WHY do people do this?

[madbomber31]

why do people KNOW something is wrong or right and go against it anyway? i'm not talking breaking laws.. i mean with relationships and things... someone may KNOW they dont love someone else yet they make a decision that is so against it.... do people try to trick themselves?


why do people want someone more when that other person doesnt want them? is it the challenge?

 

[KAYNE]

YOU CANT PICK AND CHOOSE WHO YOU CARE FOR.



KAYNE

 

[big4life]

why do people want someone more when that other person doesnt want them? is it the challenge?

For a lot of people it is all about the challenge. They want what they don't have or can't have.

 

[mattcanning99]

why do people want someone more when that other person doesnt want them? is it the challenge?

i can only answer this question from personal experience with my first ex gf...let me tell you, i treated her like gold, and she hated every minute of it, while her ex bf had treated her like horse shit plain and simple, and she loved him more than anything (and still did when we were going out, a year after breaking up with him).

a friend of mine then said that it might have had something to do with the fact she had no father figure her whole life...and she was used to male abandonment...made sense to me.

as for other people, i think people feel uncomfortable when people dont like them, and that makes them feel bad, so as a result they try harder to be friends with that person, its reverse psychology sort of. when they see a person doesnt need them, they try to make that person want them anyway.

 

[OMEGA]

3 simple ansewers.

1)for most the grass is greener on the either side

2) when you cease to inspire, or challenge the person you are with they get bored, and move else where.

3) alot of people have self detruct meachanisms that they push when things get to confortable or good. so even when a relationship is going well..they must find something wrong with it.

 

[spongebob]

3 simple ansewers.



3) alot of people have self detruct meachanisms that they push when things get to confortable or good. so even when a relationship is going well..they must find something wrong with it.

i have seen this so much, these are the people who love "drama" in thier lives.