing more and more women lately take up the man's role in this situation...now more girls want to have a good time and not be tied down...
 
it may be hard to swallow but, HI why don't you just loosen up a little and have some fun? forget about commiting to one and just see what is out there, know what I mean mang?
 
this is so true PINK! good call...I think women got sick of guys being dogs, so hell if you can't change em join em'
 
HighIntensity said:
thanks far I have moved on just wanted some thoughts I see it a lot these days...

I put everything into my past 2 relationships, and am just wondering if I should hold back on the effort till a little latter in life...
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I don't know how old you are man. But I held out and woke up at thirty. Most women my age have been married (numerous times) and have kids. I shoudn't say much cause I raise my 3 yr. old nephew, so I got luggage too, LOL.Just keep going, it will come. You seem to be a cool dude and will have luck eventually.
 
Yea im going to try Champ...

I never wanted to hurt someone by dateing multi people, and quite frankly its not really my style.

I like being commited...I don't see the problem in being devoted to someone...For me its cool to be single or in a relationship...but i never understood the in between. I did the whole hooking up thing for a while, and hated it....hey everyones got there thing...

I think its cool to love some one, im not going to hide that

im 25 so its not 2 young
 
Actually, most young women go into the dating scene as innocent girls looking for a perfect guy and their own Prince Charming, and unfortunately they either get hurt real young. When I was in HS, all the girls that finally got bf's were sure that they were in love and that this was the man they were meant to be with. And it normally doesn't work out that way for one reason or another. Then they get out of the relationship and see what they are missing and fellow ladies tell them to get out and hooch it up. It makes a heart broken girl feel good to get hit on again!! And yes, both men and women do this, but more often than not, men are the ones going out and partying and "sampling" shall we say
 
FarBeyondDriven said:
MAybe Kittie is NYC-boy, she is advertising his gay muskle necklaces in her signature
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I dunno if he seems smart enough for all those big British words. Maybe there is an online translator somewhere.
 
Its true for a lot of people, I am not one of them, Id never break up with someone on the grounds of "I wanna know what else is out there"
 
HighIntensity said:
thanks far I have moved on just wanted some thoughts I see it a lot these days...

I put everything into my past 2 relationships, and am just wondering if I should hold back on the effort till a little latter in life...
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I don't think it's good to hold back. I know when I enjoy being with someone and everything feels right....I am in it 110%. I will not put on a show just to please someone else...giving my all in a relationship that I want to be in is just me...

If I push them away, then it wasn't meant to be...that's the way I look at it.
 
Whoa HI, I am 20 years old, and I do not see myself as too young for a serious relationship. Hell, I may be too careful. You could ask a couple of members of this board and they would tell you that. Relationships are not something that I want to play around with. Trust me, right now, I may be screwing myself over because I won't take a chance with this one guy. And you know what? He's a wonderful guy that I COULD see myself with married 50 years from now with kids and grandkids. But I am not going there because I think it would be best for both of us if I didn't. So don't say that we play around. That's not the case with everyone. And I don't mean to rant at you hun. I know things are rough on you too.
 
Night Fly said:


I don't think it's good to hold back. I know when I enjoy being with someone and everything feels right....I am in it 110%. I will not put on a show just to please someone else...giving my all in a relationship that I want to be in is just me...

If I push them away, then it wasn't meant to be...that's the way I look at it.
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good way to be, only thing that sux about being in it 110% is you can be hurt a lot worse then keeping part of you out. I guess life is all about chances, Im still scared of being hurt though
 
Austin316 said:


good way to be, only thing that sux about being in it 110% is you can be hurt a lot worse then keeping part of you out. I guess life is all about chances, Im still scared of being hurt though
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Why be scared of being hurt? If you are always scared then you may not ever find what you are looking for. What is life without risks???
 
Yeah I know, Im working on it lol. Ill take the chance, everyone has to, its the only way to really find out
 
hey no prob PHATchick,

I was just looking for some good conversation on this topic.

mainly because my ex was 5 years younger and she said to me in our last conversation "I will probley kick myself everday for letting you go, you are the most amazing man...and will be a wonderful husband..." but I have dated you for so many years and just want to see what else is out there?"

And yea it stung...but comments like yours have helped me to understand the thought process...
 
HighIntensity said:
hey no prob PHATchick,

I was just looking for some good conversation on this topic.

mainly because my ex was 5 years younger and she said to me in our last conversation "I will probley kick myself everday for letting you go, you are the most amazing man...and will be a wonderful husband..." but I have dated you for so many years and just want to see what else is out there?"

And yea it stung...but comments like yours have helped me to understand the thought process...
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Let her kick herself, if she loved you completely those words never would of come out of her mouth
 
it does suck, Im a complet opposite when Im drunk though, Ill talk to anyone liek they are my best friend of 10 years. Thats not a good thing to have to rely on though
 
HighIntensity said:
hey no prob PHATchick,

I was just looking for some good conversation on this topic.

mainly because my ex was 5 years younger and she said to me in our last conversation "I will probley kick myself everday for letting you go, you are the most amazing man...and will be a wonderful husband..." but I have dated you for so many years and just want to see what else is out there?"

And yea it stung...but comments like yours have helped me to understand the thought process...
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SHe doesn't know what she missed out on. And I'm glad I helped you a little. But I am not doing this because I want to see what else is out there. If you have a good man, then don't let him go. She was stupid. I have my reasons.
 
PinK233 said:
I am the queen of holding back...I'm too afraid to get hurt....it sucks sometimes
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Me too. If you don't care enough to be persistent in convincing me that I can trust you not to hurt me, then I figure it's not meant to last anyway.

Hey HighIntensity, why do you ask? Just how 'young' is this girl you are talking about??? j/k. lol ;)
 
I guess alot of us hear stories about how relationships turn sour in the end because you were with the same person for so long ever since you were ye tall, and never had a chance to see what was 'out there' and then you end up resenting your significant other. It doesn't always end up sour of course, but after having enoug experience dating other people, I know more about myself and what kind of person I need, and I will appreciate whoever I do end up with THAT much more....the good along with the bad, and not 'wonder', but KNOW that that other grass is not greener.
 
Sexual Mustard said:
this thread is another reason why B.I.T.C.H.S. exists. My ex is like what you described.
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Hopefully you will get over that one day and realize that there really are some good women out there! :)
 
Night Fly said:


Hopefully you will get over that one day and realize that there really are some good women out there! :)
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Like me ;) j/k, but yes there are nice women out there you just need to know where to look:)
 
Virtual Acid said:



Like me ;) j/k, but yes there are nice women out there you just need to know where to look:)
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I'll be another to agree with this statement. THere are good women out there. Don't give up yet hun.
 
PHATchik said:


I'll be another to agree with this statement. THere are good women out there. Don't give up yet hun.
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you are up very early!



anyhows

for me i just notice their lack of commital to anything stems from the type of guy a lot of thm are interested in at that age
 
danielson said:


you are up very early!



anyhows

for me i just notice their lack of commital to anything stems from the type of guy a lot of thm are interested in at that age
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I'm not UP early. I never went to bed. Pulling an all nighter. :bawling:

But my final is in an hour and twenty minutes. Then I can sleep afterward.
 
PHATchik said:


I'm not UP early. I never went to bed. Pulling an all nighter. :bawling:

But my final is in an hour and twenty minutes. Then I can sleep afterward.
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awww sorry to hear that :(

finals suck. at least you can sleep like crazy for a long tim,e and not have to worry now

my exams on friday :(

good luck:)
 
Virtual Acid said:



Like me ;) j/k, but yes there are nice women out there you just need to know where to look:)
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can you help a brotha out....give me a hint?:confused:
 
Sexual Mustard said:
this thread is another reason why B.I.T.C.H.S. exists. My ex is like what you described.
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Sorry....you don't sound too happy about that...But remember that the next girl you meet might be someone like me, someone who ventured out on their own to make mistakes for themselves and find out for themselves what they really want, and is now ready to meet the right one. And once they do, she will appreciate you THAT much more for exactly who you are, no unrealistic expectations, no trying to turn you into someone/something else. As sad as I will be to see B.I.T.C.H.S die out....hahahaha who am I kidding, I would not be sad if that happened. You have just left your heart hardened for too long that's all. :)
 
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